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so i've liked this kid joe for a long time. i've never officially told him i liked him but we have fun together, we flirt all the time and we always have fun when we're together but i'm not sure if he likes me more than a friend or not?? he acts like it but doesn't put any moves on me. he is friends with my cousin jake, it's actually his neighbor and jakes other cousin sammy (other side of fam) has the biggest crush on joe and i don't know whats up with her and joe. when its me, my cousin jake, joe and sammy .. joe and sam like always seclude themselves and will go downstairs or something. but sam has only kissed one guy before and joes not a virgin and i know they havent done anything but it still annoys me. i get SO jealous and i dont know if thats what joe wants or what but i HATE it. like sammy will whine and bit*h about everyhing to get attention and sometimes i just want to punch her in the face haha. like tonight we were all at jakes watching the football game with his family and their friends and before joe came over sammy went down by herself to "take a nap" and then joe came over and was talking to me and then went downstairs to show sammy something on the computer and never came up. its just awkward because i'm not going to throw myself at him and fight for his attention with sammy so i act like it doesnt bug me and like i dont even notice.
a couple months ago i did say something to joe about it and asked if he liked sammy because how he acts and he had said that they are just friends and that if he liked her they would have already been dating and he was like your jealous arent you? and i was like noooo why would i be? (i lied.) i think it might be sammy though throwing herself at him because tonight i had to go downstairs and joe was sitting on the couch doing his homework and sammy was like laying her head on him in a blanket and i was like what the heck?? and when joe came upstairs to eat she came up a little bit after, its like she follows him. i just dont know if its her or him tooo.
but then i was like in the bathroom washing my hands and i had on a short tank top and like short shorts and he came in and he was like i have to go to the bathroom .. and i was like so go .. i wont look at you haha so he closed the door and went and then was like staring at me the whole time like checking me out ;) me and joe are both big flirts, not going to lie but it just seems like different with him and sammy and what am i suppose to do when they like seclude themselves?? i cant stop thinking about it when im upstairs with everyone and its just them two downstairs i get SO jealous and i dont want to go down there and like interrupt that would just be awkward and i feel like joe would be like wow she is jealous and trying to see what we're doing blah blah.
joe was really serious though because i wouldnt give it up about sammy when i asked him about her a couple months ago and he was like cant i have girl friends?? but they seem like more than that...
ahhh i dont know what to do! if its just me jake and joe me and joe will flirt allll the time, like really physical and we havent done anything either but dang sometimes i just want to jump on him haha. do you think i have to be more out there?? am i doing something wrong?? i dont know what to do...
I don't think you have to put yourself out there for him he should be the one to make the first move if he's interested in you i think that girl Sammy is holding him back seeing as when it's you Jake & Joe you both flirt with one another i don't think your doing anything wrong if Sammy was out of the picture then possiblity things could change it seems
to me like he does like you since he was checking you out when they aren't with everyone just wait maybe Joe will come on his own you shouldn't have to get him you could confront him about it and see what he says it's worth a shot worth trying it's better then not doing anything at all then you ending up regretting it later(:
gender:female
age:13
I Go out with this boy who is 16. I Really Like Him but hes to old for me. he knows my age and he is okay with it. should i corake up continue my relationship with him or brake up with him ?
Your age is simply a number nothing more but if you
feel like he's to old for you then you should end the relationship do what makes you happy if you aren't happy then it's probably not worth it there's
no point of being in a relationship if you aren't happy and wanting to back out there's plenty of other boys out there who are your age or close to it(:
I have some blisters in my mouth and they are pretty big. Should I go to a doctor? IDK help please!
Yes i do think you should visit the doctor seeing
as the blisters are big the doctor will be able to help you i wouldn't leave it untreated especially if
the blisters...are affecting your ablity to chew depending on where the blisters are located in your mouth(:
I just recently got a facebook account and was adding friendsto the account. I came across and old boyfriend that I dated fro 4 years and we are just friends now. My husband is now telling me that he does not want me to have anything to do with him. CXan he really tell me to do that?
