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There is this guy and we always talk on the internet (AIM) and I always tell him to come up and talk to me at school, and he says okay he will and I say im gonna hold that up to him. When we are at school and I see him he never says anyting to me he just walks away. I wanna say somthing to him so bad about it but im shy too. I aways catch him looking at me what should I do?
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Hi Sweetie,
AWWWWW........... he is scared. That is SOOOOOO cute. (I'm SOOOOOOOOOOO sorry... I've been girlie ever since I got dumped L.O.L. ...and sad... anyways) Say hi. He'll say hi back. (...my ex stil ays hi back... and looks at whenever I'm there... he doesn't even tr not to make it obvious...) Say hi... whe you see him at school. If he says hi back then just gets uite ask him something like "how's it going?" or "what you doing?" He likes you. ...it'll work out.
Be good,ok? ~Blessed Be...
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I think i messed up majorly with my crush. we danced last night at a monthly dance our town holds and it incredible. the thing is, we got bumped into, so we kinda broke apart, and he asked me in a sad way "oh is that it?" and i didnt know what to say. i should have let him know how much i love with by saying someone like "does it have to be?" but i didnt. i feel like i lost him completely. he said he really really likes me as a friend. im in love with him and i think he knows that but my problem is that i dont know how to go about talking to him anymore. i dont know what to say or what to talk about. im so confused. i feel like i screwed up big time. if you want the whole story about what happened, i posted a question called "heaven for me, hell for him?"
thx everyone
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Hi Sweetie,
I cant find the whole sotryu :-( Where is it? Well from what I heard in your paragraph I don't think it HAS to be it. ...He didn't want it to be it. ...How about... if you made plans for the next dance. And... bruch tomorrow? "You know, if you want to." Tell him that!
I hope it wokrs out for you two! ...Let me know? You sound like you'd make a cute coupple! Aww... sorry. ~Blessed Be...
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My ROOMATE is going through a seperation. She has a 4 year old daughter. From what I am told, There is to be no men around his daughter, and if there is, that could be grounds for him to take his daughter from my roomate,{He lives in another state} My question, If there is to be no men around his daughter and I live here to does that pertain to me also? I don't think it should seeing as how I am not part of there family. She takes care of her daughter, pays her half of the bills and I pay my half. Can me seeing my boyfriend at my house, with them living here be grounds for him to take his daughter from her? Also, what if she has a man here? Is her trying to rebuild her life and meet new people whom if she liked or got serious about one and wanted them to meet her daughter....Could her ex do anything about that too? ANOTHER THING, IS THAT EVEN LEGAL FOR HIM TO SAY THAT THERE CAN BE NO MEN AROUND HIS DAUGHTER? WHEN NOTHING HAS BEEN SIGNED STATING THAT?
THANKS, ILL RATE HIGHHHH
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Hi Sweetie,
First of all is nothing is signed then its not legally a rule. Anyways. Well either way if you do have your boyfriend there or something it would be your ROOMAE'S rsponsibility to seperate her daughter from such situation. If this is to be a legal term then you and your roomate would have to make some sort of agreement. About your roomate... if she wants to "rebuild" her life in that term it does not require her daughter's prescense. If she wants her daughter to meet this man... Well the whole thing isn't even a legal term. Either way, your roomate's ex can't stop that. I mean, he can request that his daughter is not left alone with men but... if the mother rebuilds her life and wants her daughter to meet her new aqquaintance it would be possible aty the mother's prescence and surveilance.
Hope I helped. Take care. Hope it all works out. ~Blessed Be...
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I asked one of my close guy friends to prom. he said he doesn't know if he wants to go because he said he can't dance. he also said that dances aren't for him but he said he would think about it. how can i persuade him to take me to the prom?! (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Tell him that you don't HAVE TO dance. Tell him how after high school there aren't any more proms EVER again. If he is jus a friend and you don't have any other fellings for him and he is single then tell him that cute girls will be there.
