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Should I just let it go?
When I was 14 I was dating an 18 year old. I am now 18 and he is now about to be 23. His mom and my mom were really good friends. We dated for about 7 months. We were so good togther and were deeply in love. Being best friends with my mom I decided to tell her that he was smoking pot she was furious and mad our live miserable! We would constantly argue about my mom. One day he just broke up with me I was so hurt. I had always had a great realationship with his family so when I came across his mom at school over a month ago I was stoked! She asked for my number and we have kept in contact since. I visit her once a week. He no longer lives at home anymore so I haven't seen him since we broke up 4 years ago. He told his mom he still likes me but he always tries to avoid being there if he know I'm there or on my way there. Which is fine cuz I'm there to see his family but it bothers me that he avoids me! Should I just give my hopes up and stop trying to see him and hopefully get back together or should I just be patient. I feel like I'm kissing up to him if I keep trying.
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if its been 4 years.. thats been 4 years too long hun. i mean, think about it.. do you want to wait around for something that may never happen or do you want to get out there and find something that has the POTENTIAL to happen that you wont have to wait another 4 years for ?
I know its hard and you love/loved him, but there are plenty of fish in the sea. and as hard as it is and as much as you probably dont want to hear this.. you cant make someone love you or like you if they just dont or if they stopped.
hes moving on, you should too. you deserve someone who wont avoid you and someone who wants to see you every waking moment of every single day. look for that guy, hes out there looking for you too.. but you wont find him unless you let go of your past.. and your ex.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.
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I do think you should give up seeing as
he's avoiding you there isn't much you can do you can't stop him from what he's doing it's his choice you can't make him like you if he doesn't you'll have plenty of other chances for relationships this
one probably isn't going to work out there will be other boys out there so i think you should give up instead of making yourself stressed out over it(:
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Yep, you are definately being a bit of a doormat to keep holding out hope after four years... That't not patient, that's just stupid.
Give up on him and keep mum about it. If he wants to run away from you, fine. That's his choice. Your choice is to move on and develop interests in other people.
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