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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

ok i want to have a bonfire on the beach...but is it allowed? anyone know any specific beaches that allows bonfires? i bet the beaches in NY dont allow ..or do they?

Yea it should be allowed it just depends on where you live && you would have to ask someone there. Some beached in NY are allowed. ll ♥ ll

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my boyrfriend is going to college and i was wondering if you had any cute ideas of things i could do for him

Make him a scrapbook of all the memories you both had together. Take a picture of you two and frame it and just write him a letter saying that you will miss him && that you will love him no matter what.

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My Boyfriend and I were involved in a car accident friday afternoon... We are alright though. The car is totalled he hurt his shoulder and I hit my head.. but anyway.. I am terrified to ride with him.. or for that fact even drive. Since his car is totalled we've been driving my car and I've been driving. and hes like I'll drive.. and I tell him no that I Am.. I really trust him. I mean we've been together almost 11 months. and this really hurt him when I told him I was scared to drive.. and now he feels like I dont trust him anymore. and I don't know what to do to fix this. I even told him that I trusted him that he's just got to give me sometime to get over the accident that it just happened... What Can I Do?? :( Sorry This Is Soooo Long.

You need some time to qet over the accident. Let him know that. You are just terrified to drive still since the accident happend && you just dont want him to get hurt again. He should be a little more careful but it was an accident tho. right... but still tell him that you still trust him but you just need some time to get over the accident. He will understand.

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whenever i make out i get drool allover my chin and its discusting, is this sopposed to happen or how can i make it stop?

No its not supposed to happen but do you drool over him or he drools over you? If he does it then just tell him && he wont do it anymore. When you are making out keep your tongue inside the other persons mouth and just go slow.

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ok well my best friend lets call her jenny & i
got into this fight. and when she gets into a fight w/ someone she has to get everyone to hate
that person too. so we got in this fight and a while ago before the fight we were at the library and shes like ohh lets make an AIM sn & curse at people. so i was like w.e. so she d always curse at people nd say it was my friend chrissy wen actually it would be jenny cursing at the people. so everyone hated chrissy nd i never went on that sn unless i wanted to see if somebody blocked me on my sn or if jenny said go on it cause i need to send u something on it. so when we got in this fight the other day she decided to tell everyone that i made up the sn that she cursed ppl on nd now like everyone hates me! what should i do?

She seems like a bitchy whore! LoL j/k well seriously tell her to shut the fuck up. Even tho you both got into a fight doesnt mean you wont make up and be best friends again. You should of told all those people before that Chrissy didnt do that && that it was Jenny! But now its too late. All those people should not belive her and just apologize to all of them and tell them it wasnt your fault! Have a talk with Jenny because she isnt being a true friend at all and if I was you I wouldnt be friends with her anymore, or at least I wouldnt be able to trust her.

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Ok... i see my boyfriend every day for at least 3 hours or so... well he works during the week...

is it weird that i miss him all day?

people tell me i'm too dependent on him but i just love him


and i miss him

That's not weird at all. I mean you cant help that you love him or anything!! Who cares what they say tho. They are just jelous.

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Hey. Im 11 years old . and im a girl. Im scared about getting my period.. in 5 grade.. that just ended some girls starting getting there periods. And im scard!
I heard it hurts and stuff
and i dont want to use tampons what if the string came off.. and i have to use tampons to go swimming the pad would come apart..
Help

Its alright to be scared. No one wants to have their periods at all! It doesnt hurt. I mean you might get some cramps once in a while but no biggy its normal. First start using pads. Tampons are'nt scary. Stop thinking like that. lol. The string rarely comes off and its pretty long so it wont. It wont get stuck or anything. I have been using tampons for about 2 years and nothing bad has happend. ll ♥ ll

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My boyfriend and I broke up a little more than 2 months ago, and about a week ago he told me that he still loved me and could never bare to tell his mom we broke up because it would make it "real." I told him that i still love him too, and, even though we had gone back to being best friends after we broke up, now that we both admitted to still liking eachother we have barely talked or anything. I'm starting to worry our frienship is falling apart, which is more important to me than ANYTHING. Is there any way i could make a move to tell him we're still OK and nothing's changed, anything u guys think will help...or, more importantly, any reason this has happened?

He might feel confused and just weird. You need to talk to him and ask him whats going on and whats going to happen to your relationship. Im not sure why it might of happend. When ever you talk to him just tell him that nothing has changed. Im sure he is just taking some time to think about it tho. ll ♥ ll

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When is everyone gonna stop ending everything with " & hearts" its soo annoying. Im sure im not the only one who feels this way. Someone please agree with me.

We will stop using it when we find some other cute symbol. Lol.

