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in your opinion, does it look hookerish to wear shorts with heels?
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Depends,
What kind of shorts do you want to wear with the heels? Like the person below me said, Becareful because you do not want to give the wrong message. You might want to concider plat forms or sandals. Again, It depends on the outfit you had in mind.
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I'm fourteen, my girlfriend fifteen. We've been together for 1 year.
I love her lots and lots and I want to be with her. She wants to get engaged now, however I'd like to wait longer. I want to get engaged to her, but just not yet, maybe in a year or two's time. School will come first, i'm doing my GCSEs at the moment and I intend to go on an do 4 A levels.
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At fourteen you are way to young to even be thinking about getting engaged. Right now you should be focused on school, life, teenage years etc. Engagement is a huge commitment it is not just something you go ahead and do because you want too. Most people do not get engaged until they are in there early twenties. You are still young and so is she, You should enjoy living life as a teenager because you only get to be one once. For one you are also talking about ALOT of money engagement rings can cost anywhere from 4,000 and up and then the wedding depending on what you want you are talking more money. Do you and your girlfriend even have a place to live? Job to support each other? etc. Nobody really wants to get engaged when they still live with there parents. I would wait, A few years at least you are too young and you should enjoy just being a teenager.
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i smoked pot with my friend and one of her friends i didn't like it but we are gonna do it again. should i do it or not??? (link)
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Ugh,
Some reviews down there ya got, Listen this why some people get arrested. Despite whether it would ruin your life or not. It's illegal, If you didn't like it then just say no and walk away. I'm not saying it will happen but pot leads to drugs, alchohol etc alot of the times. Peer pressure is the number one thing these days that get some people where they are. Don't do it because they want you too, or because you think it would make you fit in. Do it for your health by saying NO. Be true to yourself
-BahaiMa22
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OK so I go this church and they have sunday school every morning. I showed up on the adult bible studies and I only went there once. Its been a month since then and I am not sure if I should show up there again to inform them that I will not be attending again cause my family wants me to just take the church service where there is the pastor talking. So how do I just not show up at adult bible studies or go in and explain to them. Cause up to now I am thinking what if they wonder if I was still going to come or not. At the adult bible studies I filled out a form of my age and address but that's it. (link)
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You might want to inform the person that teaches bible study. Tell them that you would like to attend church services if they ask why just tell them why.
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Ohkay. So. I really need help here. I honestly dont know what to do.
Me and my boyfriend dated for a while before, (11 months) and we barely talked when we weren't together. But then he started talking to me again, and told me he still reaalllyyy liked me. Now we are dating again, and have been for over a month now.
The thing is, that i just figured out like last week that when we were dating before, (at the end, while we didnt talk as much and fought a lot)he told one of my really good friends that he liked her, and when he did he was trying to be all cute about it with her too. I just found this out a little bit ago and we settled all of that. but now im really concerned about something, he has a really good "best friend" that he always hangs out with, and stuff, and he told me that he liked her before, (while we werent dating or even talking) but the only reason he didnt date her was because they were 'too good of friends at the time'. He's ditched me one or twice for her, and she always get him to call her and stuff. Even today it seemed like i was partictly invisible, we were with other people, but him and i would be standing right beside eachother, and he doesnt even say anything. It seemed like he thinks that he HAS to hang out with me, not wants to.
Too add to all that, this 'best friend' has wanted to cheat on her ex before, while they were dating, and my borfriend is on and off. Somtimes he treats me sooo well, then other days he treats me not as well. He says he trys to do his best to make our relsationship work, but it doesnt always seem like it.
what do i do? :\
please help.! (link)
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Try talking to him, Tell him that you don't think you two communicate much and you want to try doing things together even if it's free. Walking, Going to the beach, Picnic etc. Try to find things you both like to do, Things that will put you in a situation where you would communicate. If he still likes his best friend then tell him straight up, It's her or you. You shouldn't have to put up with that afterall he is YOUR boyfriend. If he continues to text/talk/see other girls then he isn't worth your time. Communication is the key in every relationship and so is trust. If it feels like a burden for him to be around you then you shouldn't have to put up with that either and it might be time to move on and find someone who will enjoy being with you and doing things together. Remember, If it does go down that road it was his loss all along. If he actually tried to make it work then he would try to communicate and do things with you.
xx
Bahaima22
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Anybody know any online games where you are on a quest or something, and you play against random people you don't know?
It must be:
Free.
Nothing that needs to be downloaded.
