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A friendship turning into maybe a dating thing?


Question Posted Sunday August 8 2004, 3:13 am

Well their is this guy that I have know since I was like 6 or older. we have always seen each other and I have always had a crush on him. he is like 20 turning 21 in feburary. I am only like 15 turning 16 in october. Is it bad for having a crush or like maybe a thing wit him even if he is a lil older then me? I like him so much but I don't know if my parents would like that he is older and I am so young for him. When we see each other too. we have so much stuff to talk about together and we are happy when we see each other and It hurts me when other girls hurt him. I don't want to do. well thank you Jenny,16,female

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TucanFullOfHoles answered Sunday August 8 2004, 3:00 pm:
nah, people get married from anywhere between 10 to 30 years.

wait a few years before you start to let those feelings out to other people. maybe with him it would be alright, but i wouldn't tell the folks for awhile. parents are weird.

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Taylor_mariee answered Sunday August 8 2004, 2:09 pm:
um.. girl thats lyk illegall so a crush is cool but you cnat do anything cuz if yous got caught he could lyk go to jail! hope i helped rate me
bye <3.Taylor

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HurleyGurley answered Sunday August 8 2004, 1:24 pm:
i think that your relationship would be fine just maybe wait a while before you do anything..think it over, ask your parents about it, talk to him! ask him what he thinks and if he wants the same thing, i hope all goes well! :) xoxo

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KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 1:14 pm:
talk to ur folks! and ask them if its ok! and how they feel about it and how u feel about it..and im sure that everyone has said this but i mean it would relaly help out the situation a lot! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota ~If YoU nEeD nE tHiNg ElSe JuSt DrOp OnE iN mY iNbOx

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ASKLane answered Sunday August 8 2004, 1:14 pm:
well if he is in college i think yiu mAY BE TO YOUNG and if he isnt tAKE a shot AT HIM BECUase if he is in college he is gonnA BE FLIRTIN WITH ALOT OF PPL

SINCERELY asklANE

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Dont_Fall_Twice answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:29 pm:
Well I would talk to you parent... Everyone says that... But I think it would help. I mean maybe they'll understand since you've known him for so long. I dunno... Talk to him too, see what he thinks about yalls realationship. Does he see a dating future for yall's relationship or just like a bro/sis kinda deal? I dunno talk to him first, and then your parents and things should be alright... Hope all goes well -Britty-

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Chriso61o answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:26 pm:
If your comfortable being around him than idk why not....but being the age difference its gonna be hard to have a relationship because your in high school now and hes in collage so thats somthing you have to concider

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xokristabelle answered Sunday August 8 2004, 11:55 am:
Well...I think maybe you should discuss it with your parents, but if you're not comfortable with that, think it over for a little bit and if you're abosolutely sure, go for it. You should know, though, that it's illegal for you guys to have sex and if you did then he could go to jail. Good luck!

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SweetStarx89 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 11:19 am:
Hi. wow this is gonna make me cry...lol anyways i would talk to my parents first about dating him. since you said that you have been friends with him since forever then i'm sure your parents know almost everything about him...and if you are really in love age doesnt matter and as long as you two feel comforable about it them nothing should matter. good luck! i hope i helped! x3 SweetStar

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lilangelshan08 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 8:56 am:
i think i can help you with that, my best friend/ex boyfriend is 21 and i'm 17, so i know how you feel. here's what i did, i just talked to my mom about him. and she said that as long as there's no sex invovled (or i talk to her before i do have sex with him) then she said that it was ok. don't try dating him behind your parent's backs because that almost never works. good luck and i hope i helped.
*~*shan*~*

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