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Is acne free a good pimple system? i bought it today and i just wanted to know. thanks for any help or advice.

Well, Ive never used it. Try it out for a week or two and see what happens. If you dont like it, stop using it and buy another product. I use Phisoderm in the shower and Noxzema before I put my make-up on.

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HELL0. What are some good baby names? Boy, or Girl. First, and Middle would be appreciated! Thanks! =]

Boy:
Kale, Shane, Kevin, Jake, Tom, Daniel, Josh, Brian

Girl:
Emily, Kara, Elizabeth, Lexy, Caitlin, Nicole, Claire, Jordan, Caroline, Maddie, Heather, Brianna

It's sad that those were the only names I could think of off the top of my head! Hope I helped!!

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Okay so I've been homeschooled all my years of school and this fall I'm starting college, meaning for the first time in my life I'm going to be taught by someone other than myself/my mother. I'm really nervous...any advice on how to interact with the professors? Like I have no problem with getting to know other people and stuff...just like teachers and stuff make me nervous. Help?

In college if you have grade problems, dont expect your professors to keep up with you. Get help right away either from the teacher or a classmate. The professors will give you homework pretty much for the whole month and they expect you to keep track of when it is due...they wont remind you. Just dont get on their bad side, but dont suck up either!! You dont want to be a teachers pet...

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ok me and my boy friend have been thinking about having sex and he has had sex with people befor but i am a vergin, he told me that in the past he has just pulled it out befor the came instead of using a condom... and thats what he wants to do but i dontkno if that is compleatly safe..plz tell me if this is safe i need to kno! thank you! byes

Please dont be stupid! Use a condom! Pulling out doesnt always work!

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My parents have been smoking since they were teenagers. I'm just curious if everyone who smokes has a really high risk of getting lung cancer? It's not common in my family and I'm worried that my parents will get it.

Anyone who smokes has a high risk of getting lung cancer, but that doesnt really mean that they will get it. If you are worried about their health, just make sure that they know how you feel about the situation.

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My dad was in a bad car accident a few days ago and he's still in the hospital. The doctors say he's stable but he's in a...coma. Which I don't even understand because how can he be stable if he's in a coma?


Well I'm supposed to be moving out in like, 10 days because I'm starting college and I'm moving 4 hours away. The thing is though, I don't want to leave my mom and my sister if my dad isn't conscious by then. I don't know what to do because I'm so scared about my dad and I don't want to leave.


Classes don't start until the 30th but move in day is in 10 days. I don't have to move in by moving day but I know I have to be there by the first day of classes. I don't even know if I'm going to be able to pay attention during class knowing that my dad is in the hospital. I just don't know what to do, I'm so confused.

Being stable in a coma just means that his health isnt going downhill.

As for leaving...I would say go ahead and go to college. Just ask your mom to fill you in every day. If something bad were to happen, you can always go home to be with them.

Best of luck!

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My boyfriend has a friend thats a girl, and theyve been friends for a couple of years. They have pet names for each other and talk all the time. He doesnt talk about her all the time, but, when he does I just get mad. I dont know why, I just do. Hes always concerned or worried about her. I really dont like it when he talks about her but I want to help him because hes always worried about her. Am I just being jelous? What should I do? I'm so confused.

Jealous? I would say that you are a bit. But I think I would be in that situation too. Just try to remember that they are friends, but if you still cant help but be jealous, make sure you go talk to your guy.

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hey,
I am a 14/f and I live in Washington State. (spokane if that helps) I turn 15 in acouple months and I know your allowed to take drivers ed once you turn 15. I have alot of questions about this. When can I take it? Only during the summer or during the school year too? Is 15 the right age? Where can I take drivers Ed.? And anything else you know about would be REALLY appreciated. Thanks soooo much xoxoxo

I just finished Drivers Ed. In my state however, we cant take it until we are closer to 16. I took it through school as a class. If your school doesnt offer it, go to a private driving group and ask when their classes are and if you are the right age. Here we have places like Excel and Top Driver. If you dont know where to go, try going to the DMV and asking.

