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Best Friend or Boyfriend?
I have a major problem. I'm best friends with this guy. The only problem is I have a crush on him. Do I tell him and risk losing our friendship or do I not tell him at all? Please Help!
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Tell him!
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If it seems like he likes you, go ahead and tell him. If you're not sure, then bring up a dream that you had, where you two were boyf & girlf. See what his response is, and then take it from there.
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Hi Sweetie,
Depends. How strong are your feelings? Do you think its just a phase? Could you handle being just-friends with him? Could you handle not telling him about your feelings? Keep in mind, having these feelings bottled up can hurt you. I liked a guy friend of mine and... he would always flirt with me and mess with my head... this actually depressed me. However, I gave it time and the feelings grew weaker and I met someone else. if you are not sure what is more important to you or what feelings are stronger then do that. Give it time. if you still have feelings for him that only grow stronger then tell him. Who knows... he might like you back. If you do not you may regret it and spend a lot of time wondering what could have happened.
Hope someone helped. Take care. ~Blessed Be...
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let him know how you feel, but tell him first that no matter what, your friendship is more important, butthat's just how you feel
*~*shan*~*
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ha i have been in that samee situation. it depends, how big is your friendship with him? . one of my friends told one of my guy friends i had a crush on him but he didnt really care that much, were still like bestfriends. so maybe one of your friends could tell him or like start talking to him and she could start asking him things about you or something..
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Tell him! Maybe it will be easier with a note, or online. But, find a way! Tell him you like him more than a friend, and if he's kewl with that, then YAY! :) If not, then ask if you guys can still be friends.
Hope it works out! :D
♥ :O)
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Don't tell him. But make sure he doesn't get a g/f any time soon so ur heart doesn't break!
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tell him, but tell him that you don't want this to affect your friendship. just say i'm starting to like you as more than a friend. chances are he could feel the same way. but if for some reason he doesn't, just don't let it affect the friendship, act the way you used to. i hope i helped! *~KaYlA~*
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you should definately tell him! if your friendship with him is really strong, nothing should be able to break it up! everyone eventually gets a crush on their best GUY friend. it's impossible not to. he probably feels the same, since your close, so you should be the one to break the ice!
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These situations are always tough because if you do tell your best friend that you like him, it will make things weirder between you two and it might ruin your friendship with him. Why don't you ask him if there could ever be a possibility of you two going out or him liking you in the future? If he says there could be, then yes, you should tell your best friend how you feel about him. It's all up to you, do want to take a chance and try not to let this interfere with your friendship, or not telling him at all? Think about this. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Just ask him but say to him if he says no that you still want to be friends
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if this is desirae ill kill you if not i dunno what you should do
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ah this is always a question that really cant be answered without further explaination..if he seems into you as more than friends..give it a shot, but make it so its funny so if he says no tell him you werent serious..i do that and it works like a charm i hope i helped
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