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My Names Tory I'm 15 years old and a freshman in highschool.
I really like riding horses,watching Grey's Anatomy (my favorite is Kate Walsh aka Addison),fashion, graphic design, and taking pictures. I'm pretty good with most computer, iPod, and Myspace things so if you ever need any help with those, feel free to ask me. I also know a lot about drama, particularly with small groups.
But those are just a few of the things that I am pretty farmilar with, so if you ever need help with anything please don't hesitate to IM me, or leave a question in my inbox.
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Ok I have these 2 friends. I know them both really well. We are so close. Well today they played a trick on me. They made up a screenname and pretended they were this girl that I hate with a passion. They talked a bunch of shit. Well it got to the point that when the convo was over that I sent the convo to 2 of my other friends e-mail and told them to read it. Well i go to tell my friend about it and turns out it was her and my other friend..The thing that made me mad and pissed off at them is the fact that they said it was that girl and they know i hate her. They completly don't know what happened between me and her and shouldn't have done it. But my ? is .....What should I do about it? I mean it might of been funny to them but they don't know the whole story and it completly pissed me off...Should I tell them it made me mad and that I am still mad at them....But please tell me what I should do....
Signed ,,,,TrueHope10

what i would do is get ur friends together and be like hey you guys you dont understand my relateionship with tthis person and i really think that what you did wasnt cool,but as longs as you guys wont pull this shyt on me again its all good....okay well hope i helped u!.>>>>>tt

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ok so i just started using tampons and like when i put on in it feels like it falling out does that mean its not in all the way or is that just how it feels??

plz help ill rate high to anything thats not ignorant

its possble you didnt put the tampon in correctly....hope this even helps a tad>>>< tt

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my school is having a talent show. i dont know why, but i cant sing in front of people. i've sang in front of my friend and she said i was really good. i think im good too, but im still scared about singing in the talent show. I have the perfect song and i keep telling myself i can do it but im still really nervous!! help me. how could i make it so i could sing and not be shy or scared?

It is very common to get stage fright and its really okay every one get it once and a while... it helps if you try not to think about it and practice lots so your very confident about it and you no the song xtra xtra well!! ♥ tt

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Ok so me and this guy (we'll call him chris) have known eachother for 2 years now. He's a grade older then me though, and we have homeroom together. This past year we have got to talking and we're kind of mean to eachother.(i.e we make fun of eachother and hit eachother and he hits me HARD on the arm! and he has done other stuff like pants me and stick his hand down his pants and wipe it on me.) We pretend to hate eachother and stuff like that, but we flirt alot. Anyways this summer he imed me (i didnt know he had aim) and we started talking and he was talking about he liked my booty lol (he used to always make fun of it cause its so big and call me wideload and say it takes like 6 planes 4 cars to get around it) and i was okay..and then he fake asked me out..and then I pretended to like him and fake ask him out..(like 3 times) and he said yes! and now he's actually going with it (he thinks I like him) and he's making all these remarks like 'if me being mean to you all that time got me to go out with you then its well worth it' and stuff like that. (its been 2 days since we 'started going out') and now hes telling everybody were going out! and we've spent alot of time talking and I'm starting to like him! Is he just playing or is he for real? Give me and honest answer bad or not and I'll rate you high! Thanks so much!

HONESTLY I THINK YOU SHOULD ASK HIM... AND I KNO ITs REALLY HARD!! Ok... well you could like ask him on IM be like hey {chris} you kno i was just wondern' are we really goin out or we just playing like normal