Just some suggestions. Seriously, if its your senior prom then thats the IMPORTANT REASON. Only one senior rom in your lifetime. (Unless you flunk... hehe)
Take care!!! Good luck!!! ~Blessed Be...
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I'm 13 years old and I have this friend named Allyson and an enemy named Roxy. Roxy has hurt both Allyson and mine's feelings and isnt a very..well...nice person but is extremely popular and draws much attention. Allyson tells me that she just wants to be my friend and that she doesnt like Roxy but whenever i see that roxy talks to allyson, allyson gets all happy and smiley. Later though, she denies to have done anything like that. Allyson has let me down before but promises to never do it again. Also, allyson talks to roxy's mom alot they have a good relationship and i think allyson tells her many thing...maybe too many..i dont know if to trust allyson again..i mean shes a great person/friend but...i dont know..if i should trust her again.
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Hi Sweetie,
Just be catious. Don't tell her too much. Always keep some things to yourself. If you are the type of people that HAVE TO get everything out of their system then tell different parts of the story to different friends. Tell people as less as you can. Don't tell them more than they need to know.
Take care and... think about it. People will always dissapoint you if you trust them too much. Even if its not on purpose... it is human nature. They will go through a moment of weaknes once an betray you. To keep a friend you must keep tings from that friend... for the best. ~Blessed Be...
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One of my good friends, Libby, is a HUGE FLIRT! Last night, we went ice skating and she flirted with just about every guy there! She always goes up to them b4 any1 can reach them.... and sum me n my other friends like! Wat do i do?
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Hi Sweetie,
Tell her to back off the guys you like. And hint her that if she does that people will think she's a slut. Hint it, don't say it unless YOU ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO.
Good luck! Best wishes! ~Blessed Be...
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At a recent school dance, they had 2 grades there: 7th and 8th, and im in 8th grade. My friend billy was there (7th grade) and me and my friends were hanging out with him and his freidns who are also in 7th grade, a year younger than us. I was flirting like a tonnn with this one kid, steven, and it was really fun and he was being a flirt back..he's very nice and sweet, has adorable green eyes and is very cute. he's got a cute voice and cute hair and is my height too, which is a plus. Anyway, my boyfriend and i of 1 1/2 months just broke up and it was really hard for me. But at the dance, flirting and hanging out with steven made me realize how much fun that was you know? so like we became friends at the dance and then my friends and his friends were like hey i see a connection here! and they kept saying stuff so he asked me to dance and we danced together and talked and like...i really liked it. I felt comfortable with him, in his arms, and i just wanted to kiss him. It was really cool, but hes in 7th grade and im in 8th. People think it's weird to go out with a 7th grader when youre in 8th grade, and if you do, everybody talks about you and it alters your reputation. I don't really want people to think anything bad about me or get a bad rep from going out with a 7th grader. He's very cute and sweet and i think i really like him...but he's not "popular" but i cant see why..i'm confused on what to do..could someone please give me some advice? stay just friends or date him? Thanks!! and sorry it's so long!! (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Two things to talk about. One: Personally I think its weird... I mean, in 8th grade I would NOT had gone out with a 7th grader. Of course, maybe I just never met the right 7th grader, l.o.l. I thought my friend (who IS the popular type) did. So popuar people DO date 1yr younger. Freshman year I dated a 10th grader (I'm not a hypocrite... I swear!) Between 7th and 9th grade I thought about dating older/younger and there' nothing wrong with it if you really like the person. If I met the right person... maybe I would. Younger no more than a grade. Maybe he's not even a year younger than you... maybe just months. Oh, an a lot of 10th graders date 9th graders. Anyways, in middle school (7th and 8th grade) it is pretty weird and people often talk about you. You have to decide what is more important to you... what you are willing to give up... If you really like the guy then go for it. It will only be weird for everyone else at first. Then they'll be used to it.