Yes he can tell you to do that delete your ex boyfriend from your friends list and don't talk to him you don't want your husband becoming suspicious thinking that something is going on between the two of you..you also don't want to loose your husbands trust part of being in a relationship with someone is being able to trust them and remaining faithful to them especially with marriage you don't need your ex boyfriend from 4 years ago he's in the past you've got your husband he's enough company for you once you've deleted your ex sit your husband down and reassure him that you've deleted your ex and are no longer friends with him you don't want your husband thinking that your cheating on him and having a affair with your ex that would make the situation worst(:
Let me first start by giving you a little back ground information. My ex wife became pregnant when she was 20 and I was 19. Even though it was earlier than we both expected to become parents, we were thrilled and so excited to start our family together. We got married shortly after she gave birth to our son Matt. Soon after that, we had another son, and then a daughter. From my perspective, everything was great. That's why I was so blindsided when my wife came to me 9 months after our daughter was born claiming she wasn't ready to settle down and be a mother with divorce papers in her hand. Almost overnight, I became a 23 year old single father with a 4 year old, 2 year old, and a 9 month old. After the divorce was final, I rarely heard from my ex wife. She had begun living a life that I didn't necessarily approve of filled with drugs and alcohol and, while I wanted to keep my children as far away from that as possible, she was their mother and I didn’t feel like I could entirely keep them away from her. The last straw, however, came when I let my daughter, Alyssa, (who was 6 at the time) stay with her when I took my sons on a hunting trip. I was supposed to pick her up at noon the Sunday we got back. I spent the entire afternoon calling my ex wife’s apartment with no answer. At 5 that afternoon, I finally just went over to her house where I found her front door wide open and her passed out on the couch from mixing a few too many drugs with alcohol. Her neighbor came over to the apartment and told me that my ex wife had taken Alyssa out one night and come home completely plastered. Thank god her neighbor had woken up and decided to take Alyssa back to her apartment. And this is just one example of many. After that, I told my ex wide that I didn’t want her to see our kids anymore which devastated her so much she entered rehab. She got clean and for the past ten years has seen the kids a few times despite my hesitance. My kids and I have been living a great life together away from my ex wife. A few years ago I began dating another woman whom I am now engaged too. She gets along great with my kids and is an amazing person who I know will be a good influence on my kids’ lives. My oldest son Matt is now in college, but Colton (my middle son) and Alyssa still live with me. Since I have become engaged, my ex wife has become crazy about spending time with the two of them. She wants them at her house every weekend and doesn’t want my fiancé to parent them at all. She is trying to tell my daughter all kinds of lies about why she left, and how I am a horrible person for trying to keep them from seeing her. She tells her that the entire thing was my fault and all kinds of horrible rumors about my fiancé, who went to high school with my ex wife. She has asked both of my kids to move in with her. Colton told her absolutely not, but Alyssa is confused about the whole situation and doesn’t know what she should do. I have full custody of them so essentially it is my choice about whether or not she can see them. I don’t want to take them away from my ex wife, but I don’t want to lose them myself. I am still worried that she will resort back to her old ways and put my kids in danger like she has their whole lives. Am I right to not let my daughter move in with her mom?
I do think your right with not allowing your children to live with your ex wife old habits are hard to break especially when someone is a alcoholic and is doing drugs they become addicted and instanty hooked it's tough to stop your wife has to accept the fact that your engaged to another women and you've moved on she was the one in the first place who felt she wasn't ready to settle down and become a mother she was the one with the divorce papers not you..you were ready and willing you should tell your ex that you've got full custody of the kids and it's your choice whether or not she should see them and if you choose no then she should accept what your decision is if you feel worried and uncomfortable about letting them see her then your best option is to not let them go you don't want to put your children in any danger do what you truely feel is best for your kids
So ive been dating this guy, lets call him x, for almost a year.. and thigs are getting... too familiar.. like im just so used to him alWays being there... and since Were basically never apart, Weve both sorta lost most of our friends.. and i hate it. But getting to the problem, im not compelty sure if i feel the same Way about him as i did a year ago... and making things more ocomplicated.. im not completly over my ex, Who i dated for about a year and a half.. like anytime i see him With his currently girlfriend, i Feel sorta jealous, and as if that could still be me.. and also, i have a slight crush on one of my friends,Who ive been hanging out With more.. so im really unsure of What to do, and im unsure of Where my head is at... so any advice Would be very helpful! thanks!:)
You've got to choose who you want to be with ulitmately it's your choice which boy will make you
happy the main thing that truely counts in the end is that your happy and if you aren't then it's probably not worth it if your feelings have changed
for your current boyfriend and your loosing interest
then maybe you should move on there's no point of being in a relationship if you aren't happy and your
no longer interested or don't have the same feelings like you had in the past maybe your current
boyfriend and yourself need some space away from one
another for a while seeing as your spending tons of time together and it's becoming annoying(:
heyy i was wondering if you know anything about green tea and diet plans, i wanted to start a diet to lose close to 10 lbs in a month. and I heard green tea was a good way to burn fat.
