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im sara, and i'm smallll. dig it
im in love with tylor mutton
& have been since june 28th 2006
he's a better boyfriend than yours
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i go to wilson hs.. ill be a junior
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how do i achieve the waves on the bottom of Lindsey Lohan's hair style? will curls show up on black hair?

curling iron & hair spray

I have a laptop and when i go on the internet "google" if any have "CACHED"at the bottom it wont let me open it? whta is wrong?

Click on the word cached and it will take you to the page.

Now i know that it hurts the first time but how much? Like trying to stick 2 fingers up you nose? or like pin prick?

uummm... specify??

hi. i liked this guy for a little while now
and i dont know if he likes me back, my friends keep on saying he does but im not sure. idk...

when i liked his brother (yes itsss wrong haha) i was at my friends house and they are cousins and the guy i like is her cousin too and he found out i liked his brother and he was like well dont tell him, i wont tell him either [he said that to my friend] and then at the mall we saw him and my friends brother and their other friend and i was with his cousin [my bestfriend] and my other bestfriend, and we kept on seeing them and my friend was like i have to tell you something, but she couldn't because he was there, and then when we were walking away my friend was like he was checking you out. and his cousin[my bff] was like yeah.. he has been doing that a lot...

then i went out with my bestfriends brother who is his cousin and while i was going out with him, the kid i liked [who is cousins with the kid i was going out with] commented my picture on myspace saying 'your slammin babe'.

and then my friend texted him saying do you like her? nd he was like no. and then the next day i see him at the mall with my friends and he came and sat at the table behind us bcause his cousin who is my bestfriend was with me, so his friend who the guy i like was with, goes whos stella? nd i turnd around and i was like me... and he was like oh, he wants to fuck you and he points at some random guy walking by. and im like k... and i turned around. then my friend had to go, so me and myfriend walked her and left our stuff with my other friends who stayed at the table, so me nd my friends started walking and then they just stopped half way and started talking to eachother, so i turn around nd i face the table where the kid i like was sitting at with his friends and i see him staring at me, and so was his friend.. and then later on me and my friends were sitting and one of my friends call him because he was walking by and he came over and my guy friend was like you look lonely[to him] why wont you hug her? nd he points at me and the kid i like was like no man your gay.

i told my friend who is in his grade about all of this and she said he's just trying to HIDE that he likes me. but i don't know....

my other friend told me to ask him out. im scared ill get rejected.

its been bothering me forever. what should i do? please help me =[

i didn't even read it all.. so you wanna know for sure if he likes you? simple. ask him, then you'll know

Ok well i had "sex" for my first time about 4 days ago, it did go in but we didnt fully go at it if you get what i mean. we didnt use protection but he didnt bust or have any pre bust at all (it was only for like a minute anyway). My period has been off lately to. I have gotten blood but like not alot and then it will stop im not sure if its my period or the "cherry" pop. It has been bleedding on and off for a few days. Im kind of nervous, can you please help me =)

don't even do anything like that again without a condom.. you really never know. if you're scared, go out and buy a pregnancy test=]

okay, so when i put a tampon in, it like doesnt feel like it is in when i am standing and still...but when I am running or sitting it like stings...one time it hurt so i tried to push it in and it didnt work so i took it out and i had a really hard time because it STUNG SO BAD!!! I used a super for that...when i use lites they work but they dont last long [[i even read the instructions and tried like 10 times!]] what do i do?! please help asap 14f

welllll you don't have to use super or lites.. use regular=] i reccommend playtex sport.. they're amazing. make sure it's in all the way, and you shouldn't feel any discomfort at all if it's all filled up when you take it out. when you put it in, make sure you can move around comfortably.. even wiggle around in your bathroom to check lol just to see that it's in properly=] ask someone whos very close to you to help if you're still having problems=] good luck

What can you do if you are having sex and the condom breaks and your parents are going to kill you if you get pregnant or even find out you had sex again?
Oh and we have no way of getting the morning after pill either.

PLEASE HELP ASAP

what do you mean what can you do? live with the fact that you had sex too early and weren't prepared. you should be on birth control if you're not ready to have a kid. and if your parents are really going to "kill you" then there's no problem, cause you'll be dead soon, right? so no there's nothing you can do