Fun.
[:
Please.
Peace.
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http://runescape.com/
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where can i listen to the song online its the new remix of crazy train by lil john not the original ozzy ozbourne one ?
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If you wanted to download it you could use Limewire.
You could also try
Youtube
hulu.com
(They have television shows, I would think they also have music videos too)
BahaiMa22
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when your "cherry pops" does it bleed during sex? or like the next day?
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Yes, When you pop your cherry you break your hymen which is a thin layer of skin. It is normal to bleed a little bit at the time of sex however it is not as heavy as having your period. It is usually very light sometimes the next day it will continue to bleed but it should heal within two days.
-BahaiMa22
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A fiew years back I was diagnosed with herpes and I've grown tired of being alone and not having someone to share my interests and heart with. I find it completely pompus that sites make others like me pay to find love when we already strugle with our limitations the disease comes with.
Im asking if anyone knows of free sites to find love that decently populated with others in my situation.
I hope this isnt much to ask..
I greatly apriciate yur time. (link)
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A safe and free way to meet someone I would say is Facebook. It is a great site to meet someone and a great way to catch up with old friends.
I hope that helps :)
-BahaiMa22
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If I got a newborn baby fox and kept it as a pet would it be more...domestic, or tamed?
Also would I need some type of permit? (link)
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I believe it would be tamed. However, Any wild animal you own will need a permit. You will also have to check with the state to see if it is allowed some states do not allow residents to own certain exotic pets not only that the vets, Some vets don't take certain animals. I've looked into get a spider monkey and didn't follow through because the follow up was to hectic.
BahaiMa22
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Can my gynecologist tell if I'm using a vibrator? (link)
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No, Your gynocologist can not tell if you are using a vibrator. However, Using a vibrator can break your hymen (Pop your cherry) therefore, Yes your gynocologist will know that your hymen is broken.
-Bahaima22
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http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=436738672 (link)
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It looks like someone made up the page, I would like to think if it really was her page Paris would of picked a much better picture for her profile and yes it also does sound a bit teenagerish. I think it just might be a fan site.
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17/f
I have known this boy for years and we have always liked eachother. finally after years of on and off seeing eachother there was always a connection. finally we are together. we are in love and talk to eachtoher all the time and text 24/7. the down side is we only get to see eachother twice a week. he is very insecure and emotionally weak. he trusts me but every once in a while he says he has his doubts and can't trust other people. it takes him forever to get over things which bugs me because i never worry about anything and i get over things quicker than they begin. is there anyway i can fix this?
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Does he have a webcam? If he does and you do also maybe you two can talk to each other more that way. If it is possible you could do weekend visits with each other. :)
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what do girls like a guy to wear (link)
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It depends, All girls are different and they like different things. :)
Personally, I like a guy who looks clean, Just casual jeans and a nice looking shirt. :)
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Hi, I'm Hailey (17)
I have made mistakes in my life that I'm not proud of, but I've made a complete turn around. I was dating this guy who is three years older than I am. He was into drugs and he got me to do them with him. After going out a while he made a routine out of getting me high and then having sex with me (and refused to wear a condom). I didn't say no but before entering the relationship I would not have concidered having sex. Is this concidered thanks so ,much for your insight :) (link)
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Well, It all depends on how you look at it.