Do you know a good diet plan? and Im 16f and a vegetarian.
Yes green tea is good for you..you could also exercise and drink plenty of fluids so you don't
become dehydrated and weak water flushes out your system eat fruits and vegetables it is going to be tough to loose weight but if your focused and motivated then you'll be able to do don't give up believe in yourself stay motivated stay away from junk food try to eat healthy exercising is good too go running around your neighborhood a few times(:
I have a cousin who has always been a problem and my family recently received a call from her mother and sister asking my parents for help for her. Apparently she is now a drunken cheating whore who neglects her two young boys. Her neighbors have called the police but somehow she and her husband convince them that nothing is wrong, yes, her poor stupid husband cleans up after her. I want to call the police and child services, but I do not know if they are legal here in the states and might be deported. I am torn, I am concerned for the kids but I do not want to tear a family apart with deportation. Yes, my cousin is crazy and stupid but her poor husband is a great guy and I do not want to hurt him. His only fault is loving her too much and being terrified of her.
Yes i do think you should call the police and notify child services for the sake of the children
no child should ever be neglected they should be in
a safe environment one that doesn't put them in harm's way and danger if your main concern is the children then do what's right for them something is wrong if the neighbors called the police you need to
do something before the situation gets worst and the children get hurt(:
i am having a really hard time with weight. im overweight i need to do something about it for my health! i just dont know where to start. i stopped eating for a bit but was getting bad shakes and hunger pains. i know its wrong but i dont know what else to do please help!! i have been exersising tons i just need help with eating! i need to get fit and healthy! help please thanks.
Not eating isn't going to help you you've got to eat
your body needs fuel just like a car needs gas otherwise it won't go you need to drink otherwise you'll become weak and dehydrated eat healther foods
and don't eat as much junk food seeing as it's not good for you eat vegetables fruits and drink plenty of water so it flushes out your system also exercise
it won't be easy to loose weight but if you to loose
it bad enough you'll do whatever it takes to make that happen get motivated and believe in yourself be confident(:
Okay well my Boyfriend takes drugs..Sometimes he does ecstasy but he usually just does Prescription drugs like Oxycontin and Valium. I know they aren't dangerous if you're taking them for valid reasons, but most of the time his reasons aren't valid.
He's only ever taken them as a pill but now he thinks snorting them would be fun and he's stubborn so no matter what I tell him about the drug, he doesn't think it's dangerous. He also gets strong pain relief drugs and he takes up to 24 of them in one night. And that's only because only 24 comes in 1 packet, so if he had more he'd take them..And most of the time, he gets the drugs from his mother because she too likes to make up pain symptoms to the doctor to get them.
I know the doctor who gives them to him or his mother, because I have the same doctor but he doesn't know who my boyfriend is.
I don't know what to do. I've heard so much about people taking presciption drugs and getting addicted to them and I'm worried my boyfriend will overdose without realizing it.
You've got to tell someone yes he can overdose on the drugs this isn't something to be taken lightly or as a joke it's serious he could end up hospitalized if he doesn't stop you need to sit your
boyfriend down and say that it's not a joke what he's doing he can end up seriously sick make him realize what he's doing isn't healthy and good for himself say that when he takes the drugs it truely hurts you & you don't want to loose him and you don't want to see him causing himself pain he needs
to stop being stubborn and realize that what he's doing isn't good he needs help & quick
I was curious about what the debate teams do?
Do they express their opinions on certain topics?
What are examples of some topics?
