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two of them and only one of me
ok so I am 17 and I have been with the same guy for 10 months he has been there for me thew everthing and has made me really happy he is 18. We got into a big fight on new years about me having guys frineds and I walked down town to get away from him fighting with me and I hung out with a bunch of my girl friends. I walked to the other side of town and on my way back I bumped into one of my sisters old guy friends. We were kinda friends we said hi when we seen each other.He walked me to my boyfriends house where I was staying and I gave him my number because he said I could crash on his couch anytime I needed some where to stay. I went inside my boyfriends and we were just talking then I got a text from that same guy and my boyfriend saw and he flipped. We ended up braking up for about a day and during that day that guy frined told me he has liked me for the 5 years I have known him and to tell the truth I liked him as well. I went to his place and he kissed me I got up and left then me and my boyfriend got back together its been about 2 or 3 weeks since then and I have been there saturdays and some school days and I really like him. Him and his girlfriend broke up because he said he didnt know if he still wanted her. Then she dumped him for that and now he wants to be with me...He told me last night that he wanted to be with me and that I give him feelings he has never had before. He does the same to me. I really really really want to be with him he is 19 and well I just dont know who I want to be with more the friend makes me so happy and makes me smile all the time but my boyfriend has been there for the last 10 months... I dont know what to do I really like him but dont want to hurt my boyfriend..
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i disagree with the advice given below me.
put yourself in your boyfriend's shoes.. how would you feel if your girlfriend was texting another guy who she secretly has feelings for ?
your boyfriend's feelings play a big part in this too and even though you think that breaking up with him will hurt him, staying with him and not being committed to him will hurt him MORE in the long run.
i think that if you really want to be with this new guy, then you need to end the realtionship with your boyfriend. yes, you both have been together for 10 months and hes been with you through ups and downs, but just because youve been together for a long time, doesnt mean you "owe" anything to him by staying with him. you also have to think about yourself and whats right for you. maybe down the road you guys can be friends.. but i honestly think that your happiness is also key and if this new guy gives you these feelings, then be with him or youll always be thinking.. "what IF" yuh know ?
and your boyfriend will find happiness again too, so dont worry about that. yeah he'll be hurt, but as i said before, hell be MORE hurt if you stay with him and you dont want to be.
good luck, hope i helped and dont worry, youll make the right decision thats right for YOU. :] if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
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Choose your boyfriend seeing as he's been there for you for the last ten months and has made you happy
if your relationship is good then don't loose hope
or give up on it if you don't want to hurt your boyfriend then you shouldn't but it's mainly
your decision on what you want to do the other boy
really doesn't know anything about you while your boyfriend does do what makes you happy that's the main thing that truely counts in the end(:
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