Question Posted Thursday January 21 2010, 12:04 pm
I have a cousin who has always been a problem and my family recently received a call from her mother and sister asking my parents for help for her. Apparently she is now a drunken cheating whore who neglects her two young boys. Her neighbors have called the police but somehow she and her husband convince them that nothing is wrong, yes, her poor stupid husband cleans up after her. I want to call the police and child services, but I do not know if they are legal here in the states and might be deported. I am torn, I am concerned for the kids but I do not want to tear a family apart with deportation. Yes, my cousin is crazy and stupid but her poor husband is a great guy and I do not want to hurt him. His only fault is loving her too much and being terrified of her.
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Friday January 22 2010, 9:47 pm: I am not sure how old you are but I think you should let her parents deal with it. I know its terrible for them children but there isnt anything you can do if the police have already been over there. Now where the children born in the states? if so that is all that matters right now. next to think about who would take them children.. its family or social services someone in your family needs to step up and take care of them its alot of work yes but its better then the adoption system. you have to think all the steps out. then call children services. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
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