I was apart of the speech and debate team in high school they research topics and then debate on major
issues that are happening there are certain rules that all the members have to obey there's competitions and for every answer a team gets correct a point is added the topics can be about healthcare different state issues whatever interesting and a good topic to debate about there's a first place second place & third place(:
Hi I'm 19 year old female and I'm in my second semester of college. I have a great boyfriend and I was talking to him today. And well he has a lot of friends and is very out going and I'm the complete opposite. And we were talking and I was trying to explain to him why I don't have hardly any friends. When I walk into a room I automatically think that people are judging me. I don't start talking to strangers unless I have known them for a while. I feel uncomfortable when I am around a bunch of people I don't know. I know it sounds like I'm just shy. But i don't understand why I get so scared and nervous and feel like people are practically out to get me. I was just wondering if maybe it was possible that I am just over reacting or if something is maybe wrong. Thank you for your time!
I don't think anything is wrong with you it's normal
to be shy and nervous around strangers and people you don't know but you can't allow your nerves to get the best of you you've got to be confident and believe in yourself not all people are bad there's some good out there take deep breaths to calm yourself down you've got to be willing to give others a chance being judged is apart of life but you can't allow what others think of you to affect you then you'll become stressed as long as your confident and you believe in yourself i think you'll be fine without confidence you won't get very far(:
(20/f). My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, on and off. I really do love him, and we've talked about the future a LOT- moving in together, getting married, all that jazz. He treats me better than any guy I've ever dated, and I can tell he really loves me. Our families know each other and we each feel comfortable with each others friends- it's nearly a perfect situation. THe downsides are, he and I don't have a lot in common.. He doesn't like reading, I do. He hates the movies and music I absolutely love. And he doesn't want to be an organ donor, which is something I'm very upset about. There are a few other differences too.
The few breaks we have had, however, have all occured because there's a BIG part of me that will never stop having feelings for my best male friend, the guy I lost my virginity to when I was 16. This guy has always been my greatest downfall- My dream guy, except that he's always involved with another girl when I'm willing to be with him. My friends and family don't trust him or like him because we had a huge fight about 2 years ago, and only recently started speaking last fall. He hurt me more than anyone, but now we're better than ever. Well now he's single and he keeps telling me how he does love me and how when he's trully over his most recent ex, he can see the two of us being together. He and I have almost everything in common and we always have an amazing time when we hang out.
I told my bf how conflicted I was, because I love both of them a LOT. He told me I could either never speak to my friend again, or he would dump me. It's impossible. As of right now, my bf thinks I'm no longer speaking to my friend, but I've been texting and hanging out with him behind his back =/ Really bad, I know.. it feels like I'm practically cheating. I know it can't keep happening and I know I'll need to make a choice.
Do I pick my boyfriend, who wants to marry me and take care of me and all my needs? Who's sweet and caring and concerned about me but who hates my best friend, and doesn't have much in common with me?
Or do I pick my best friend, the boy who loves everything I love, the one who I can share my soul with and who always makes me laugh? The one who none of my friends and family care for?
I think you should choose your best friend there's no point of being in a relationship if you aren't happy it's better to have things in common with someone that way you'll get along better and you'll be able to have better conversation and you will have more things to talk about in the end the main thing that truely matters is that your happy your boyfriend isn't in control of you even though the two of you are currently dating if your friends and
family can't accept your best friend then you should
tell them that he makes you happy and laugh and that you care for him(:
on my left foot, you know the knob below your pinky toe on the outside side? well i broke that, haha, dont ask how. well it was a fracture because the tendon pulled the bone apart.
i was excersizing and all of a sudden i got a real bad cramp right there and had to stop. then we got a really cold week (im in south florida so it was only that week) and my foot was really hurting.
i didnt occur to me until later that the place it was hurting was wear i broke it almost 6 years ago. but now, the cold weather is gone but its still hurting! its not constant, but some days it just hurts so bad and others its fine.
im 8 months pregnant, could this have any weird affect on my foot? should i go get it checked out by a doctor? thanks!
I do think you should go to the doctor to get it examined they'll be able to help you it's better to be safe then sorry if you apply pressure on your foot then that could possiblity cause it to hurt more and you'll be uncomfortable and won't be able to walk also you don't want to risk tripping god forbid you falling and injuring the baby & yourself go just to be on the safe side you shouldn't wait seeing as it's dealing with your health(:
Okay well i am 14 yrs old i am an 8th grader and i love a guy. yah sounds simple but its not.here it goes i need help.