Thing number 2: OK, forget about grades. How long has it been sine your break up? You may need more time to heal. Maybe the only reason you like this other boy is... well what if he's just your reboud. Im not saying he is, I just want you to think about it. If you rush into a relationsip or get in one for the wrong reasons things will turn out bad. Make sure you don't like that guy for the wrong reasons. I mean... yeah he's cool and nice and flirting with him is fun... if it would had been another cool/fun/nice guy, would you had fallen for him too? Just... think about it.
Well I hope it all turns out in your favor. Take care! ~Blessed Be...
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Hey everyone,
Ok heres the problem...my neighbor is the hottest thing, hes a redneck about 15. And i really like him. We were friends when we were younger but his parents got divorced and now he comes down here on the weekends. There was never anything like sexual tension between us until now. But the pathedic part about this I havn't talked to him. i am super nervous and afraid. Of what? I guess rejection. What should I do? I wanna see where we could go? Please help...
BTW: 14 in April : Female (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
You are afraid... of rejection... of the unknown thoughts that could go in his mind... of all the wrong things that could go wrong... of just the mere fact that its a possibility. Anything can happened. You can't know what happen... its not in your control.
Anyway. How much do you like him? Is it worth taking the risk? Would you rather be friends 100% sure you'll be friends and wonder if somethng could of happened betwen you and wait for him to make a move for maybe forever OR risk your safe friendship, put yourself out there, and take a chance? No matter what you choose, its okay. There is no wrong answer. Its up to you.
Take care Good luck Best wishes! ~Blessed Be...
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ok well here is the deal. Im a freshman and i have been going out with a senior for two days now. but i decided to break up with him today because i felt like we had no chemistry. but i still like him and i was wondering if you think i should talk to him about wanting to go back out with him when we get back to school on monday or just stay his friend?i rate!! (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
In my experience the "lets just be friends" things never works and both of you always end up hurt. Anywaym if you still like him but feel like you have no chemistry then... hang out with him. Take things slow. Don't make it as "we're a coupple. Boyfriend and girlfriend. We can just make out and stuff." Make it more like "I DO like you, that's why we are giving it a try. Lets get to know each other MORE."
Hope it all goes great. Take care, good luck and ~Blessed Be...
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im meeting this guy for the first time tonight.. and we might possibly hook up.. i want to look perfect.. does anyone have any makeup, hair, or clothing tips that I could use? (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Black eyeliner! No eyeshadow, thats overkill for the first date. A light lipstick. Wear cute earrings! ...For clothes... if you wear a skirt wear black stockings. ...I'm sorry I cannot offer many tips because I don't know what type of stuff you are into. I always wear either a scarf (well I am kind of stpping that odd trend) or neckaless. I always wear stockings/pantyhosxe uderneath my skirts. But different type of girls attract different type of guys. If you want my help feel free to leave me a message in my inbox. It would help if you told me a little about your style or something.
Anyway, GOOD LUCK! I understand you want to look specially nice but I just wanted to re-assure you that your date will like you no matter what. He did agree to meet you!
Take care. ~Blessed Be...
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People are always asking me about my love life, like people at school. I have had a boyfriend before but that only lasted a week, and I always feel uncomfortable saying 'oh I've only had one boyfriend' when people ask. I know it's not a race or a competition as to who can get the most boyfriends, but it's starting to bug me and I don't want to lie and say I've had loads of boyfriends. The thing is, I'm just not emotionally ready to be in a relationship, and I want any relationship I have to be a long one, so I'm obviously gonna have less boyfriends than everyone else. I don't mind that, I just mind being embarrased when I say 'one'. How can I avoid these conversations, or what should I say when they come up? (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
First of all, you don't have to justify yourself. If you don't feel comftrable ansswering that question, its okay. It doesn't matter why. Maybe you don't like telling people personal things or it could even be that competition stuff (I know its not becuase you said it wasn't, but I am just giving examples). Either way, it comes down to the same issue: YOU ARE NOT COMFTRABLE ANSWERING THAT QUESTION.