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Hi

I was going out with my bf for about a month again. We were broken up and then gotten back together. We hung out lots as friends then decided to go out again.. Anyways we only had sex a couple of times and now we kinda are going through a rough patch again..The thing is I was stupid and never used a condom either time..I know I am 23 and should be responsible enough to have known the difference. It was about 3 days before I started my period and then again toward the end of my period about 2 days before it finished ,when it was really light and barely noticable. What are the chances that I could be pregnant? I read that you are most fertile when you are onvulating which I wasn't I am pretty sure because I am pretty regular and my period is between 28 and 30 days each month and I read that you ovulate about 12-16 days before your next period starts..Even though I also read that it's possible to get pregnant pretty much anytime of the month.I read that the sperm can live for up to a week inside of you but if my ovulation calendar is fairly correct I wouldn't have started ovulating until after that so I think I should be okay. I won't have my period now until a couple weeks so I have to wait.
Hopefully it works out and I am not pregnant in case it doesn't work out with my boyfriend but if I am then I am old enough to take care of myself and my responsibilities.....sigh...the stupid things you do sometimes....How soon can I take a pregnancy test? Do I have to wait until I miss a period? This is stressful but I have been stressed out alot lately with other things so I won't be able to tell if I am feeling sick because of stress..I don't think I would feel sick yet this soon if I was pregnant..I haven't been throwing up or anything but have been sick to my stomach sometimes but I think it's the stress and not sleeping. I haven't been sleeping much lately..only getting about 5 hours sleep a night and then sometimes if I manage to get a bit more I have been waking up throughout the night so it's still not restful.

Anyways I just need to know if anyone knows my chances of not being pregnant? Any feedback would be appreciated..thanks

H

Take a test this would be the best choice... hope it works out the way u want it>>>

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Okay me and my boyfriend had sex i would say two weeks ago this happened. and while we were having sex and he cum. and after we got done he noticed the condum was not on him anymore. Later when i got into the shower i noticed that i was kinda sore down there and thats when i relaized that the condum was stuck in me. My friends mom said that there is a 99% chance that I could get pregnant is this true.. Lately i have been feeling sick to my stomach but it could always be from the hot wheater.. is it too soon to get a test .. What do i do? do you think i might be pregnant.

its never too soon to take a test. if i were you i would~ hope it all works out! tt

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omg..im so scared..ok so i have this red bump and its not huge its like small but anyways its by my vagina like not the pink part but you know the skin that surrounds it its kinda on that like my inner thigh i guess you would call it..i dont know? but anyways ive had it for a few weeks (it was white/my skin color) now but its reddish and starting today its sensitive to touch..i just started my period today too..please help im nervous!!

If u've had sex it could be a symptom of an STD!! So, you should have it checked if you have had or are having sexual relations. If you shave it could be just and irratation or even as minor as a pimple..♥ tt ♥

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Whats a good first day of skool outfight exspesicaly if your going to a new skool next year!?

Well go to my inbox talk about your styles and the type of clothes you own or would like to own and ill give A++++ help. I love fashion!♥tt

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Okay, I've almost always been like this, but now I want to know if its just me, or if its a common isue. I have a hard time with grammar. I don't know when to use correct words, tenses, etc. I used to be very smart as a child but ever since... 5th-6th grade maybe? I've had difficulties. Like, yesterday... I said "I got to drove them home" and it didn't sound right... but I was thinking to myself, I don't think thats right... if its not, how do you correctly say it (Then I realized it was "I got to drive them home"). But its little stuff like that. And I often mess up on sentences. If I'm talking about a girl and a guy, and I'm quoting the girl, I'll say "He was like..." and then I quickly say "She was like...". Its like my brain isn't messing up on little things. Is this a common problem? I'm 16/f.

Sometomes people have problems with this sort of this is normal but- if you do more than like 15 times a day i would talk to your parents or maybe get it checked out.♥tt

*plz rate*

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I'm so confused about my style...I like all different sorts of music, and I have so many different views. One day I'll be wearing Abercrombie, the next day Hot Topic type stuff...how do I find a style and STICK with it?

You being mixed can be your style i wear those kinds of stuff all the time!Dont feel persured into chooseing one style or another!!! JUST BE U!!&HEARTS; LUV MUCH {TT} ANY MORE ?'S LEAVE IT IN MY INBOX...PLZ RATE!

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How do you shave a mustache and stuff?? im 14 and i want to cuz i dont wana have hair there! and i dont want it to be pokey so what do i do for that?? and how often do i need to?