Okay well in february i met this guy and we i guess hit it off and we went out for like two days we didn't know each other so it was stupid.anyhoo he live(d) up the street from me so every weekend we would hang out he would touch my boobs and butt and stuff and i kinda really liked it anyway,,anyway he is a big player but really sweet and always could put a smile on my face anyway we liked each other on and off lots of times over this year of knowing each other. anyway he moved so we don't hang anymore i don't see him anymore i should just move on? I cant i love him so much nobody knows so what exactly should i do? get over him..how?
I think you should move on it will probably be tough to do but you can't do anything about the fact
that he moved away things weren't meant to be between you two there's plenty of other boys out there he's not the only one you'll have tons of chances for relationships and you'll meet new different boys(:
I've never had an amazing relationship with my mum. She makes me feel useless and stupid, yet she treats my older brother like royalty! He can swear all he wants at her, she just laughs it off and I get moaned at for doing nothing!
When we were younger it was the same. I always got in trouble, even when it was my brother who caused it. I've been thinking recently and trying to figure out what triggered it. I don't remember hardly any of my childhood, but I remembered my mum hitting me a few times, it makes me feel so bad saying it out loud because it wasn't exactly the worse case of child abuse and I do love my mum, of course I do, but we've never had an open relationship. In my house, I've learnt that I can't have an opinion or say what I think because I just get shouted at and get given the cold shoulder from my mum and/or step-dad. No matter what. So if I'm mad/annoyed or whatever, I have to just shut up and keep it all in then have a rant to my boyfriend later on seeing as he's the only one I feel comfortable telling these things to.
Does anyone think that when my mum hit me when I was younger has anything to do with our relationship now? And how can I get to talk about this to my boyfriend (I do not want to speak to anyone else about it)? I think it'll seem a bit strange that I haven't mentioned anything relating to this in the past year we've been together, so how can I bring this up? :/
You could casually bring up the fact that you don't
get along with your family your mother in particular
and say that she has hit you in the past see what he says & how the conversation goes from there i'm sure seeing as he's your boyfriend he'll understand
and try to comfort you in anyway possible i don't think her actions in the past has anything to do with how your relationship is now your best option is to talk to your boyfriend about it since it's not healthy to keep everything your feeling bottled up to yourself it's better to talk if it makes you feel any better i don't get along with my father he
verbally abuses me
So, theres this guy.. he is only in one of my classes this semester, but i've known him forever. I don't have a crush on him or anything, but hes a cool guy to just hang out with. He is the kind of person who would pick up my binder if I dropped it, make a joke to make someone smile, or help me with an assignment if I asked him. Otherwise, he is pretty quiet at school. Whenever I see him at least. I don't know what he does on the weekends, besides avoiding his parents and hanging out with his buddies.
He sits at the back of the class, and he tends to keep to himself unless he is with his few guy friends then he shows his real personality. We tend to get along well when we do talk. If anything, he would be like a fun brother to me.
Around the beggining of the year, about two months into school he decided to ask me, when I am sitting alone on the bench with no one around, if I wanted to be his escort for Grad. I said yes :) I was kind of surprised he would ask me and so early in the year, but I was thinking he would be a fun guy to go with (plus hes one of the actual nice guys). He smiled and then we talked about what color of tux he would get and what I was going to wear that would match.
Basically I am wondering if the reason he asked me is because he likes me or he asked me when we were alone for he didn't want his guy friends to know, and/or he wanted to ask me before someone else did. Or if he just asked me for some other reason.
This is now three months since then, but should I sit beside him next semester if we are in more classes together? I don't want grad to come and all of a sudden it is a little awkward. Actually, I think it should work out for we both have good personalities. How do I know if he does likes me? We are both 17.