Its cool. Im not either. All I tell people is, "That's a little personal, don't you think?" and it works for me. It should work for you too. If they keep asking tell them to respect your privacy. It may seem weird t first if you are not used to keeping things frome people but you will get used to it and they will get used to it and people will be more considerate when they ask you that type of question.
Take care! ~Blessed Be...
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Hey guys, I always have to have a book to read for my reading class. My teacher calls it our independent reading book. Anyways, I was wondering if any of you could give me the names of some really good books that you've read before. I love reading, and I can't seem to find any good books right now, so I was hoping someone could tell me some good books. I like to read fiction books, mysteries, or something that has to do with romance/relationships in it. If you can, please helpt me out! Thank you so very much! :) (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Mary Higgins Clark ! Think thats her name. Her books became cool mystery movies! Other cool books are: "Demon In My View" "The Cat That Went to Heaven" "The Giver" and... "A Walk to Remember" (the book is a lot different from the movie) If I think of more I'll add them here! OH! This book is really good: "Flipped" Its sooo cute.
Have a nice day and good luck! ~Blessed Be...
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I dated somebody for a year. She was my first everything: first person I fell in love with, first person I got close to, first person I became intimate with, everything. We broke up in January. I am over the relationship itself, but I am not over her. I think those feelings will be there for a while, there really isnt anything I can do to make them go away. Well, now I'm dating again. Ive been seeing the same girl for the past few weeks now, and things are starting to become a bit more serious. Not very serious, but its becoming more than just dating. Shes even my date to prom, which is in 2 months now. Problem is, the feelings arent anywhere near as intense as it was with my ex girlfriend. I like this new girl, shes totaly great, but I feel like I've become jaded since my breakup, and therefore dont have much to offer her. Any advice on what to do? (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
This may seem difficult but the thing you have to do is get space away from your ex in every way possible. I mean, if you and her still sa hi everyonce in a while kind of try to avoid her. I you don't see her anymore then good. Try to avoid thoughts about her as well. Try to focus on yor new girl. Pay close attention to all features of this new girl, no matter how small they may seem. Crete new memories with her to replce the memories of your ex. The more you pay attention to the features of your new girl's features and notice her personality you will become more emotionally closer with her. Try to spend as much time with this girl and get to know her. Learn about her personalit and life and her her thoughts and what she has to say. Don't worry if you still have feelings for your ex, with time they will not compare with what you feel for this new girl.
Take care! Good luck! ~Blessed Be...
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I'm a 15/f and I me and my family are thinking of going on a cruise this summer. None of us have ever been on a cruise. I get sea sick pretty easily, but I heard that on a cruise since the ship is so large, you don't get sea sick. Is this true? Also, what was your experience like on a cuise and which cruise line did you take? Lastly, we are debating about where to go on the cruise (it's between Alaska and the Caribbean)... have any of you been on one/ both of these cruises, which one did you like more... or what was your experience with one of them. Also, are there more teenagers on one or the other. Thanks so much!!! I rate 5's for serious answers! (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Actually I have taken three cruises... twice the Ecstacy Carnival ship. The first time I did NOT get sea sick but... once in a smaller ship which's name I do not recall I got sea sick but I was in a crowded room and stuff... they actually have pills right there incase you DO get sea sick. I was only sea sick for a little while, then I was OK. But in the Carnival I was never sea sick. Being in a cruise is really nice becfause there's lots of things to do and see on the ship and they are all nice to you and they do that animal-towels chocolate-on-pillow rutine every day. Anyway, well we went to the Caribbean. We got out hair brbaded therer but it was really expensive. In the Carribean they normally have expensive prizes prepared specially for toursists (lol). Seriously! Well I was a preteen when I went... and there were people my age. There were actual teenagers too. They have like an arcade for the kids and a game room to rent a board game and... libraries... the teenagers were skmewhere there. And there were some college people just reading...
Well that's all I can tell you. Enjoy your trip! Take care and ~Blessed Be...
