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I'M SO PISSED OFF AT HER!!! She ditched me this weekend, saying she was going to go to a party to get "messed up" and by her saying messed up I was thinking... drinking. You know, because she wouldn't ever smoke! Well today I went to her MySpace, and I saw pictures, so I was watching them, and I saw pictures of her and her little sister SMOKING WEED!! I WAS LIKE DUDE, WTF! She wouldn't have done that if she was with me! BUT NOOOOOO, she just HAD to go to that stupid fucking party! Another thing that makes me sooo mad is that she didn't even have the nerve to talk to me, and tell me that she was planning to go to the party, and she had all week! She didn't tell me until Friday night, when I had plans on going to her house. So she basically left me to go get high.
WHAT SHOULD I DO!
She's already dtole guys from me, and now shes smoking weed?!?
Please, Please, Please help me out!!!
-Thank you so much!- (link)
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Next time she wants to hang out, ditch her back. She's obviously the type who'd prefer to look cool and party, then to hang out with a true friend. So yeah, basically dump her, she's worth nothing, and there's probably no hope in changing her. Surround yourself with friends that matter and don't do stupid shit like this. I'm sorry IDK anything better to tell you.
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Can you tell me how you're such a weirdo? That would clear up alot for me. Thanks (link)
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"How" I'm such a weirdo. Well I get into this really weird mood of hyperness, and I just express that feeling!
HOPE I HELPED!
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Why do some people feel the need to stereotype? I find it very small minded, especially when people say:
*"emos" are suicidal
*"preps" are mean
*guys are horndogs
*girls are bitches when they get their periods
*teenagers are full of raging hormones and go through tons of mood swings
etc.
So why do some stereotype like that? (link)
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People are jerks, and they find it funny to make fun of someone cuz their race, and/or style. I agree it's wrong, but that's how people are and always have been. The only thing you could do is stick up for yourself and what you believe in. And if you see it happening to someone else, step in, don't stand and watch someone get put down.
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please answer this question if you're good at that kind of stuff. . i really need this advice. . .
there's this girl in my class, and i think i'm in love with her. the thing is, i'm afraid if i tell her it will ruin our relationship that we already have. we've been great friends since the second grade, and i just realized i love her. i'm just afraid that if it doesn't work out, our relationship will be ruined for, like, ever. but seriously, i LOVE her. . .
i also need some advice on how to tell her i love her. . .that would be of great help. . .i will rate fives for serious answers. . .
dirtyfryBG31MTB (link)
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Oh this is a serious one. Well do you think she likes you back? If you get a certain vibe, then try hanging out with her after classes. Ask her to come over (casually of course). When she reponds, if she's excited, then yay for you! You're definitely on your way. But when she says automatically, "I have plans," hun, you might as well stop there. Don't keep asking, it'll make her realize you like her a little much, and it'll freak her out. So if she does come over, just like very discreetly bring up what she thinks about friends dating. If she's smart, she'll take the hint, and go by what she says. If she says it's great, do it man, go for it. She knows now.. Take her on a date to the movies, or a coffee. Don't go overboard! Work your way up from there, see where it leads you. If you feel it'll work out well, tell her how much she means to you. Just don't do it too soon!
Good Luck!!
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when is it ok to kiss your girlfriend? like, what times/how long you've been dating/age?
thnx in advance (link)
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Well, when you feel comfortable, and you think she does too. Try looking her in the eyes and stroking her face & hair. You can usually tell if she's ready by this.
Kissing really isn't a big deal, so just go for it! What's a relationship without any passion! Just don't go overboard, and please don't rush her into anything.
Good luck!
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i'm 15 years old & i haven't gotten my period for about two months. i've been having it since september 2004 & it's been sort of normal for about 8 months. i'm a virgin & i know this is going to sound extrememly juvenile but is there some way that i could be pregnant without having sex? as i said, i don't mean to sound juvenile but i've heard people say things like, "it's in the water" & is it actually possible? i'm just really nervous, & i'm racking my brain for an answer. could it just be that my period isn't on time? i haven't really been eating any differently. please don't treat me like an idiot, i'm just scared. (link)
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"It's in the water," we're talking about guys, lol it's everywhere. But it has to directly enter you. You can't get pregnant from drinking it, silly! You're a virgin, so stop being concerned. It's 100.1% likely that it's just stress that's messing up your menstrual cycle. You're 15, and way too young to even be worried. Hun, so try to move on, and don't think about it. Worst comes to worst, calm yourself down by getting a pregnancy test, you'll see your real results. And if it still doesn't come in a few months, I suggest seeing a doctor (or gyno.)
