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I have a boyfriend that I've been datinf for four months. I most certainly am not getting tired of him in any way, shape, or form, but I am getting upset with him a lot easier.
(IE: He went over to this girl's house to watch a movie. I didn't like that at all because it was just her and him.
He wasn't able to do something today like he said he was able to. He kinda ditched me, again.)
So, yeah, I've been getting upset really easy with him and it's taking a lot longer to get over things. Is this just a phase? How will I get over this phase? He's wonderful and I don't want to lose him, but I know if I keep this up he'll realize how sucky he has it. I want to change this before he gives up on me.

Well, I can see why you would be mad he went over a girls house. But if you really loved him, then you would trust him - that's a key thing in a relationship. Talk to him about this and ask him why he isn't spending as much time with you anymore.

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My bf and I started going out a few days ago. Thing is, I am not the most pretty person. In fact, I reaally lack in the beauty department. I am bigger than my bf PLUS I am ugly. I have already heard of assholes staring at my boyfriend and snickering and whatnot. It sucks how these people could possibly break apart a relationship with potential. I mean, who wants to go through this critisism and crap like that? Any tips on how to survive the first few 'judgement' days (or maybe weeks) as a couple? I dont want him to break up with me over something so stupid as this.

If he really liked you, he wouldn't dump you because of what people think. Just ignore them. He obviously must think you are gorgeous and perfect if he is dating you!

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What is the difference between goth, punk and emo? Also, can you be christian and goth, or punk.

this is from what I have observed of these stereotypes:

goth- dresses in black, sometimes worships the devil, angry at the world, listens to loud music, likes vampires.

punk- think they are badass, trying to set new trends all the time.

emo- "emotional", they want sympathy, emo guys have long hair, wear thick black glasses, and wear tight girl clothes.


You are a christian as long as you believe in God, so yes a goth or punk can be christian.

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Hi. Ok. So I have this really dry part on my face.. between my eyebrows. I moisterize at least, occasionly 2 times a day. I pay special attention to that certain spot, without applying to must cream, but it never goes away. I also get acne sometimes and usse spot treatments, but usually avoid that area so it doesnt get dried out. I there anything I can do ? The rest of my skin is very nice and soft. HELP ME PLEASE !!

Put petroleum jelly on it at night. That will add oil to your face in that spot, and hopefully help heal your dry skin since lotion isn't working. If that doesn't help, tell your mom or dad and have them take you to a dermatologist.

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I need some advice. You see, I'm kind of shy. Actually, very shy. I'm not shy around my closest friends. But around other people, I am. How can learn to be myself more? I want to open up and not worry about what other people think of me. Can you please tell me how to do that? Thanks. Oh yeah, and please don't say "shyness can be good at times," because that's not really helping me. Thanks

When you are talking to people you don't really know or talk to often, just pretend like you have known them forever. I am very shy too, especially around adults. I just pretend like they are a family friend and it helps talk to them.

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14/f...i just met this new girl named Kate about 2 months ago. She has this whole group of friends that I've gotten to know a little. I've only actually went over Kate's house and that's it. Well she has been spending a lot of time with me lately and she says that some people are jealous of mine and her friendship and I feel really bad. And I have also been getting a vibe from every in her group that they don't like me very much...I don't know what to do. please help.

Don't feel bad, they are just jealous. Stay friends with Kate. Her friends are either going to have to accept your friendship or just ignore both of you together. But, whatever the case, you still get to be friends with Kate.

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How does anorexia and bulimia relate to psychology?

Anorexic and bulimic people see themselves as always fat. They can be 50 pounds and still see a 500 person in the mirror. It's how their minds interpret what they look like. That's why they go to counseling.

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Hello! I am working on a paper on abortions for my health class and I need to find out how much an abortion costs. I would just type it in the search bar but then my mom might types in something that starts with an "A" she might see the word abortion and get suspicious. So please and thank you verry much!! I will rate high for good answers!!

It depends on what hospital, how far along you are, and where you live. Just tell your mom you have to do it for school.

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ok so i shaved "down there" the whole thing but after words i got this really itches rash and it hurts so bad i dont understand what i did wrong. i used conditioner to make it softer and after words i put lotion on it
..do you think it could be from the lotion??


ill rate high.
thanks

Always use a sharp razor and alot of shaving cream. Don't use conditioner, it will irritate it. Don't put lotion on it as soon as you get out of the shower, wait until you are all dry. The rash could be from the lotion, or one of the things I mentioned above.

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14/f...My friend Kate and I are crushing on the same guy, named Warren. I've only known him for about 2 weeks but Kate has known him for a whole year because they went to the same school last year. He talks to her way more than he talks to me because they are really good "friends." We both made a PROMISE that whatever happens we won't let him come between us. But whenever I see them talking I can't help but feel jealous. I know that I shouldn't be mad at her but I can't help what I feel. Please help me. I don't know what to do...in all parts of this situation.

