if u keep dreaming about the same thing/person.. what does that mean? like, why would i keep dreaming about someone that i don't really thing about during the day? thank youuu
You can distract yourself during the day by doing other things, but if something really has your attention or something is really bothering you, it can manifest itself in dreams. It really doesn't mean a whole whole lot, it just means that your mind is fixated on some thing/person. If your dreams are reoccuring, I would assume that you are very fixated on some thing/person.
Sometimes when you dream your brain fires off thoughts and feelings and stuff that has happened. So, it may just be something that is in your mind, and while your brain is active during sleep, it is what comes up.
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Sometimes when im alone in my room i will talk to myself..like its hard to explain but i talk to myself out loud..except i answer myself too..its like i work myself thru my problems by talking to myself..does anyone else do this? or is there something wrong with me? i feel stupid for doing it and if anyone were to ever hear me i would die but is it okay to do this?
More people than willing to admit it talk to themselves. If they say they don't, they are lying liars.
When I was in high school, I talked to myself a lot. It was mainly because I was very shy and intorverted and spent a lot of time by myself. I had to work everything out on my own.
It can be kind of embarassing to get caught having a convo with yourself. You should join some kind of drama class. That way if someone catches you, you can say you are just practicing dialouge.
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ok, im going to be straight forward with this...
i have an unusually large penis, 10 inches, and my girlfriend is afraid to have sex with me because of it. She has no issues with any other kind of sexual activities, but she does NOT want that thing in her. what do i do?
Ease her into it. If she is really that frightened, then go slowly with her.
Most women respond very well to some kind of romantic kissing and touching and such. If you are very gentle and slow, you may be able to ease her into it if she is comfortable that you will be gentle and easy during sex. Once she is used to your size, then you can bang the shit out of her.
She probably just has to trust that you will be gentle and not hurt her during sex. So, do so.
Don't listen to the dipshit underneath me. You don't want to get her drunk. Easing into sex involves trust. If you take their advice, it might backfire on you.
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16/F, Recently, this guy told me how he felt and he said that he loved me since 7th grade. I'm thinking isn't just an obsession or a huge crush? and is it possible to love someone even if you're not with that person and you don't have a relationship with that person?
If you know who someone is, it is very possible to love them without having a relationship. Have you ever had a crush or really liked a guy or guy friend you went to school with, but never had a relationship with yet or at all? It is the same thing.
It is a huge crush, and there is something about you that stuck him. If you are friends, it may be that you are the kind of person that he would like to be with. If you just know each other from school it might just be a physical attraction and the person he percieves you to be that he has fallen in love with. That, my dear, is far from obsession.
If he can tell you what you wore everyday last week, including underwear..then, be worried. If he rides past your house or just seems to show up everywhere you are, then maybe. But, it is probably just an innocent admission of feelings in hopes you might return them.
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ok it has been two years for me liking this guy we have went out and broke up several times... currently he is going out with this other girl and it is making me annoyed! I really don't want to like him anymore but i just can't stop and anyways i no for a fact that he likes me bc when i told him i liked him he asked me if i would ever go out with him after him and the other girl broke up...
what should i do about no likeing him anymore cause i really dont want to like him!!! please respond quickly
P.S. know i just cant let go ive been trying for 2 years!!!!!!!!!
The fact that he asked you if you would go back out with him AFTER he breaks up with a different girl should be one big huge giant flashing red warning sign saying "He doesn't love you...He doesn't love you."
Right now, you are back up. Sorry. If he wanted to you and loved you as much as you claim to love him, he wouldn't be with that girl and he wouldn't be asking you if you would date him WHEN HE DECIDES TO COME AROUND AGAIN.
How about not waiting for him, and find someone who is available and wanting you. As wise friend of mine once said...
"The best way to get over a boy is by kissing another one."
It is a waste of your time and energy to want someone who is taken and not available for you to have. Just date around. You will much happier doing what it is you want to do then waiting on someone who may or may not come around again. Go out with your friends and meet new guys. New and better guys and pretty soon you won't be thinking about whats-his-face...
