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okay well this is a long story but ill try to cut it short... it all started last yr. when i was in 7th grade this guy asked me out and i said yes but then this rumor went around school saying i was using him and i only went out with him cause my friend bet me too.. but that was so not true but we broke up and we were still friends and stuff. Then over the summer we got really really close and hung out and talked on the phone like everyday and finally on 4th of huly he asked me out on the phone when i was watching firecrackers in the sky at my lake house (it was so beautiful) but anyways, later on that week we went to the movies and stuff and we make out and stuff.. and we had a good time and then when i got home his fiend called me saying he wanted to break up with me. i was so upset cause i had just had a great time! I cried all night & didnt sleep. his friend said he broke up with me cause he liked this other girl who lives in another city. Of course cause she was beautiful. and so from then on we both like never talked and we hated everother. but now we talk to eachother a lot and were good friends again but he's going out with one my best friends since halloween. and i'm really starting to like him again.. i dont know what to do!? HEELLPP! (link)
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well u cant break him and ur friend up, it just wouldnt be right. and after they break up then u should talk to him and tell him the reasons he doesnt like u, try to improve them and then ask him to go out with u, how can he say no? hope this helped ~stef~
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theres a girl that im really close to..she used to like me a lot and i love her and we were like /-/ this close to going out, but she stopped liking me..she said she couldnt picture me as her boyfriend (personality wise not looks) and i just dont understand how after we had done so much and gone through a lot together..she cant picture me as her boyfriend and everything..i have told her how i feel, i have made a move, she has been to my house many times, we have gone out on "dates" sorta...and i love her, i just want her to like me again, please tell me how to get her to like me again...oh and she likes a sophomore at my school now and people have told me that she might still like me and shes just confused but i dont think she does...i really want her back, i need her :( if you give me a helping answer then ill rate you a 5 DO NOT TELL ME TO GET OVER HER!!! i have tried and it isnt happening! (link)
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give her time, she may come around. try to be flirty with her and real nice, girls appreciate that! hopefully soon enough she will fall in love with u. hope this helped ~stef~
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I have liked this guy (we will call him george) for awhile. I never told anyoen so he ended up going out with one of my friends (we will call her katie). So they went out for awhile and for about the last week george has been flirting with me a lot since we were in a play together and we had a lot of rehearsals. Well, katie started to notice that he was flirting with me and then he wouldnt with her. So a few days ago George broke up with katie, katie seemed all excited about it. Then the next day she came up to me and told me i should go out with him. Do you think she is jealous? Or if she really wanted to let go and be set free? i dont want to go out with the guy if its really going to hurt her :-/
~Signed, Friend or Foe? (link)
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talk to her and ask her if this would upset her... ask her y she wants him to go out with him after they just broke up. see what shes feeling. maybe she never did like him as more than a friend...?? i think shes trying to be a friend... a good 1 at that. hope i helped ~stef~
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Okay!Well a month ago I broke up with my boyfriend who I am madly in love with. He is in love with me too but it is a long distance relationship, so I thought that he and I being friends would be the best thing for now. Yeah I couldnt see him whenever I wanted but just being able to talk to him made me happy. Our relationship was made up of trust and love. He is so in love with me. I miss him so much. He is now dating a gurl who he loves as a friend not a gf. we havent talked since we broke up bc it is so hard too. I had my friend call him and I grabbed the phone when he picked it up and hung up. Then she called back and talking to him. He wanted to talk to me but i couldnt bc it was too hard. I kno that no matter what he wants to be with me in the future but right now it is to hard. I also kno that no matter what he will never stop loving me. But what I am getting at is that I dont kno what to do without him .I feel so lost and empty. Like he always used to tell me that he loved me before I went to sleep and it was so conforting. I miss that so much. What should I do? he and I have been through so much in the past and its stuff that is unforgettable. Do you think that he and I will be together in the future. BC he said he wants to me and I DO MORE THEN ANYTHING.Its like if u are in love with someone and it is meant to be then it will happpen right? i hope so!
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im sure that if its meant to happen then it will. just spend time with close friends and they will confort u. i kno its not the same and i kno u miss him. keep thinking about him and it will make u happy to know that someday u will proabably be with him again. i hope everything works out! :) ~stef~
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Everone says that 'puppy love' is just when younger people say they're in love but 'real' love is proper love. So is it possible for a 13 year old to be in real love? (link)
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i think its definitly possible. everyone thinks that jus b/c were younger that means we dont understand love and what its like, but i definitly think at 13 u can be in real love. hope i helped ~stef~
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Hi Guys, Last week I broke up with my girl friend. We enjoyed sex a lot and I have become habitual to sex. Now the first need for me is to find out a girl who are more interested in romance/sex. How can I do it. Please suggest. (link)
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i think you need to wait till u find a girl u like, not someone u jus wanna have sex with. i think most girls are more in to romance than sex. hope i helped ~stef~
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ok.. so this boy ive been really good friends with since 5th grade asked me out at this place we have in our town the teen center to hang out..i told him i'd think about it..but im afraid if i say no he wont be my friend anymore but i dont wanna say yes cuz hes not that cute.. i dont want ppl to make fun of me cuz he is ugly but hes reealy sweet& nice.. what should i do? (link)
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i understand how u feel but that is kind of shallow. this guy i went out with who was really ugly was really great and i loved him so much and everyone always made fun of how ugly he was but i delt with it bc i loved him soo much. if u like him u should go out with him, i dont think u should care about how he looks. hope i helped ~stef~
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well, i REALLY like this guy. and the other day without tellin me my best friend was talkin to him and asked him how he felt about me. well, she told me that he thought of me as just a friend. i was really upset, and my cousin is tellin me to just get over him and find another guy. but the thing is, i dont want to like another guy. hey, i may never get a chance with this guy, but its still ok to have a crush on him, right? or is my cousin right and i need to find another dude, perferably one i stand a chance with? thanks guys..yall rock. (link)
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just try to be friends with the guy adn try to like him, ur cousin isnt right but isnt wrong either, u need to either move on or try to hang around with the guy more, he may fall for u. yes! go 4 it! hope i helped ~stef~
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ok, there is this guy. hes in 9th grade. hes so cute and doesnt have a bf. one of my best friends that knows him bout as well as i do says that he likes me. i still dont think so. ive been crushin on him for almost a year. i started noticing that he looks at me a lot. what do i do?
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talk to him and start to flirt with him, once u know him wellenough then ask him out if he hasnt asked u already. trust me, if u flirt with him and hang around him alot then he'll start to like u if he doesnt already. hope i helped ~Stef~
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in 8th grade, ive been feeling so depressed. i just feel like everyone is against me. i feel so disgusted w/myself. everyone says that im so skinny and athletic and my family says im beautiful, even though i dont think so. i started cutting a little while ago. its nothing to be proud of, thats 4 sure. i just feel like everything is wrong with me. wut am i supposed 2 do?
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ok there is nothing wrong with u, u need to stop cutting. what ive found out is u never know what u have going 4 u until u go and find it. seek help from ur friends and im sure they'll be there 4 u. i hope i helped and feel better ~stef~
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i met this guy the otehr nioght and we totally clicked. we're really into each other. only one problem i look older than i am so he though i was 19 and he looks younger than he is so i thought he was 18. turns out i'm 15 and hes 23. hes really cute and nice and funny and i know people are thinking omg hes a prev but the thing is i never fall for anyone. i havent met a erson in ages whose even made me look twice but i keep having all these dreams about him and i get butterflies everytime i think of him. it feels like this is the one time i could be happy and i feel like the only thing about me thats acutially 15 is my age the rest of me is older. what do i do? (link)
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if it feels like that then u need to go out with him. the ade difference isnt that big of a deal if u ask me. i hope things work out between u 2! hope i helped ~stef~
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Am really close to my older cosin and all ways have been. She started seeing this guy james ive known a while. They both love each oyher very much but the problem is she NEVER spens time with me any more. I was the 1 that got them together and now my jobs done am left behind. I know it will end in tears and she'll come runing bak but am stuk for what to do just now. (link)
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u need to sit down and talk to her. if she doesnt know what shes doing she cant fix the problem. hope things between u and ur cousin work out, hope i helped ~stef~
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my friend name is Brittany she has a b.o. problem and ervery1 hates it. i dont kno wat to say ta her wit out hurtn' her feelns' but can somebody pleaze help me out thanks.
i rate very high.
signed confused friend. (link)
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buy her sum nice perfume or body spray for a gift for chrismas or her birthday and if that doesnt work then ur gonna have to talk to her about it... would u like it if u smelled and u didnt realize it? it seems kind of embarrasing. hope i helped ~stef~
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How do u know u are really ready for a boyfriend? (link)
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if u really like them and they like u, if u feel like u can trust them and u want to be w. them alot, u jus have a feeling that its right, i hope i helped ~stef~
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So my boyfriend and I, both almost 18, were together for nearly 11 months, virtually every single day. We were inseparable. We'll both be going to college next year, and we were planning on moving somewhere away and finding an apartment together. There was even tentative talk of marriage. I felt like I could really see where my future was headed. I was so completely in love.
But then he tells me, one month ago tomorrow, that it's just not working out. He says he doesn't feel the same anymore, and that he can't give his whole life to me. I was completely devastated and cried for days straight.
He's the most wonderful person I've ever met. We share our group of friends, so we agreed that we would both try our best to stay friends and avoid awkwardness, and forcing people to choose sides.
So I'm still around him all the time, and every time I see him or talk to him, I'm just reminded of all the reasons I fell in love with him and everything that I've lost. It just sends me spiralling into sadness all over again.
But he's helped me so much with so many things. He brightens my day, and he's a genuinely good person. I don't blame him at all for what happened. I can't bear to lose him completely, but how else can I get these thoughts and feelings out of my head?! (link)
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aww... poor u! it really kind of helps to be sad about it, i know u dont wanna forget about him but jus try to find someone else. it may hurt for awile but eventually u'll get over it! hope i helped ~stef~
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I'm 13/f and I got my period about 5 months ago. I heard you start to get breasts after 2 years. is this true?? just wondering. Thanks. (link)
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not always... it really depends on each girl. it doesnt really tell u when ur gonna get boobs. hope i helped ~stef~
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ok so not to confuse, let's give names:
my friend: sara
her best friend: liz
liz's boyfriend: bob
bob is trying cheat on liz with sara. he's asked sara to have sex with him, take pictures of herself and give them to him, etc. sara refuses and has put up with this for a while, and then finally told liz. liz believed her at first and then i don't know what happened. sara tried calling liz and liz's mom answered saying that liz wasn't available. sara asked when she would be and she said, for you, never. sara is devastated and can't understand why liz would do this to her. (liz and bob are still together, btw). what can i say to comfort sara? is there any way i can help the situation? (link)
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the best thing for u to do is stay out of it... try to tell sara that she has to talk to bob and liz but if that doesnt work i wouldnt get involved... hope i helped ~stef~
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Ok, well me and my boyfriend were on my trampoline after school and my mom was home in the kitchen. We were kissin, and when he left, my mom gave me this lecturin about makin out and how im 2 young and how his parents gave him this talk. It did look like we were makin out, but like it wasn't really. Im 13 and hes 14, and i wanna no when u think the right age would be, and if my moms jus over-reacting?!?!? (link)
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i dont think its a big deal, jus dont do it around ur mom and what she doesnt know cant hurt her. ur not too young at all if u ask me. jus be careful whos around when u guys r kissin. hope i helped ~stef~
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I'm kind of in between liking this guy and knowing nothing will ever happen. Any ideas to either stop thinking about it or convince myself that i could make it work?
thank you so much to whoever answers
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u gotta take sum time to think about it. it may not come to u over night but u'll get it eventually. if ya dont like him then u dont but u might find out that u do. hope i helped ~stef~
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so my friend is being really hypocritical.. she was totally being mean to me kas of the guy i was dating.. and how he was like "all over me" but then she goes and makes out w. some random guy who shes not dating and is all over him..so what should i do? (o and ya i no i can spell..)
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well tell her that if shes gonna be hypocritical then she cant go and do that. u can go out with who ever u want, its not her decision, who ever said she had to date them? hope i helped ~stef~
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