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i'm looking for an individual colomist to ask a question does anyone recomend a colomist or two? (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
While I do not have a specific recommendation I do have some advice (sorry). Every columnist has a different "style" of answering questions. Some use bitter sarcasm (they usually are the ones giving stupid answers... not always, but most of the time its them). Some people use their own values and morals when giving advice. Some people use logic... some columnist base it on their own experience... etc. What you should do is go through the answers that the columnists have given (check out their column) and see whom you'd like to hear from.
Good luck in finding a columnist! If you ever need advuice from me do not hesitate to drop a message in my inbox! Take care! ~Blessed Be...
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Ok, my friend Chris and I are TOTALLY weird. We both have shoes, and were like in love with them! We spit polish them, try not to get them into the mud, and admire them. My Baby Phats are sitting next to me right now and I'm admiring them as I type. Anyway, is this normal? I'm just wondering.
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Baby Phat Lover (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Well... answer to yourself these questions. If something happened to the shoes, would you feel suicidal? If your parents were to forbid you to ever wear those shoes would you runaway from home to wear them? When making friends or meeting guys/girls do your shoes have to approve of them before you can be friends with them? If you answered yes to any of these questions then NO, it's not normal. However, if you answred no to all three of them, then you probably just REALLY like your shoes. There's nothing wrong with that... as lonmg as you do not get obsessive and start day dreaming about them in class and making drawings of them instead of homework. You know, that tyoe of psychotic behavior.
Take care. ~Blessed Be...
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Last thursday I was talking to the guy I like on the phone and I think I heard him say Will you go Out with me but he said it hecka quite so I wasnt sure then I was just like what I cant hear u and I thought he said will you go out with me again but he said it so softly i wasnt sure... so i was just quite... then all of of sudden hes just where are you at and completely changed the subject... I am confused... I want him to ask me out right and now im scared cause if he did ask me out he is bably be too scared to say it again... and I need a way for him to do it... but then if he just said something else and I didnt hear him correctly I dont want to be like yea i wanna go out with you cause that would be embarresing thats the reason i was just quite... but now as i get to thinking maybe i want him to ask me so badly im hearing things...if that makes any sense please help...I was thinking of trying to get who he likes out of him but when i asked him today all he could say was i dont know...
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Hi Sweetie,
When there's a dance or a pasrty ask him if he is going. When he asks you say "no, no one asked me so no."
Good luck! ~Blessed Be...
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I have a major problem. I'm best friends with this guy. The only problem is I have a crush on him. Do I tell him and risk losing our friendship or do I not tell him at all? Please Help! (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Depends. How strong are your feelings? Do you think its just a phase? Could you handle being just-friends with him? Could you handle not telling him about your feelings? Keep in mind, having these feelings bottled up can hurt you. I liked a guy friend of mine and... he would always flirt with me and mess with my head... this actually depressed me. However, I gave it time and the feelings grew weaker and I met someone else. if you are not sure what is more important to you or what feelings are stronger then do that. Give it time. if you still have feelings for him that only grow stronger then tell him. Who knows... he might like you back. If you do not you may regret it and spend a lot of time wondering what could have happened.
Hope someone helped. Take care. ~Blessed Be...
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ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE! (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Try saying hi at school. If he completely ignores you then ignore him on the computer. If he says hi back but does not really make comnversation it could be that he is just shy to talk to you in person. My exboyfriend was shy to talk to me at school but he was always calling me and wanted to talk for a long time on the phone. Now that we are just friends we usually just say "hi" at school, but he talks to me after school on the phone and we actually have a conversation that way. But if he completely ignores you... then he's just a bastard who is afraid of being alone and gets lonely after school.
Sorry I cannot offer much help. Take care. ~Blessed Be...
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ok well i have a site n this and everything but when i loged in it said next to your questions it had a number so i clicked on it and it was asking a qustion(not to me but asying that i asked it)could someone have my password (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
...if you did not ask that question... well if it allows you to leave feedback to the answers that question gets then yes, someone probably has your password. Chnage it!
Good luck! ~Blessed Be...
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