I know this may sound gay but use veet or nair. When i do my legs with it it grows back smooth not prikly!!

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I know it's a little early to be asking about fall clothing, but I always have the trouble every school year of getting a ton of shirts and pants that just don't go together and therefore never having anything to wear! I'd like some outfit ideas...like ideas for whole outfits with accessories and everything..i like lots of styles (urban, punkish, preppyish) try to give as many as u can cuz i rate well

it really helps if you know your style. weather u like target, ross, abercrombie,or holister. go to the stores you love and serch it try clothes on that you love then have you friends help you decide what looks best together.!♥!

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does anyone have a simple recipie for cookies? i want a variety but i like chocolate chip and basic stuff like that. i'll rate 5 for simplicity!

♥ i think that you should try bettycroker.com or sumthing...yeas ♥

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I'm not sure what category this goes under.. but heres my problem =D.. sorry for the length!

I'm 14 and I baby-sit for a 7 year old. My dad has known her dad since he was a kid, so I have a really good relationship with her parents, and they pay great! Their kid is kind of bratty and loves to share things.. I know "sharing is caring".. but she loves to share food and drinks! Shes always back-washing and I find it really nasty! I'm just so tired of having "fishies" in my drinks- and whenever we go out she is always grabbing food off my plate without asking! Tomorrow I am going to Vegas with her, and I really need a way to tell her that I dont want to share food/drinks without hurting her feelings.. otherwise she will go crying to her parents and they will not be too happy with me, which could dock my pay!

hEY WELL OKAY WHAT YOU MIGHT WANT TO SAY IS HEY SWEETIE IF U LIKE MY DINK SHLASH FOOD WOUD YOU LIKE ME TO GIVE YOU SOME ON ANOTHER PLATE/CUP. OR REMBER TO SAY PLASE AND ASK SOME ONE BEFORE YOU TAKE THIER FOODS.

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when having sex with my boyfriend after a few mins my vagina starts hurting like sometimes I have to ask him to stop, I've been checked for STDs and I do not have any but sex is still very painful sometimes, what could it be?

If you havent had sex very many times your vagina may still be getting used to being streched by sexual activites.

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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.

Just 1 ? yed you choose me. Anyways try wearing the sexiest thing you can get away with.ask him 2 sit with you at lunch if you can...but if you are shy like me try getting one of your friends ( like bestest friend) to say this * (your name) dared me 2 ask u if you would ever go out with her...AND C WHAT HE SAYS. Um... dress real cute tho that always helps and ask 2 barrow a pencil from him when you see him next just to see how enthusiastic he is about talking to u. Okay well tell me how it goes> Luvs T

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heyyy i was just wondering if it's safe to really get an account on ebay and buy purses and what not! i have wanted an account for a long asZ* time and im just not sure what its all about and how it works and everything! please help ill rate very high;)

Its totally safe just be sure to ask ur parents b4 you buy stuff i gotten in to trouble that way.

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I've always used a note to break up with someone because I'm shy and when I break up with my boyfriends, I wouldn't be able to look them in their face or be able to talk because I'd be so nervous. So my question is: What's the best way to break up with a guy? You know, like note, phone, in person, online?

If you want to be real and guinlly like this person u will do it in person. that way they will no u truly care enough about them to be real about it.

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i just wantded to try liquid eyeliner cuz ppl said it doesnt run or smear like pencil.. can someone explain how to use it?

I guess it depends on which eyeliner you buy becuse if i use it on the bottom i have 2 like fix it every hour. I sorry i no that this is probably not the anser you wanted but... It's pretty hard to use like the 1st 105 times.

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I'm nervous about getting my first period. I'm really afrad that it will leak through and everyone will see. I'm jsut getting out of sixth grade and I'm supposed to be getting it soon. Will it leak through my pants??

It is most common to get your period around the same time your mom got hers. Every one is different, but it is very possible to get it when you are 13,i am 13 and i dont have it so u may get it at any time. If you are worried about it leaking keep an extra pair of pants,period pads, and underwear in a bag in your locker or backpack.hope this helps good luck!

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