I was thinking when it gets real close to grad I should smile and ask him 'so why did you want me to be your escort?' :) Hmm, please answer all my questions and tell me what you think about him asking me :p
I think he asked you because he likes you i don't think he would of spoken up and said something if he wasn't interested in taking you or didn't like you yes i do think you should sit beside him and get to know him better create conversation and see where it goes i think the two of you will get along
good seeing as your both the same age and you've already been talking to one another i don't think it
would be awkward also think it's a good idea to ask him why he wanted you to be his escort and see what
he says it's worth a shot i say go for it maybe he'll give you a good answer you never know it's better to try and if for some reason things don't go well you'll still know you tried instead of doing nothing and you end up regretting it later on(:
soooo pretty much i broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about 2 months ago. im still in love with him but im trying to move on cuz i kno its whats best. i havnt had feelings for any guy at all except him in the past 2 years and its like im not even attracted to guys anoymore. (not girls either haha) BUT my best friends brother has always been my best friend and we somehow ended up kissing last night. and it was really weird like it was the 1st time ive felt that much when kissing a guy after my boyfriend and i really love him and care about him. but the thing is, i went behind my best friends back and did this. and 2 years ago her old best friend did that and kissed her brother and they got in a big fight and dont talk anymore. so i really dont want that to happen. i dont wanna tell her but i dont want to keep sneaking behind her back and leaving her bed in the middle of the night to go get in his. like i feel horrible and she means the world to me but i really really like this boy. hes my best friend and we both have feelings for eachother. ugghh i really dont know what to do. i know i should stop but whats done is done and i dont know if i should confess or keep it zipppp. help
I think you should choose your best friend friendship is more important then a relationship in my opinion if your best friend means the world
to you then choose her if you continue to do the
things your doing with her brother then your risking
your friendship with her and it possiblity being destroyed sneaking behind her back is wrong and best friend's don't do that to one another you'll have plenty of chances for love but i think you should choose your best friend over the boy but do what makes you happy in the end that's the main thing that truely counts(:
When I was 14 I was dating an 18 year old. I am now 18 and he is now about to be 23. His mom and my mom were really good friends. We dated for about 7 months. We were so good togther and were deeply in love. Being best friends with my mom I decided to tell her that he was smoking pot she was furious and mad our live miserable! We would constantly argue about my mom. One day he just broke up with me I was so hurt. I had always had a great realationship with his family so when I came across his mom at school over a month ago I was stoked! She asked for my number and we have kept in contact since. I visit her once a week. He no longer lives at home anymore so I haven't seen him since we broke up 4 years ago. He told his mom he still likes me but he always tries to avoid being there if he know I'm there or on my way there. Which is fine cuz I'm there to see his family but it bothers me that he avoids me! Should I just give my hopes up and stop trying to see him and hopefully get back together or should I just be patient. I feel like I'm kissing up to him if I keep trying.
I do think you should give up seeing as
he's avoiding you there isn't much you can do you can't stop him from what he's doing it's his choice you can't make him like you if he doesn't you'll have plenty of other chances for relationships this
one probably isn't going to work out there will be other boys out there so i think you should give up instead of making yourself stressed out over it(:
ok so I am 17 and I have been with the same guy for 10 months he has been there for me thew everthing and has made me really happy he is 18. We got into a big fight on new years about me having guys frineds and I walked down town to get away from him fighting with me and I hung out with a bunch of my girl friends. I walked to the other side of town and on my way back I bumped into one of my sisters old guy friends. We were kinda friends we said hi when we seen each other.He walked me to my boyfriends house where I was staying and I gave him my number because he said I could crash on his couch anytime I needed some where to stay. I went inside my boyfriends and we were just talking then I got a text from that same guy and my boyfriend saw and he flipped. We ended up braking up for about a day and during that day that guy frined told me he has liked me for the 5 years I have known him and to tell the truth I liked him as well. I went to his place and he kissed me I got up and left then me and my boyfriend got back together its been about 2 or 3 weeks since then and I have been there saturdays and some school days and I really like him. Him and his girlfriend broke up because he said he didnt know if he still wanted her. Then she dumped him for that and now he wants to be with me...He told me last night that he wanted to be with me and that I give him feelings he has never had before. He does the same to me. I really really really want to be with him he is 19 and well I just dont know who I want to be with more the friend makes me so happy and makes me smile all the time but my boyfriend has been there for the last 10 months... I dont know what to do I really like him but dont want to hurt my boyfriend..
Choose your boyfriend seeing as he's been there for you for the last ten months and has made you happy
if your relationship is good then don't loose hope
or give up on it if you don't want to hurt your boyfriend then you shouldn't but it's mainly
your decision on what you want to do the other boy
really doesn't know anything about you while your boyfriend does do what makes you happy that's the main thing that truely counts in the end(: