Question Posted Saturday February 12 2005, 9:39 am
16*f
yea so i've been starting to talk to this kid and i think i kind of like him. i mean we have fun together but im not sure if i exactly like him enough to actually start anything. i have been single for soo long and kind of " obsessed " (so my friends say) with my ex bf that i went out with and we had a pretty good relationship until we stopped talking after he went on vaca. well anyways we broke up and kinda stoped talking, so now when we do occasionally talk its just like "hey whats up .. oh cool.." stuff like that,i know he doesnt like me right now because we like neverr see eachother anymore or he is out but should i wait until like spring comes because i would deffinately see him around then. or do you think it is just a waist of time to wait around when i could have another nice guy. i know this doesnt make much sense but its just so hard to get over something like this because i liked him so much. my friends don't really understand... please try and help * xOx Kaylin
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MummuM answered Sunday February 13 2005, 1:24 am: I know how you feel. The first love is always the hardest no matter what. But your ex doesn't seem to be your Mr.Right. If he was you and him would be together, but your not. You're just that much closer to finding the one who is. Since you have this nice guy that you like, why not try giving him a shot? There's no harm in trying at all. Maybe having a new guy, will help you get over your ex. You might even start to like this guy more then your ex. This guy could been Mr.Right, so go for it, don't let this chance pass you by. "You have to meet some wrong ones, before you meet the right one" =)
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Scream_Out_Loud answered Saturday February 12 2005, 11:03 pm: Dear Kaylin,
It really is true what they say.. that age old saying "There are many other fish in the sea".
I think you are wise to move on from your previous relationship. It is unhealthy to dwell in the past. It seems to me your ex boyfriend is content where he is and perhaps this is for the better. It would be best for you to move on to bigger and better things.
Never allow anyone to take hold of your emotions and keep you from experiencing new things. Who knows what wonderful things (or people for that matter) could be waiting for you! Be happy you are able to begin a new adventure. Seize the moment and take the past for what it is worth.
Obviously you care very much about your ex boyfriend. Be thankful you had the amount of time you did together. Learn what needs to be learned from your experience with him and take it with you to future relationships.
As for this new love interest, take it slowly. If you find that you are not truly interested in this boy then you should not push your emotions. You will meet other boys you do honestly like. Keep this in mind. Befriend this boy and let your heart lead you.
Love never dies, it is only changed. You will love again.
hOllisterxbarbie answered Saturday February 12 2005, 10:03 pm: I think the best thing to do is move on! cuz when i didnt move on i just got turned down. and it wasnt fun so go out looking for another guy. I mean you may still like your ex but hey you just may find another guy out there who will really like ya!
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