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i would really appretiat it if you take the time to read this.. because im in tears right now..all i want is my best friend back. okay so me and this girl (we'll call her chelsea..) chelsea have been best friends for years.. closer than like anyone.. we hung out like almost every day. never got sick of each other, and had the best times. but then she got this boyfriend from a different school. and started talking to him constantly and i felt left out a lot. and then she has ditched me a lot.. like ive caught her in a million lies. so many.. she wont stop.. and i wasnt talking to her like a week ago.. but then we started slowly talking and today we were laughing and stuff together.. then i find out she went with her boyfriend to dinner with her and her dad and hung with him all night.. whenever me her and my other friends were supposed to hang out.. so tonight when i got home i found out she went with him.. and she started to lie.. but then she told the truth that she was with him.. i know she went to his house because her dad told me. so she immediatly admitted that.. i dont know what to do. im so sick of her lieing to me. i burst into tears after talking to her.. please help me.. i really need it. thank you SOO much for reading this//and helping if you do.. (link)
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Things like this happen all the time. When a girl gets close to a guy, she forgets the world, and who really matters. You should understand this is how girls are when they interact with a guy they like. Don't get on her case TOO much about it, she'll think you're jealous. Let's face it, all girls wanna be envied by someone, and they will tell you anything to get you jealous. So here's what you do, and don't go overboard. SUCK IT UP! Stop crying hysterically, I know it's hard. But just think, if you had a boyfriend, you'd want her to understand and always be there for her. Tell her this, "Look, I want you to know, I'm happy that you're happy. But when you ditch me for him, I don't like that at all. Tell me when you have plans with him, so I can work around that." Also, make plans with her, and ONLY her, and maybe ask to hang out with her and him sometime, and stand your ground, push a way into not feeling left out. Like jokingly cough if they get too close while in your presence, or if their talking, include yourself, don't just sit there. You have other friends, make sure she doesn't think your life revolves around her, cuz then she'll take advantage of that. Just always be there, cuz they'll break up in time, and she'll come running back apologizing, and needing you. And boom, there's your best friend again.
Good Luck
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alright, so heres the thing. i was dating a guy (we'll call him K) & i fell for his friend (he's referred to as him). me & him are/were basically best friends because even when K & i went out, we talked a lot online & on the phone.. and we could talk to each other about anything.. we had a close connection. but i never realized that i actually liked him more than a friend until i seen him that weekend he spent the night at K's house on his birthday when i was there.. because there was just something about him when i seen him.. and when i was around him.. i just wanted to like hug him and get really close to him.. and i kept finding myself staring at him.. or trying to touch his hand. why is that? lol is it like that ive liked him all along and i didnt realize it until then? or like we are meant to be together? and like after that weekend, i came home & all i could think about was him.. there was like a connection.. (link)
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if you and K aren't together any longer, and i did say IF, then hang out with HIM alone. maybe he likes you too? maybe things could work out between you and him. and if you like him, don't let him get away, do something about it.
idk if this helped, cuz i don't know your question..
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I just watched the ring last night and there's something confusing me. Why did samara's dad say "my wife wasn't supposed to have a child" did he do something to her to make it so she couldn't have children???
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haha they never really cleared that up. im confused about it too. i think he wasn't fertile and that he felt insulted when the mom adopted samara. it made things rough between the mom and dad.. so that's why she had to chose marriage or the child she loved. so when she she killed samara she felt guilty, she knew she was wrong, so she jumped off a cliff.
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ok me and this girl liked each other for a while and she just broke up with her boyfriend and we liked each other while they were going out and now were prettty happy and ready to move on with eachother as a couple and today i found out that we might be 5th or 6th cousins, were not like some rednecks on jerry springer it was completley unexcpected and unwelcomed i wanted to know is 5th cousins to close for comfort?
should we just be cousins/friends or what.. (link)
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5th/6th is very far apart, it's not like your first or second cousin. it's barely a family anymore, it's down to like 1%. think about it, if you believe that everyone was conceived from adam and eve, then we technically are all like millionth cousins, is that wrong? lol jk. but it's not bad, especially since you guys like each other alot, go for it. don't ruin your chances. oh and when people ask about you two, leave that part out, it may be frowned upon, but who really has to know?
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So, basically I have these problem areas that I've been working on for atleast the past year. I guess you could call them "love handles", my abs, and my inner thighs. I do curl ups (like 100 a night), these one leg things like 25 a night, and i dont know what to do about myl ove handles. Oh, sometimes I run about a mile.
I don't know what to do anymore.
Nothing helps.
Pleaseeee help. =)
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take like 5-20 pound weights into one hand.. stand with your feet spread a little bit, and lean down a little to the side(while standing straight, don't turn!) with the weight. dont go too low cuz it'll only hurt your back. do this about 10 times on each side until you feel the pain. you should feel it in that area. another thing is, play hockey, thats a huge one.. cuz when you dribble the puck, you're twisting that area, and believe me, if you play enough, you'll feel it. good luck!
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I need a bigger butt. Any food, exersize, or clothing ideas? Please no exersize tips that make your butt tighter or perkier. Just bigger. I know pulling your shirt down makes your butt look bigger, and I know grains might help a bit. Any ideas? (link)
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tight pants w/ no pockets on the rear, make your butt seem huge. try that. there's really no way to actually make it bigger, the only way is to become bigger along with it, and i doubt you'd want that. also.. you can try black pants w/o pockets, they work on that illusion too.
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I'm on my period right now and I have extremely bad cramps so bad. Like, on a scale 1-10, it's worse than 10! What can I do??! (link)
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ohh man me too! i took midol twice today, trust me it works. i know the bottle says 1 or 2, but take 3, but no more! itll help right away. like 10 minutes or less!
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Are their any clothing styles that make your breasts look bigger? Like bras and t-shirts and stuff. I heard V necks make an illusion of bigger boobs but i don't know. Please help me. (link)
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v-necks really do make that illusion. bras with underwire, and push-up padding, make them look bigger, without making them look fake, like a waterbra or really padded bra would. i think tight worded tees (abercrombie suggested) make boobs look bigger than they are. cuz its tight around the breasts, and it shows them off, making them look twice their size. try not to stick to huge tees, or sweatshirts.
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Ok, My girlfirend and i have been having lots of difficulties...I hate her is more like it. but because of certain circumstances I am unable to break up with her. Now, because really CANT break up with her, does it still count as a relationship? do all the same rules apply? (link)
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Well, what situations leave you with not breaking up with her? If you really can't break up with her, try to make it work out, or make her break up with YOU. So she takes the fault of a nasty breakup, and no worries on you. While you're in the relationship still, the rules do apply, sorry!!!
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im gonna be a freshman next year and im really afraid im not gonna fit in. see i have plenty of friends now but i worked pretty hard to get and keep them. im... different to say the least and a lot of people dont get me and now it feels like i have to start all over again to find friends. and frankly, im not sure how. im kinda anti-social in a way... i dont like people on a whole lol cause they're stupid... but i do like meeting new people and i would really like to make some new friends (link)
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Don't be afraid of highschool. First day, I was lost and couldn't even find the gym! The upper classman are friendly (most). Stay with your group of friends, and you won't have any problems! Make exeptions, hang out with more people. Outside your group. Join clubs and sports, so many people make a lot of friends that way! BELIEVE ME! If you are different... then the people who are just like you, will be very social. It's a good start ;)
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i have a best friend that told me she moving in 3-4weeks. i wish she wasnt moving, but i dont know what to do. if she moves i'll never get to see her agian or hang out with her. we hang out every day and when she leaves i want get to any more. im really sad. i want to tell her how i feel and i have been but it wont make a diffrence if she moves or not. i cant not make her move, she has all ready bought a house, and selling the one she leaves in now. she my best friend in the whole world. when she leaves i dont know what to do, i'm going to be sad. help me!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Just keep in touch! Get her number, you call her, she calls you. Eventually you will see her again, don't ever say you won't! I know it's devistating. My BFF moved to Brazil, I cried for a week, but now (almost a year later) I have so many more friends, and I think about her still, talk to her still, but.. I don't know. It's just much easier than I thought it would be! So, you'll be alright!
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i am gettin braces and i heard u heard em do they hurt (link)
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Well, they make your teeth sore every time you get them tightened. But think of the after effects! Beautiful teeth! The pain isn't completely overwelming. I'm sure you can handle it!
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i love mister, but michele has him. what do i do?
hahaha you know who this is. (link)
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LOL! Amanda... I can rip another mister out of my dogs butt. It'll be better then the original. How does that sound!
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im 13 and 5'4 and weigh 108.. is that ok? (link)
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Yes that's a perfect weight!
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