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confused
14/f
i dont feel liked at all. like no guys EVER look at me! ive never been kissed and ive never had a boyfriend. when my friends have and are always telling me about their stories. I'd just like to have a story to tell. any advice?
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hmm well im 15
and this may sound a bit weird but just always try and look better than your friends. you know take the extra 5 minutes on your make-up and the extra 10 on your hair. Every little bit can count! Just whenever you hangout with your friends and a group of guys just be really flirtatious to all of them, and look cute. One of them is bound to be all over you, and when he is treat him greatt. I mean you never know you could end up dating. i hope that helped.
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Dear Confused.
Your just a kid, hold your horses. What are you a freshmen?? Cause lemme tell you I was in your same situation and then all the sudden I had a few things goin on by the end of the year. Just wait. Maybe put forth some more effort. Be more outgoing and talk to the guys instead of waiting for they're lazy asses to talk to the beatiful you! I'm sure you hate waiting just like me but I'm sure your a great girl, you just have to understand, when its time, you'll know, someone will come. And I know that sounds stupid, but right now I believe it, because it happened to me. Cause I waited I found this great guy who likes me back, and not that we're going out, we have a great friendship that has other possiblities. So just be patient and sit pretty!
Happy waiting!
Missy
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you can't expect the guys to do all the work, you gotta make yourself noticed and let them know you're available. your time will come, trust me. i didn't get my 1st boyfriend til i was 15 and a half, and we're still together now =] (it's been a year!) so just wait it out, and your prince charming will come. maybe not right away, but he will. you're only 14! you still have the rest of your life to live! you're young, you should be focusing on having fun with your friends before you have to worry about real-life things.. if you just stop thinking so much, everything will work out. maybe get come new cltohes, try wearing makeup if you don't already, and if you do, try putting it on differently. do your hair- and most importantly, have fun. because before you know it, you're gonna have to get a job, deal with money, get a car, and eventually go off to college and be on your own, when the last thing you'll be worrying about is a guy. so hang in there sweetie, your time will come :]
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You may be more reserved or something than your friends. Right now most guys find it easier to just go for the crazy outgoing girls.. You will get noticed, now or later, believe me.
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