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I dont understand why he isnt talking to me anymore.i really
the guy i like, we were getting along so great!!!! he even treated me like his girlfriend! well now something is going wrong. all of a sudden he hasnt been talkting to me for the past 2 weeks. just like that. click! i dont get it. i didnt do nuthin wrong. we had so much fun together. there are 3 and a half more days of school left and i want to talk to him real bad but im afraid to because im afraid he doesnt want to talk to me for some reason and hell get annoyed if i do or something. i always walk past him and stuff. we never make eyecontact anymore and we never talk and before i had this gut feeling that he liked me too before but now i dont feel anything. my question is what can i do to get him to talk to me again. just like to start a conversation. i did it the first time im just afraid now. thats how the whole thing got started. we were switching classes and all of a sudden i talk to him about my groups project and everything was fine from there. can i get some tips on what i should say to start a conversation. to get things fired up again. im also afraid to tell him i like him or call him. what would i say for that? i always think negative. so what can i do to talk to him or get him to talk to me?
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I think your best bet is to be open with him. I know its hard, but you need to actually ask him what is going on. Tell him that it confussed you when he suddenly stopped talking to you. Ask him what was going on. I know thats difficult but its for the best. And from there go with what he says.
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Heyy I'm Rachel.
Ahh yes, this has happened to me before.
Maybe this guy is afraid-
afraid of falling for you,
afraid of getting too close?
A lot of guys are like that.
My best friend-who's a guy-
likes to do that to girls.
I always tell him to take a chance..
but he always says "I'm afraid if i get
to close to her, she will hurt me."
Well..i think the guys should take the chance-
but that's just me.
My suggestion to start a conversation
is just saying something as simple as this;
"Heyy, I haven't talked to you in a while,
how have you been?"
or, since you two seem like pretty good friends,
just tell him something funny or scary that
has happened. I'm sure he wouldn't
mind talking to you.
If you're too nervous to start a conversation
in person or talk on the phone, just write
him a note asking what has been up, and in the
note hint in that you miss him
and you feel like he has been ignoring you.
♥♥
Rachel
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Well you can't really control how he is acting, but i am sure that he wouldn't mind if you just started a conversation with him. If you want to talk to him, then just talk! If he thinks you're weird for it, then just move on to some other guy. One person's opinion doesn't really matter. If he thinks you are weird for talking to him, then he is just insecure about himself. There is always going to be some person in the world that doesn't like you, and it doesn't mean that you did anything wrong, it is just because they are insecure and they have to find some reason to hate you. Just be friendly and start talking to him, he shouldn't mind... and if he does, then just don't worry about it and move on to someone else. You will probably regret it if you don't talk to him before school gets out, so just do it! You might as well... it's better than being depressed about it all summer. Good luck!!
**BeLLe**
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Okay, this may sound weird, but you can like tell him you want to stay in touch over the summer. Then, don't pay any attention to him. If you do that, it will make him want you more.
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If you want him to talk to you, you are going to have to talk to him.
Start off by saying that you would like to keep in touch over the summer. Say that maybe you could hang out and see a movie every once in a while.
Tell him you think he is fun and you want to keep in touch over the summer.
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