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Yes, I am sure everyone is getting sick of these "does he like me" questions. But, you have to understand the only reason they are being asked is because we sometimes can't tell as well as a 3rd party would. So, here it goes...I seen this guy I know at the video store & he walked out with me to the parking lot & we ended up standing there for a good half an hour talking. He made some sexual remarks, jokingly. Then, he even said, "you in the market for a boyfriend because your all gussied up." And, yes he was looking at me a lot. Now, does he actually kinda like me or do ya think he was being "friendly." Sometimes, I just can't tell. Thanks.
I would bet he just noticed you were looking nice. Some people are just nosy. They ask questions and may seem interested, but really, they just want to know your business.
He didn't ask you out, he didn't ask for your number, and he probably wasn't expecting to see you looking "all gussied up"
I wouldn't just assume he likes you from that. I would just shake my head and go on with my business. If you run into him again, and he asks you out, say yes if you are interested or say no if you aren't. Other than that, I wouldn't think about it too much. People are strange.
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im 15
this happened a while ago but i still am not sure...so my bf fingered me then a week later broke up with me...
what im asking is: is fingering a big deal?
thank you
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Fingering is oral sex..ahahahahahhahahahahahaha...
Sorry about that. helpmechrissy is a total idiot and shouldn't be giving adivce to the stuffed animals on her bed, let alone, someone who asked a understandable question.
Oral = use of mouth
Fingering = use of fingers or digits
But, I am sure you already knew that.
If you aren't hurt over this, meaning still thinking about it all the time and crying over it, then I would say it isn't a big deal.
It probably wasn't anything about you that was a reason for the break up, he was just being a young boy. People break up after first kissing and after first sexual experiences, it is just a relationship that wasn't going to work out.
That kind of question can only be defined situationally. It is your situation, so what you think is what it is. If you are not bothered or hurt by it anymore, then I wouldn't waste too much time wondering about it. What happens in your relationships are your business and no one else's. Don't feel bad and make no apologies.
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this is probably the wrong category. again. but oh well.
i've been asking lots of questions lately so sorry.
okay. this is goingn to sound dumb but whatever. when i get horny i masturbate, and blahblah. but once i climax, i'm done, and i'm just like, "okay. whatever. how could i not resist doing that?" i don't know why, and it's kind of annoying. maybe i should just stop doing it so much and then my 'orgasm' if that's even what it is, would last longer.
i also feel kind of guilty afterwards, because i'm already paranoid of having something happen to my family or pets, and though i'm not really, really religious i do believe in god, and i pray occasionally, so i'm worried that he's going to punish me for masturbating, even though i'm not hurting anyone or thinking of anyone when i do it.
sorry my questions are all kind of messed up but i don't want to ask people in real life. haha.
thank you.
Masturbate all you want. God himself masturbates 5 times a day. What do you think sleet is? He really only gets horny when it is cold enough to rain, but not really cold enough to snow.
But, I don't believe in God so I think you should be able to do whatever you want.
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the guy i like, we were getting along so great!!!! he even treated me like his girlfriend! well now something is going wrong. all of a sudden he hasnt been talkting to me for the past 2 weeks. just like that. click! i dont get it. i didnt do nuthin wrong. we had so much fun together. there are 3 and a half more days of school left and i want to talk to him real bad but im afraid to because im afraid he doesnt want to talk to me for some reason and hell get annoyed if i do or something. i always walk past him and stuff. we never make eyecontact anymore and we never talk and before i had this gut feeling that he liked me too before but now i dont feel anything. my question is what can i do to get him to talk to me again. just like to start a conversation. i did it the first time im just afraid now. thats how the whole thing got started. we were switching classes and all of a sudden i talk to him about my groups project and everything was fine from there. can i get some tips on what i should say to start a conversation. to get things fired up again. im also afraid to tell him i like him or call him. what would i say for that? i always think negative. so what can i do to talk to him or get him to talk to me?
If you want him to talk to you, you are going to have to talk to him.
Start off by saying that you would like to keep in touch over the summer. Say that maybe you could hang out and see a movie every once in a while.
Tell him you think he is fun and you want to keep in touch over the summer.
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I was wondering if anyone knew some places (expensive or cheap) that have cute boho clothes and accessories. I always wear clothes from American Eagle, Hollister, and abercrombie, but im tired of looking like everyone else.
If you are tired of looking like everyone else, then why are you thinking about buying clothing that is part of the most current popular fad?
How about looking for clothes that you like and that look good on you. That should be all that matters. Personal style is what will set you apart, not buying into the latest fashion fad.
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I have light brown hair, blue eyes, and light skin. I need to know what color eyeliner is best for me and how i should apply it, and what kind i should get. Also, what color mascara and what kind do you reccomend (brands, etc.)
You want a golden color eyeshadow, a brown or dark brown eyeliner applied from mid lid to outside corner of the eye and for dramatic lashes, black mascara. If your eyes are smaller, don't apply the liner along the bottom lash line and go for a thiner line along the top lash line.
If your eyes are large or wide, go for a thicker line and line the bottom lashes.
Find a sheer pinky lip gloss.
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I have this friend, L, and she has been saying the guy I like, N, likes me back. She's also being saying stuff to me that she swears he said. But my other friend, E, (the best friend of N) says that she asked him and he said he never said that stuff, and that even if he did he did, he wounldn't tell L. So I want to believe L, but I don't know if i should. What do I do and who should I believe???
This is what happens when instead of direct communication with someone, you have more people involved than who really needs to be. The only people you should believe are yourself and the guy you like.
You need to find out what he thinks and anything else is just specualtion.
Don't believe either of them, find out from the guy you like yourself.
If you have any courage, just say that your friend has been saying stuff and you just want to know what is really going on.
If she is lying, then she is caught, and she should have known better than to lie. She will have no one to blame but herself. Now excuse me, my dog is barking at something and disrupting the entire neighborhood.
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Ever since I was 14, I could read people's minds. It scared me at first, and it still sort of does because I don't know much about it.
Sometimes it happens randomly. I'll be thinking of something and suddenly I start to think something completely different that I can't control. This has happened with my siblings and parents before, and I've been able to tell them exactly what they were thinking/feeling.
My family is thinking about sending me to a doctor (I know this because they think about it alot). But there's nothing wrong with me.
Is this mind-reading thing normal? How do I tell my parents to not send me away? =(
If you are able to read your family's "minds" then there is a real reason behind it. Often when people are very close to one another, they start to think alike. You can finish each others sentences and often say things at the same time. You can even tell what it is they are thinking because you know them very well and can accurately GUESS what it is that they would be thinking. It is just being close and understanding the other person. It is not psychic ability.
If you think you can read random peoples minds, then I would start to find out if what you are thinking their thoughts are, are in fact what they are really thinking. If it is, then you are probably one of the only people on the planet who can actually do this.
Some people just pay more attention to what others are doing and what they may be feeling than others do. There is nothing wrong with it, but it is not psychic ability.
Be prepared to be poked and prodded by the scientific community to figure out what is so special about you.
Or, you can go off and become famous like David Blaine or Cris Angel. Just don't be like Cris Angel, he tries to hard to be deep and mysterious and just comes off like a douche. Make some money and become rich.
I would guess that you aren't psychic and just really know your family and friends well. There is no reason for them to send you away for that.
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Okay, once I was looking at some questions, and I came across this girl who had this problem. Though after she was done explaining her problem she gave a list of ways that she would like the question to be answered. The most non secencial one was when she said, "For all you people who TlaK lyk DIs" Don't bother answering. That just pissed me off because if you REALLY need help, then you wouldn't care how people answered your question, as long as it gets answered in the first place. My question is: If people list ways to answer their question, then how are we suppose to answer it honestlly if we can't fully express our feelings due to their moranic limitations?
It is the same thing as asking only people who know about the subject to answer your question.
You don't want complete idiots to respond to what you ask. You want someone who is taking your question seriously to answer your question so you don't have to weed through responses that are stupid and a waste of time. You come to this site for real answers, albeit some are sarcastic and funny, but they are real nonetheless.
