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is he trying to make me jealous or does he not care??
18 - female. this may be long but i'll return the favor to anyone with advice!:)
so i've liked this kid joe for a long time. i've never officially told him i liked him but we have fun together, we flirt all the time and we always have fun when we're together but i'm not sure if he likes me more than a friend or not?? he acts like it but doesn't put any moves on me. he is friends with my cousin jake, it's actually his neighbor and jakes other cousin sammy (other side of fam) has the biggest crush on joe and i don't know whats up with her and joe. when its me, my cousin jake, joe and sammy .. joe and sam like always seclude themselves and will go downstairs or something. but sam has only kissed one guy before and joes not a virgin and i know they havent done anything but it still annoys me. i get SO jealous and i dont know if thats what joe wants or what but i HATE it. like sammy will whine and bit*h about everyhing to get attention and sometimes i just want to punch her in the face haha. like tonight we were all at jakes watching the football game with his family and their friends and before joe came over sammy went down by herself to "take a nap" and then joe came over and was talking to me and then went downstairs to show sammy something on the computer and never came up. its just awkward because i'm not going to throw myself at him and fight for his attention with sammy so i act like it doesnt bug me and like i dont even notice.
a couple months ago i did say something to joe about it and asked if he liked sammy because how he acts and he had said that they are just friends and that if he liked her they would have already been dating and he was like your jealous arent you? and i was like noooo why would i be? (i lied.) i think it might be sammy though throwing herself at him because tonight i had to go downstairs and joe was sitting on the couch doing his homework and sammy was like laying her head on him in a blanket and i was like what the heck?? and when joe came upstairs to eat she came up a little bit after, its like she follows him. i just dont know if its her or him tooo.
but then i was like in the bathroom washing my hands and i had on a short tank top and like short shorts and he came in and he was like i have to go to the bathroom .. and i was like so go .. i wont look at you haha so he closed the door and went and then was like staring at me the whole time like checking me out ;) me and joe are both big flirts, not going to lie but it just seems like different with him and sammy and what am i suppose to do when they like seclude themselves?? i cant stop thinking about it when im upstairs with everyone and its just them two downstairs i get SO jealous and i dont want to go down there and like interrupt that would just be awkward and i feel like joe would be like wow she is jealous and trying to see what we're doing blah blah.
joe was really serious though because i wouldnt give it up about sammy when i asked him about her a couple months ago and he was like cant i have girl friends?? but they seem like more than that...
ahhh i dont know what to do! if its just me jake and joe me and joe will flirt allll the time, like really physical and we havent done anything either but dang sometimes i just want to jump on him haha. do you think i have to be more out there?? am i doing something wrong?? i dont know what to do...
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I don't think you have to put yourself out there for him he should be the one to make the first move if he's interested in you i think that girl Sammy is holding him back seeing as when it's you Jake & Joe you both flirt with one another i don't think your doing anything wrong if Sammy was out of the picture then possiblity things could change it seems
to me like he does like you since he was checking you out when they aren't with everyone just wait maybe Joe will come on his own you shouldn't have to get him you could confront him about it and see what he says it's worth a shot worth trying it's better then not doing anything at all then you ending up regretting it later(:
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