Drivers Ed is fun, but it can get really boring. Just stick with it and keep your grade up!

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next year im going to high school. the seniors initiate all of the freshmen. has anyone been initiated before? what did they do to you? please help. im scared to go to high school.

Pfft they say they will initiate you, but they almost NEVER do! Freshman get ignored by Seniors! Im going to be a Junior this year and none of the Seniors ever "initiated" me. They do push you around a bit in the halls though. (Not literally push you around)

DONT stop in the middle of the hall and talk to your friends, you will get shoved out of the way.

Dont worry, High School isnt that bad! And trust me, it will go by faster than you think it will!

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im going to six flags/hurricane harbor on friday in chicago. its going to be hot out so im planning on wearing my swimming suit, but i was just wondering what to wear over that..i was thinking soffees? but idk, ive never been there before. also, do you wear flip flops or tennis shoes to a place like that? thanks in advance for everything!

A bathing suit sounds like a good idea. Just wear some shorts and a tank top over it. And flip flops are fine, but on certain rides you may have to take them off.

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Are you sexxy?!

Um...what?

You tell me...

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I'm 16, female, 4 feet 5 inches, 157 Ibs...am I fat? Be honest...

Well, if you think you are you could always go to your doctor and find out what the average weight is for someone your age and height.

And if they tell you that you are, ask them what you should do to bring your weight down. Ask them if they would request a special diet, or a special workout plan...things like that.

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Hey im 15/f i just got braces a little over a month ago.. and before i got braces i was really outgoing and was always wanted to be the center of attention. But now that i have braces i've noticed that i dont want to be that anymore because of my braces.. i guess im self consious.. Is there anything i can tell myself or do to make me become less self consious and be myself again? Any advice would help! thanks

I got mine 3 years ago and I hated to smile!

It does take a while to get used to them being there, but after a while you will forget and go back to wanting to be the center of attention.

Make sure you keep them as clean as you can...I rarely flossed, and I really regretted it! my gums were really puffy!

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I just got my period today. It sucks because these cramps are killing me and I feel like I want to die. What can I do so the cramps don't hurt as much? I know they sell pills or medicines or something but I don't know where they sell them or what they are called. Any excersizes or something I can eat? The only thing I know about is a heating pad, which I'm already using and it's helping a little bit, but not much. Any help would be appreciated.

Midol helps, but Ive found out that Advil works better for me.

Also, try to avoid caffeine and drink lots of water!

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Is your period 28 days from the beginning of your last period or the end?

I count 28 days from the beginning.

But it may not be 28 days. Sometimes its a shorter time in between and sometimes its way longer. I count off 28 days, but I normally go 35 or so days.

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What do most people define as "hooking up"?

My opinion...a one night stand.

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I'm 15.
So I go to church every sunday but we recently got this new priest like afew months ago. He's like 50 and he's really HOTTT! He's so funny and the gospel always makes me laugh. So like a lot ofnights I go to his house and I look in the window. I watched him pee one time and it made me like... get turned on. And like I always blush when I'm around him. HELP!

Um gross...

Stop! Find a boy your own age!

And if it gets too bad, suggest switching churches to your family because you dont like the new priest. (even though I guess you do)

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I am 15 and I will be turning 16 in October. Should I be worried that I haven't had one sign of a period yet?

Absolutely not! Every girls body is different. You should get your period between the ages of 11 and 18. I didnt get mine until the end of 8th grade and my mom didnt get hers until she was 16.

If you are athletic, that also could have something to do with it.

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My brother has been acting kind of odd lately...

... he thinks that he's a rubber ducky, according to him. When we call him Tom (which is his name) he says "No, Duckie!". My parents think it's just a stage, but he's ten, and I think he should know better...

He won't let anyone in his bedroom, but his rubber duckies, and won't talk to anyone but them. He also won't eat our food, only bread crumbs. I'm really concerned about this, as mental problems tend to run in our family....

Um...take the boy to a shrink.

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What can you put on your skin to make it softer?

lotion

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