|
wow it would be him
soooo pretty much i broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about 2 months ago. im still in love with him but im trying to move on cuz i kno its whats best. i havnt had feelings for any guy at all except him in the past 2 years and its like im not even attracted to guys anoymore. (not girls either haha) BUT my best friends brother has always been my best friend and we somehow ended up kissing last night. and it was really weird like it was the 1st time ive felt that much when kissing a guy after my boyfriend and i really love him and care about him. but the thing is, i went behind my best friends back and did this. and 2 years ago her old best friend did that and kissed her brother and they got in a big fight and dont talk anymore. so i really dont want that to happen. i dont wanna tell her but i dont want to keep sneaking behind her back and leaving her bed in the middle of the night to go get in his. like i feel horrible and she means the world to me but i really really like this boy. hes my best friend and we both have feelings for eachother. ugghh i really dont know what to do. i know i should stop but whats done is done and i dont know if i should confess or keep it zipppp. help
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
I think you should choose your best friend friendship is more important then a relationship in my opinion if your best friend means the world
to you then choose her if you continue to do the
things your doing with her brother then your risking
your friendship with her and it possiblity being destroyed sneaking behind her back is wrong and best friend's don't do that to one another you'll have plenty of chances for love but i think you should choose your best friend over the boy but do what makes you happy in the end that's the main thing that truely counts(:
]
Hun, I don't see why she should be upset. Yeah it's a bit weird for your best friend to like your brother but it's nothing to get mad about. Maybe there was something else that happened with her other friend and her brother or maybe she just has issues with the whole idea of friends dating him.
Anyway, you should think about what you want to happen with this friendship with her brother. Was the kiss just a moment thing or are you considering a relationship? You should tell her as soon as you can because the longer you wait the worse it will be, and you don't want her to find out from someone else because that's just going to upset her even more. If you want to have a relationship with him then tell her that. Tell her exactly how you feel and that you don't mean to hurt her in any way but this is just how you feel about him.
If she's your friend yeah she might be upset for a while but she'll understand and be okay with it. Don't get in a huge fight about it, if she starts getting mad just tell her you care about him a lot and there's nothing that will change that.
At the end of the day though you just do whatever you think is best. If you think not saying anything is best then do that, it's up to you.
Goodluck :)
]
More Questions: |