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okay, so what were you going to do? relay the advice to your friend, right? then go ahead and tell her what i said, because it's true. you're just upset cause you know it sucks and there's nothing you can do about it. well sorry but i didn't mess up, your friend did. did you ever hear 'the truth hurts'? yeahhh, it does. so just suck it up and deallll. i think it's pretty ridiculous what the world's coming to.. the truth being rated badly, such a shame. i bet i would have gotten a 5 if i said 'omg im so sorry that happened, but there's really nothing you can do.. but just tell your parents and hope they aren't mad!! omgg im sooo sorry=[ omg omg good luck' yeah f thatt

i've been dating this guy, let's call him delicino (his last name), and we've been on and off for 3 years. we were together for 2 years then we decidd to end up, but have gotten back together 2 times afte rthat and one of those times are right now. it's a secretive relationship and he's my brother's best friend and my best friends brother. my best friend knows about it and we're pretty sure my brother knows too. We only see each other when he stays the night over here and when i'm over at his house. everytime he's over though and we're left alone, he always trys to get me to take off my clothes or something along the lines of that and i tell him no every single time, but he still trys again and the next time he's over. it gets so annoying to me and he's over at my house now and i'm 100% sure he'll try it again. i want to break the relationship off, but im not sure if i want to. it's hard giving him up for the fact that when ever i see him, it brings back memories and me being the person i am gets back together with him. i've told myself not to and that the last time we were together was the last time, but i'm back with him again. i'm confused. i din't know if i should stay with him or not. i have on and off feelings for him too.

dump him. but make sure he knows why. trust me, if he really cares about you'll, he'll beg for your forgiveness and to be your boyfriend again. and if you guys do go back out again, and he continues... dump him FOR GOOD.

is their any shampoos/conditioners or anything thats cheep and can help my hair grow longer? i cut it and i dont like it and i want to try to make it grow faster..is their any way?

you have to get special shampoo products to do that.. also, you need to keep it healthy. go to a salon and ask about it, cause they have it at my hair salon, i'm just not sure what it's called cause i never used it.. but she was telling me about it, so i know it exists =]

alright whenever im sitting down im always fidgety and i can never sit still. does this sound like add or what and how can i control it because its starting to become a problem for me to sit for a long time like in school and church and whatever

you probably just get bored easily. god, every kid nowadays has ADD, OCD, is bipolar, or some other bullshit disease.. us here on advicenators can't diagnose you. if it's really THAT bad, then go to a doctor.. please don't be like those annoying kids that walk around saying they have ADD cause i doubt it's anything to worry aboutttt =]

Okay, well my parents have been telling me that my hair is burnt out and dry. But i like leaving it straightened so when i take a shower i use a shower cap. But then i go to a lot of events that involve sweating so my hair starts to get wavy, so when i get home i take a shower with my shower cap. Then the next day i striaighten my hair. But whenever i do wash my hair fully it's wavy/curly. My hair is short to [but long enough to be straighened], so whenever i straighten it, it takes a long time. Then afterwards, it looks like a mess and i apply pressure by using a headband to keep it down. But then i read another website that said not to apply pressure, because it damages hair. So i do not know what do my hair, i just want it straight. My hair is also fairly thick, thats must be why it takes at least 3 hours to straighten it. My friend told me to perm it straight, but i'm scared on how it may come out. Or just perm it wavy, but i'm also scared of that. Then another friend told me to thin my hair out so it won't be so thick. If anyone can help me out with my hair. Please, it would be much appreciated :/

ask a hair stylist.. they'll know what the best thing is to do. i can't really give good advice without a picture =\ just get a good, hydrating shampoo and conditioner.. i really like matrix shampoo, and get garnier fructis leave in conditioner.. it's called 3 minute mask? or something.. they both work great. it definitely shouldn't take ANYONE 3 hours to straighten their hair.. that's like impossible. my one friend has her mom straighten her hair and it takes two hours.. and her hair is sooooooooo curly.. ask someone at a hair salon, they can help you =] or if you send me a picture.. i can help you a little bit more. good luck =]

Okay so i just started using tampons and im using tampaz pearl and there really comfortable when I just put them in but when I start to walk around adn just move it starts to slip and it really unconfortable and it hurts when I sit down.
What am I doing wrong???

you have to push them in farther..i know it's scary shoving it all the way up there but trust me it's fineee. haha now don't like, jab it up so you can't even hold the string.. leave the string out so it's like at least the length of your pinky.. or longer.. but when you feel around down there after it's in, you shouldn't feel this like.. hard spot coming from inside.. it should be comfortable even when you sit. and if it's not, then it simply is not in all the way =]

Ok, at what age do you stop growing? I have read many different answers online and my mom&dad say around 17.

I am 15/f and only 5'2! (I weight between 95-97lbs). My mom makes comments on how I should be taller because my dad is 6'2 (shes 5'4) so we both agree I should at LEAST be 5'4. Not many people care but this one girl kept going on and on about it and I pointed out other people who were older and shorter than me and she was like "Well, they're just short." Ugh.

Thanks

i knew what my answer was gonna be when i only saw the subject (will i get taller?) and before i even read the question.. ask your doctor if there's any more room in your growth plates. he'll probably have to do an xray if you really wanna know, but jesus christmas- advicenators isn't gonna tell ya. my dad's 6'4 and my mom's 5'7.. i'm 4'11. who cares? if she says anything else about it just point out something negative about her.. that is after all what makes the world go round.