I can't say that I blame anyone for asking people to not talk like a dumbass or type in a way that is hard to see or understand.
If someone who asks a question gives guidelines as to the answers they want, meaning, if you are going to tell me the truth, then don't bother because I only want to hear what I want to hear, then screw them and risk a 1 to let them know what this site is really about.
They are only screwing themselves out of advice and differing points of view.
You can fully express what feelings you have and what you think without resorting to TyPe lIkE ThIs n' horrible chat speak. I think this person just wanted her question to be answered intelligently.
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Okay so I'm pretty thin; 5'4 and 110 lbs. I really don't like fat, at all on girls. I think girls should be thin and wear a pants size no bigger than a 3 or 5. Five is pushing it.
All my friends are thin and have nice figures as well, like me but I have a few that don't. I mean, they aren't huge but they wear like a 5 in Abercrombie pants. And those of you that shop there know that their sizes run bigger. When I see them in like a bikini (we're always at my house laying out and stuff) I want to throw up.
I don't know why I feel this way and I feel extremely bad sometimes because in my head, I want them to loose weight.
Now, I assure you that I have never said anything along those lines to them and I NEVEERR would, ever. I know I have some sort of problem with weight so I know better than so say something to them.
Does anyone have any ideas on how I can get over this?
You have to ask yourself why it bothers you so much that other girls aren't as thin.
Most women, in fact the majority of women, aren't meant to be a size 5. I am 5'8 and almost 1/2 and to be healthy, I could not be anything smaller than a six. I can wear a size 8/6 and have a flat stomach and look good in a two piece. I have wide hips and even two days after my death, I wouldn't be able to fit into a size five.
Every body is different. It isn't doing anything to you, if your friends are a size 5 or larger. Do you think it reflects badly on you? That having friends that have some fat on their bodies (as women NEED to have in order to support a fetus when pregnant)makes you look bad? They are not you and you are not fat, so I am wondering what the underlying cause is for you to feel so strongly about this. Once you figure out the underlying cause, you can work on changing it.
Do you hate it to make yourself feel better? I know that some of the time, people can pick out flaw (perceived or not) and find huge fault in it to boost themselves up by not having that particular flaw.
Do you hate fat so much so that you will never gain weight? Is it that you never want to be that way, so you see the most smallest amount of it and are repulsed by it?
I am not saying you are doing any of this, I am just exploring here. I will assume you are female since you said that your friends come over and lay out.
You are gonna have to find a way to get over yourself. People won't live by your standards, and you will drive yourself nuts and drive your friends away eventually hating on the littlest bit of fat. Even if you never utter a word to your friends, body language and attitude still show. Eventually one of them is going to pick up on something, you hate weight pretty strongly.
You just have to find a way to figure out what is really behind your hate of fat.
If nothing I have asked you rings a bell, you might have to realize that you are just shallow. But, at least you know it, and you aren't being hateful with it. Everybody is shallow about something, maybe yours is weight.
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My family and I own, 3 dogs. None of them have ever bothered this woman, nor her animals. Our past dogs might have, but not these.
A few minutes ago I herd someone shooting. So I walked out on porch and sure enough there she was aiming at our dogs or at least trying to scare them away. This has happened numerous times and since we live in a very rural area, there is no animal control. Nor, do the police care.
I went back in the house and told my parents. After that I walked back out on the porch and herd her say, "Next time you come in my yard, you'll be a dead dog!!". I mean, this woman is in her 70's. She has about two dozen cats and god knows that our dogs would NEVER bother them.
The last real problem we had out of her (or at least suspected her) was 4 of our dogs died. They were antifreeze poisoned and we strongly believed and still believe that it was her. This is beginning to be a problem and I, myself, can't solve it. Does anyone have any suggestions? It would be much appreciated.
Also- The gun she was shooting with was not a BB-gun.
Steal her cats and then send her ransom letters. Tell her that if she doesn't stop being an insufferable old hag, she will never see darling Mopsy again.
