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guy probs
Ok..i love when guys play hard to get with me. Its just a turn on and everytime and guy does it..i like him even more. Well i used to like this one guy and he immediatly asked me out after he found out i liked him. That scared me and turned me off and i didnt like him nemore. Has this happened to anyone else. Please comment!
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I don't know if this has happened to me or not, but I can see where you're coming from. Most girls like a challenge when it comes to guys and whenever a guy just automatically falls for you, it turns you off faster. There's nothing you can really do about it. It's just how you are, and how alot of people are. Don't go out with this guy if you don't like him. Wait for someone else to come along, there's alot of other guys out there..and alot of them can play hard to get.
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People are always after what they can't have. Girls like a challenge. When they win the challenge, they get bored though. I know alot of girls that are like that.
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this has happened to me before. all my long relationships are with a guy who either didn't like me right away (it took about a year. haha.) or who just played it smart and waited a while.
but anyway. when a guy asks me out right away it usually doesn't seem to last more than a couple weeks. haha.
you may be wondering why i'm giving you my history. haha. well, it's all relevant. the guy i'm with now is just so adorable. =). we've been together for a little over a month now..but he asked me out the day after i told him i liked him. when he did that it kind of scared me just because i was thinking "wait! this never works for me!" but it has. you just have to give it a shot. don't focus so much on the fact that you have him..just why you like him.
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We girls can't help it! Seems like we always want the ones we can't have or have to chase. Then the ones that adore us we don't want! Even the losers I dated were the ones I wanted cause I had to chase them. That just took extra time to figure out I was better and walk away.
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No, that's never happened to me. I understand where you're coming from though. It's no reason to scare you, or to make you not like him. So he's a compassionate guy who doesn't want to screw around with your feelings. That's anything BUT scary! Give him a shot.
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Yes x7831!
I do this all the time. Some guy REALLY attracts you, you think your in LOVE with him and could never feel any differently on any circumstance. He quickly asks you out, and then all the feeling drains out of you.
I had a friend who was a guy, but once he started to like me it scared me off. Needless to say, he's pretty much a jerk anyway. And really gross. Not to mention. Perverted and all that. But anyway...he started to GROSS me out completely.
A chase is always the best. No matter what. What I make myself do is to take my time and not rush things. If I like someone I don't tell them so that it's a guessing game and builds anticipation
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I know how you feel...need any more help just inbox me. <p>
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I like guys that play haard to get when I am already dating them , you know flirting, being kind of coy. If you only like guys becuase they play hard to get, how are you ever going to go on a date? I think you need to take a chance and go out with the dude. I fit doesn't work out, oh well, there are plenty more where he came from right? I just don't want you to be a tease, guys can get bord with that easily after a while. Good luck and I hope things work out for you, and don't be scared if a guy automaticcally wants to date you instead of flirting around forever.
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