If you were willing to do drugs with your boyfriend of that time and you did not say no to having sex then no it is not concidered rape. Although you were high and might not have been fully aware of what was happening...You really can't say it's rape unless you were saying no. On the other hand, If he was having sex with you everytime you were high...then I would say it is wrong but I wouldn't concider it to be rape. It is sort of 50/50...because if someone were to get another person drunk and then they had sex...Oh my lord darling you have me so confused...I would say it depends. :(
-BahaiMa22
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Hi I am 19 years old and live at home with my mother. my sister just recently moved out and my dad left us a year ago. I have tried to have a relationship with my dad but my mother is the one who kept it together when he left us with debt, and so if I go to see him she gets defensive and depressed. The Point in my question is that my mom irratates me. She never really supported me on going to school, while my friends parents are constantly asking "what are you going to do, what school do you wanna go to?" my mom never was interested she was just happy that I had a job didint care much about a career. When i told her I was going to school she thought I was moving out and got upset, then when she found out where my school was (which is right between my house and my bfs house) she got angry that it is close to his house and wanted it to be closer the her. She alwasy asks me to do her hair and her eyebrows and I alwasy do, I recently started telling her I don't want to do her eyebrows I am sick of always doing hers and than when it comes to doing my own im sick of eyebrows. She gets upset that I don't want to do her stuff. She takes things from my room like hair clips, hair products and she gave away a 50 dollar blanket i had that I LOVED!!!!!! I alwasy bring it up to her so she knows I WANT IT BACK. I admit I may not be the best daughter, I dont spend alot of time with her and I dont show much interest in her. I am sorry but I dont find her interesting. there are so many other things that irritate me but my fingers are getting tired of typing. I guess she just always wants to be around me, she alwasy wants to know where I am, if I am home for the whole day we wont do anything together, no movie or anything, sometimes I will call her to my romm to show her funny things online but I end up trying to joke around with her and then she gets all offended but I swear I do not offend her, she just cant take a joke, my bfs mom and him always joke and they get along I am so jealous. I don't knwo what to do. If I go out and sleep out for like 2 days ( I call ehr everyday) she gets pissed off cuz I was gone, if I sleep out and come home during the day she gets pissed that I slept out. WHAT DO I DO!!! (link)
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Like the last person said you are an adult now, You can make your own choices. However, Maybe you and Mom need to spend more mother daughter time together. If your father left, Your sister moved out she might feel that she has to hold onto you. In her mind you are her daughter and she may feel that she is loosing you even though she isn't. If you want to go to college and Mom doesn't support that choice then maybe you and your mother need to have a talk. Let her know that you will always be there and she can call you anytime. Sometimes parents just need to hear that from there kids. As when there kid starts going to college, moving out etc. It's hard for a parent to let go. Try talking to her, Give her a hug. ;)
-BahaiMa22
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So there's this guy I know from another school. One day, he was texting me about how he didn't have a date to an upcoming school dance. Without thinking, I said, "take me!" So then he asked me. However, he's soooo annoying! He acts like he's ghetto and he's not and when he texts me he says stuff like "eeyyyyy yoo wusss good." and stuff like that. It drives me nuts. I've hung out with him once in the summer, and he can be fun and chill when he's not acting like he's ghetto, but he does it to impress me, and it doesn't impress me at all! I don't really want to go to the dance with him anymore, but I can't say no after I told him to take me, so what should I do? (link)
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Well,
You could either sit down with him and tell him that you really like him but you think he tries to hard to impress you or you could go to the dance and stick it out. If you think he tries to be someone he is not then you should sit down with him and tell him that he doesn't need to try to impress you because you like him for who he is and not what he trys to be. If someone kept texting me a (eeeeeeey! yo wuts good!) Personally it would drive me insane lol. Anyway, I think you should try talking to him maybe he doesn't realize he goes overboard sometimes. ;)
BahaiMa22
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i was reading some questions on here and people were saying how they love their partner but they're not IN love with them...whats the difference? (link)
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It means, That they still care about them and love them as a person but they no longer exsperience a love connection in a romantic way.
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I have ALOT of enemies, and haters, and stuff like that. well anyways, last year (2008) my house was egged 8 times and i knew who did it half of those times. and this year, (2009) i thought it had stopped but my house just got egged again. these people are ruthless. what should i do? call the cops? its happned now a total of 9 times and im so sick of it! (link)
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If it has happened numerous times, I would try calling the police file a report on it let them know your house has been egged 9 times. If you need proof them perhaps you could try video taping it if they do it at a certain time. If you have the proof then try filing a restraining order file for harrassment as the last person said below me they are immature be the bigger person. However, I wouldn't comfront then it could only make matters worse and it gives them exactly what they want ...a reaction.
-BahaiMa22
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well i want a cell phone. ive wanted one for a REALLY long time and i think i actrulLY NEED one. i have to call my parents all the time and i need to keep in touch with my friends (duh!).my mom thinks i don't need one and they are stupid. how can i convice her to let me get one? i mean i really really want one (w/ a texting plan) and need one. (link)
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You could try a tracfone, It's about 20 bucks depending on the brand you buy. You can get 400 minutes for about 100 bucks with a year of service. (I personally think it's better than paying a monthly bill) or you could buy 120 minutes for 30 bucks. A tracfone for 120 minutes would cost you about a total of 53 dollars. If that is too much you can also try 60 minutes for 20 dollars which would be .. about 43 dollars for the phone and minutes on it and if you do if online at tracfone.com then you could get a 20 minute bonus.
Like the last person said, Try making a deal with Mom if she says no then that might be the cheaper way to buy one yourself.
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