It's okay to feel jealous. Just keep talking to him and you'll get close to him. It's not always a good idea to like a guy that your friend likes though. Since she has known him longer, she has the advantage too.

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Okay, I have really bad facial acne, and have had it for about 4-5 years now. I have tried almost everything it seems, but it just won't go away! If you have any advice on acne, or even acne scars (I have both, lucky me)I'd love to know! ThAnKs!!

Pro-Activ. Another thing is, believe it or not, birth control clears up your face too.

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My best guy friend's name is "Jay". I have liked him more than a friend for a really long time and Im too shy to tell him how i feel. He flirts with me, but it might just be "friendly flirting". I really dont know what to do, is there anyway i could let him know i like him without it being too obvious or anything else?
16/f

You could flirt with him, ask him who he likes, or just tell him. If you don't tell him now, you might regret it in the future when he has a girlfriend or something. He might feel the same about you and is just too scared to tell you!

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Ok..i love when guys play hard to get with me. Its just a turn on and everytime and guy does it..i like him even more. Well i used to like this one guy and he immediatly asked me out after he found out i liked him. That scared me and turned me off and i didnt like him nemore. Has this happened to anyone else. Please comment!

People are always after what they can't have. Girls like a challenge. When they win the challenge, they get bored though. I know alot of girls that are like that.

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I just started a new job. Well one day I took my break and then came back down to work. I saw another one of the girls that I work with and asked her a question about whether or not we have to tell the manager if we are on our break. Normally I work night shifts and my supervisor is gone by then, that is why we have to notify the manager.
Well anyways this girl came up to me afterwords and said that our supervisor saw us talking, and had asked the girl what we had been talking about!!
I was relieved I hadnt been gossiping, and the girl told our boss the truth that i had asked a question about our breaks. So I wasnt in trouble. But the fact that she even asked what we were talking about made me upset.
Should I have reason to worry?

No you shouldn't have to worry. She probably thought that you two weren't doing what you were suppose to.

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What do you think about a guy that you ask over on a date, and he continually disses you?
I invited this guy over that I had liked for a long time.
I have a small but clean and nicely decorated appartment. Well he would say mean things about it, like when his tea got cold I told him I could zap it in my microwave and he said sarcastically "oh you have one of those"? Then when I asked him if he wanted to watch one of my movies he said "oh, it's the movie queen,". But the way he said it wasn't complimentary. Then he started asking me questions about my finaces! I kept trying to enagage him in conversation by showing him pictures but he looked completely bored. I felt very uncomfortable. I thought if I guy was into you he would say things to make you like him better. But the way he was acting it's like he was purposely trying to make me not like him.
Why do you think he was acting like this? He's still trying to be my friend. What should I do?

It seems like he is jealous of all that you have. He definitely isn't worth it if he is putting you down all the time. Tell him that.

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There is this lad in my school who is 3 years older than me. i have liked him for ages now, i have been his friend for ages aswell. If i told him i like him i don't know what he will say, i don't think he likes me, if i say something and he doesn't like me i will fell like a fool, i have no idea what to do about it. please help me i am confused.

Just tell him you like him. Things that you don't tell him now, you may regret in the future. What have you got to lose?

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Ok so this guy started to like me but i didnt like him...he started to like me the very first day we met and then the second day i started to like him he found out by my friend!!! And well he asked me out and i said yes!!! Do you think i should have waited or did i do the right thing?
Thanks in help!!!

Well it's not like you made a life long commitment with this boy. If you like him, then yes you did the right thing. There are no gaurantees that your relationship will be peachy, since you know nothing about each other, but like I said, if you like him then you did the right thing.

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my period is late by a few days which is really weird for me because i usually get it right on time. basketball season started up this month & i was wondering if it was because of that. my mom said that if you exercise a lot & you haven't exercised that much in awhile, that could be the reason. what are some other reasons?? idk if i should worry er not. i guess i should wait a few days & go to the doctor if i dont get it?? any ideas??

thanks!!

Don't worry, especially if you aren't sexually active. Just like your mom said, it could be because of that. Periods are irregular very often. I skip mine like months sometimes. I think it's a blessing to not get it, hah. It could be because of your diet too. Nothing to be worried about unless you don't get it for a few months.

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my boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me for no reason at all.. well i love him.. but i am trying to get over him. i met this other boy and he already loves me.. but hes going way to quick. and i still love my ex. what should i do? i dotn wanna hurt this guy.

Tell the guy you just got over a relationship where things were left unsaid. Talk to your ex and he has to have a reason to just dump you. Eventually you are going to have to get over him. Tell the new guy that he is moving way to fast. I'm sure he will listen and when you work things out, maybe you two can have a relationship.

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so i have this mole. its all red around the area where the mole is... whats with that? and could there be something wrong with the mole?

If a mole is more than one color and/or doesn't have a smooth appearance, it could be cancerous. Go get it checked out.

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