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ok im 13 years old and a girl and my sister just got me this baby-sitting job. Its for a 8 or 9 year old i dont know if its a boy or girl though she hasnt told me. But i was wondering what i could do to keep them entertained and busy for a the few hours that i'm with them. I mena i really need the money and i dont want to screw this up and end up gettin the job takin anyway. so please help me thanx everyone.

Try doing things that the kid wants to do. I mean you dont want to be doing anything the kid isnt into. So ask if he/she wants to watch a movie. Draw, paint. Go out side and play some basketball or just watch them ride the bike or something. It wont be so hard. I mean those few hours will pass in no time. ll ♥ ll

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I may be completely over-reacting, but I really need some advice on this;

I'm thirteen, and I started smoking a few months ago... at first it was only a fag or two when I was around friends, but now its almost like I need a few cigarettes to calm me down just so I can start studying... not just around my mates and stuff..

Problem is; I've started to get some pain in my chest, and I've let myself get into a panic by reading that section on a ciggie packet about health hazards over and over again...

and now I'm afraid I may be sick... like i said, I may be over reacting... but I'm panicky... I don't want to die, my parents are doctors!

I can't tell them, I'll get into so much trouble... and after they send me for a check up, and if the results turn up fine, then I'll want to smoke again- but they'll confiscate the pack from me... and I won't be able to... Honestly, I have so much going through my head right now, I CAN'T STOP SMOKING, BUT I CAN'T DIE EITHER??

What should I do?!

PS. Sorry for the lengthy question

Everyone has tried smoking. I have also. I did it with my friends and sometimes at home when I was alone. But that lasted for about 3 months. I relized how stupid it was && defenetlly pointless. If you keep doing it your parents will find out. They find out everything. Its good that you want to stop so when ever you feel like you have to smoke just try not to. Throw it away or hide it. Start keeping yourself busy && find other things that could calm you down instead of smoking. ll ♥ ll

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How do you put more than one picture on you Column?

Go to Profile setting and it will save upload picture. So click on browse and find it. If you want to put more then one then you have to have photobucket && everything. So sign up for that if you already have'nt , its free, and then you just copy the middle code into the info box. ll ♥ ll

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I've been tweezing my eyebrows for a while now but it's getting too difficult to find a shape I like. Today I'm going to get them waxed but I'm nervous. Will it hurt alot? Will I be really sore afterwards? Do the people who do it find the shape they like for you?

Thanks!

It will hurt just a little but not really bad. Your eyes might get a little teary but thats normal. It wont be swollen but it will be red so when you go home just keep putting lotion so the redness gos away. The people who do it will ask you what shape and everything so you can just tell them if they could help you out with that. ll ♥ ll

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13/f

ok my friend and I are going to babysit together. What would be a good price to have parents pay for our babysitting? there is 2 of us and we both need money. but also we cant charge too too much cuz then we wont get any bizness. also, is there anything else about babysitting i should know?

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You should ask for about $5-7 for one hour. Thats for both of you tho. Depends on how old the kid is. Dont make it cry. Keep your eye always on the baby, play with him/her. Feed them when ever the mom said. ll ♥ ll

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Can you change you name on Advicenators with out having to make a new accout and without having to pay?

You cant change it unless you have a paid account tho. Sorry. ll ♥ ll

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Do you know how to stop deoderant from getting stuck in clumps beetween the folds of your underarms? Im afraid to lift my hands above my head because of all the white clumps of this so called "invisible deoderant" next, when I shave its smooth and there is no hair, yet its all dark, because I have black hair. Do you know any way to stop all the darkness and clumpyness under my arms? And plz, no waxing, cuz im terrified. I rate high

Make sure you use a good razor && shaving cream and you have to shave your underarms every day so it doesnt get like that. You are probablly using a bad deoderant tho. I use Secret clear gel. Those dont make clumps at all && they defenetlly last and smell great. Dove also works really good so try those. ll ♥ ll

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it hurts when i take my tampon out, is this normal?

Yes its pretty normal but next time leave it in for about 4 hours and then change it. It also might hurt a little if you just started using them but you will be fine. ll ♥ ll

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ok for the second half of my summer i want to keep summer going good..any ideas on what me and my friends can do to make this summer memorable?
thanks!
16/f

You or one of your friends could have a little party just for fun. Like have a pool party with your closest friends. Thats always fun !! You could also go to the lake, go shopping, spend the night at a friends. ll ♥ ll

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im a guy. im desperate to have sex. just with a decent looking girl. where should i find one who will do it?

Uhm.. not many girls are willing to have sex these days. If you had a girlfriend for a little while then mabe she would have sex. But first try to find yourself a girlfriend. ll ♥ ll

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hey i asked you a question a few days ago and i can't figure out how to rate you advice cause it was really great!! so how do i rate it??

Thanks. Well do you have an advice column? If you dont then you cant rate me. If you do then you when you view my question it wil say rate this question. ll ♥ ll

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