I can never get my period timing right!! So then on the first day of my period, its always on my underwear because i never know when to wear a pad!

I really don't want to wear a pad every single day, because that is just very very expensive and weird. I keep track on my online calendar and my period is around every 24 days.... but there are times when it comes every 15 days or every 30 days!!

How can I get my timing right? What are some signs that tell you, you are about to get your period? Thank you very much

you know, or at least have an idea, when you're about to get it when you start getting moody, irritable, and when you get cramps and possibly headaches, backaches, fatigue.. and just pms in general. whenever you start to think you might get it, wear a pantiliner.. you can't even feel them. i know people who wear the all the time cause they're sooo cheap and not noticable at all.. and you can't even tell it's there.. plus they like to be safe. so just when you see your usual pre-period symptoms coming, just slap on that pantiliner, and you're good to go =]

My best friend f/16 told me she cut her wrist yesterday and I started crying.
She came over and showed me, it's a diagonal cross on her left wrist about 3 finger widths down from the start of her wrist on the left hand side. The cross is only about 1cm long and it isn't very deep. How come she didn't die? Is it because she didn't lose much blood or because she didn't cut deep enough or didn't cut the vein?
I don't want her to do it again. And I just want to know why she didn't die?
Thanks

don't you ever scratch yourself? does that cause you to die? no. she obviously didn't dagger the thing into her wrist, therefore it wasn't that deep, so she survived.. talk to her about it.. and if she really cares about you she'll stop. usually cutting is just a plea for attention, nothing more- nothing less. it's 'my life is sooooo baddd, i want attention!!!' so thats probably why she did it.. felt cool one night, thought it would satisfy her, when it only hurt the people that do care about her.

How do you ask a guy for his cell number?
I like this boy at my camp, but he doesnt go to my school or live in my town. I want to ask him his phone number but i'm not sure how i should go about asking it. We are friends, but he flirts with me ALL THE TIME. Camp is over next week (July 20) so i have to get the number by then. He's been saying stuff like "My ringtone is beautiful girls" so i think he wants me to have it. I dont know how to ask though. PLEASE answer by the 20th.
P.S. we get autograph books but i'm not ending camp until August some time so i wont get my book until then, so i can write my number in his book but he cant write his in mine.

*sorry it's long!*
but thank you SO MUCH!

ok don't say that 'you were wondering what his number was'.. cause then it'll seem like you long and crave for his number, since you always wonder about it haha.. so when you go to sign his book, jot down your number, and be like 'hey can i have you number? since i gave you mine :)' that way it doesn't look like you're desperate or anything, you just want him to return the favor :) hope i helpedd, and good luck

If you have sex the day before your period and sperm enters is there a strong possibility you could be pregnant?

whenever sperm enters, there's always a strong chance.. it doesn't matter what day of your cycle

14/f
i dont feel liked at all. like no guys EVER look at me! ive never been kissed and ive never had a boyfriend. when my friends have and are always telling me about their stories. I'd just like to have a story to tell. any advice?

you can't expect the guys to do all the work, you gotta make yourself noticed and let them know you're available. your time will come, trust me. i didn't get my 1st boyfriend til i was 15 and a half, and we're still together now =] (it's been a year!) so just wait it out, and your prince charming will come. maybe not right away, but he will. you're only 14! you still have the rest of your life to live! you're young, you should be focusing on having fun with your friends before you have to worry about real-life things.. if you just stop thinking so much, everything will work out. maybe get come new cltohes, try wearing makeup if you don't already, and if you do, try putting it on differently. do your hair- and most importantly, have fun. because before you know it, you're gonna have to get a job, deal with money, get a car, and eventually go off to college and be on your own, when the last thing you'll be worrying about is a guy. so hang in there sweetie, your time will come :]

me and my boyfriend have been together for a couple weeks
but weve been talking for like 2 months. i trust him and everything but should i have sex with him?
or should i wait?

im not a virgin so its not like my frist time.

what should i do?

no you shouldn't. definitely wait. if you have to ask a website to know if you should do anything involving having sex, being in love, etc.. don't do it. even though it's not your first time, don't do it just for the hell of it.. save that for later on in the relationship. when people have sex early on in a relationship, it makes it crumble faster than those who take their time.

Okay, well I found a sore spot on my boyfriend's penis which I think is from me giving him a handjob. He really liked the handjob, he said it was one of the best he's gotten; but I felt bad that it left a sore thats like scabbed up. I'm not sure what to do differently to make sure that it doesn't happen again. Would it be because I didn't use some sort of lubrication and that much rubbing broke the skin? If it is, what should I use. I'm only 15 so I can't go out to a sex shop and get something fancy.

you cna get ky at the grocery store lol.. its by where they sell the condoms.. and alot of people just use regular hand lotion =]

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