She is an angry old hag and often the less they care. You have to make them care. It can be like reasoning with a child, and if a child misbehaves, their toys are taken away.
If I were her neighbor, it would be bye bye kitties.
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My boyfriend is naturally really skinny and with that he's worked for a nice body. As to that I feel somewhat intimidated. ok alot. I want to get a flat tummy I'm not ask for no 6 pack or anything just a nice firm tight stomach.
Can andybody give me a list and how much of what I should and the names of the excercises. Like a shedule.
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Go to http://www.self.com/fitness/workouts/slideshows/2005/12/26/010828wo_stomach
Click on the fitness link and look through their workouts. They have pictures and step by step workouts. Print them out and do those. Self magazine always has a body bonus in the back of their magazine. It always has really good workouts.
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okay so i had a sony windows 98 computer and now i have a new one.. but my mom was planning on putting it outside so someone could take it or something, so if someone were to take it would they be able to see all my documents on my old computer? (the sony windows 98 one)
I had the same deal with my computer. I had the old desk top I used in college and then bought a laptop. I wanted to launch my old 'puter off the roof of my flat, but it is against my cities ordiance and blah..blah..blah.
Don't set it out. Make sure you nuke it first. If you delete the hard drive, then you can reload all of the programs back on it and sell it. Garage sale, ebay, the bargain bin section of your local newpaper, get some money for it.
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I bought my laptop around last july. I'm just wondering, can a computer have no microsolf to type on? the only thing i can actually type on is wordpad, which is dumb & has nothing i need. i NEED microsolf word and its on my computer but when i push it to go into it, a thing comes up asking for like the product key and stuff.
please help!
i'm desperate
Is mircosolf a generic version of Mircosoft? If so, is it assloads cheaper than the 200.00 they want for Microsoft Office? If you find it, let me know.
In my opinion, Bill Gates has enough money. Ask a friend or relative if they have their Microsoft office CD's that came with their computers or if they have a back up you can load onto yours.
But, in all honesty, your supposed to go buy it at your local retailer for a jacked up price of elevendy billion dollars.
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Okay, so there's this guy, he is SO cute, we've been friends all this year. And I fell in love with our friendship.
Silly as it sounds. But I like him, ALOT! He sometimes calls me at night, and one time, he wanted to meet me at the mall and watch a movie. (May I add, he doesn't know I like him.)
Okay, during school, my very close friend, talks about my crush ALL THE TIME. It kind of bothers me cause she says all this stuff like, "Oh, he keeps poking me in the arm, and told me it was a 'Love Tap'" I got pretty sad when she told me this. (Also, may I add, I told her I liked him before she even told me this.)
Last night, she told me that she 'kind of' likes my crush! To be honest, I wasn't surprised since she made is OBVIOUS!
But the problem is, she's ALOT prettier then me. She went out with more guys then I have. And most guys ask her out and everything. I'm just scared that maybe my crush might fall for her, and forget about me. I'm just scared if he DOES ask her out, that she's going to say yes.
I don't know what to do. My crush doesn't know I like him, and my friend likes him. I don't know what to tell my friend how I feel about this. I don't want to ruin our friendship. But it's really killing me. It gets me really mad, knowing that ALL the guys I thought is cute, or had a crush on, she happen to like them as well.
I don't know what to do anymore. Please help.
Sorry for this to be so long. But I need advice.
Thanks, I rate high! =]
Ok, I am evil and bad, so keep that in mind.
It is up to him who he chooses. He has seemed to show interest in you, so get him before she even has a chance. You liked him first. You have 'dibs' so to speak. Stop telling her about him and go for him. She has all these other guys anyway, right? She didn't have to pick yours. Ask him to a movie, and then tell him you like him. You can sit back and hope that he doesn't fall for her, or you can be proactive and go after what you want.
If she gets upset. Tuff cookies. All is fair in love and war and you were there first.
Tell her to go ask her other friends who their crushes are and like them instead. If she has a chance to be with him, she will. Trust me. Been there.
But, I am evil and bad. I think you should go for him, at least you won't feel like you sat by and watched her take him.
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