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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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is your eye doctor supposed to tell you which contact solution to use or can you use whatever you want??
I believe you can use whatever you want. But maybe you chould ask your eye doctor what would be best!
my eye has been twitching lately!! ts gotton worse!! like its my eyelid, sometimes my eyebrow, and below my eye...not all @ once but its only in my right eye...u cant see it but i can feel it..i told my mom but she didnt really think nothin of it...wat does this mean??
My eye does that sometimes, then it goes away. It's not anything bad, like go see a doctor or something. Just ingore it. But it does feel weird and cool at the same time, doesn't it? =)
can i piss in ur cornflakes?
Ya sure, go right ahead, be my guest. I don't like them anyway =)
What if my boyfriend is embarrased to kiss me in front of his guy friends ? does that mean he does not like me or he is using me or somthing ?
Some guys are just like that. They get all embarrased if they kiss or call their girlfriends cute little names. I guess it depends on the guy, or he could be really shy.
Me: I really wonder why guys have been hittin on me lately lol
Him: u realli wanna know that
Him: cuz i'll tell u
Me: ok lol
Him: cuz
Him: ur
Him: HOTT!!!!
Him: duh
Me: aww lol
Me: why cant guys go for my personality? its alright if they wanna go for my looks but then they could playas
Him: I'd go for both
Me: lol
Is he flirtin or just talkin? There's more convos where he says sweet things like that but I just chose this one.
Looks like flirting to me ;) or possibly just being super friendly.
I'm going to a party in a few weeks and a guy i sort of like is going to be there. Does anyone have any flirting tips besides be yourself and smile? I saw a list of 101 Ways to Flirt on this site once, so if you know what that is, please send it to me. Thanks so much!
Make tons of eye contact, talk to him, giggle, laugh at his jokes. But, don't forget to be yourself. Being yourself is the number one thing. If you don't he'll start liking you, but not the real you. Good luck at the party and with him =)
Ok, I know that this is a really dumb question, but I'm gonna ask anyways.
I went out with this guy for about 5 months. We broke up for a while (about 6 months), and now we are back together.
While we were broken up, I hooked up with a friend's friend from out of town. My boyfriend doesn't know him, and there is an outside chance that they will one day meet, but I'm not all that worried about that.
For some reason which I can't explain even to myself, I feel as if I should tell my boyfriend. I don't feel guilty about the hookup, because, well, we were apart. I guess I just feel that he should know. But I don't want to mess anything up in between us.
So... to tell or not to tell... that is the question? (Sorry for the cliche, I couldn't resist.)
It think you should tell him if you feel the need too. He shouldn't get upset anyways because you guys were apart. I don't think it would effect the relationship at all. So, go ahead and tell him! Good luck.
Okk I have really small boobs, and i just wanna know what kinda things to wear to distract people **guys** from that.. i mean im comfortable in my body but all my friends have like Huge boobs..soo what do i do?? help!! i rate high!!
You could try wearing a pushup or a padded bra.
is it true that you can use a tampns during ur period and still swim??!?!?!
Yep! It's very true =)
I use Spermicidal condoms. Everytime after I have sex it seems liek I'll end up with a yeast infection. I heard your suppose to "pee" before and right after sex. I do that and still I end up with a yeast infection more times than not. Do you think its the spermicide on the condoms or maybe an allegy to latex? If any1 else has had this problem what type of condom do you perfer? Thank You so much for your time!
Try switching condom brands if your having this problem, maybe your allergic to latex.
I apologize if this ends up being really long, but I thought I'd ask.
I've been friends with this girl, we'll call her Sabrina, since the 8th grade. We grew to be really close really fast and ended up going to the same high school. That's kind of a big deal since we live in Chicago and most kids separate after grade school.
Anyway, we remained best friends up until I had a tough time in early 2003 and ended up dropping out of school. We lost contact up until a couple of months ago. The fact that we didn't keep in touch is pretty much my fault. I apologized for it, she appears to have forgiven me and we started hanging out again.
Sabrina is 18 now and recently moved in with her boyfriend because she was unhappy living with her mom. Only, now that she lives with her boyfriend, he wants to maintain complete control of her life, including who she hangs out with.
He told her she wasn't allowed to hang out with me anymore and she's actually obliging him.
I don't know if I should just deal with it and talk to her whenever I can, or if I should just let her know we shouldn't be friends at all anymore or what! I'm pretty hurt. Any advice would be appreciated and I will rate everyone who responds. Thanks.
Her boyfriend sounds like a jackass, no one should be controling her life, but her. There's no reason not to be friends with her and not speak to her anymore. You should get together, a day where she can just hangout with you and her boyfriend not be around. You should talk to her about it and tell her that he boyfriend is controling her life. She probably knows it but doesn't have anyone to turn to. She could also be scared if she confronts her boyfriend about this that he wouldn't want to be with her anymore. Then she wouldn't have a place to say, and couldn't go back to her moms. Just be there for her and don't stop being friends with her, maybe she really needs someone to talk to.
um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else?
Don't give a shit what other people think, if you like him, you like him. You can't help what you feel. I say go for it!
Im attracted to mr. clean i always have been. and im only 13 idk, theres somthing about a nice, bald shinny head that turns me on. what should i do?
Maybe when you're older you will have a nice bald shinny headed guy =)
i threw up the other day like 9 times and maybe ate 3 little things like half a slice of turkey, a little piece of chicken from a salad, and a bannanna. i wuz sick that day cuz i had sumthing really bad to eat the day before. well the next day i had a bowl of ceral {{wif milk}} for breakfeast/lunch. then i had black beans and rice for dinner and sum plantanes and like two pieces of a slice of pork. today i had nothing at all to eat. im waiting for my bgi brother to come home with food. we have no food at home. its 12:30 and im really hungry. ive been missing meals etc. lately and getting really hungry. can this turn into belemia or inerexia? it been like maybe 3 days can i get that in just 3 days? help me out im scared.
Well it can't be belemia unless your making yourself throw up. Inerexia, I don't think so, unless you skipping meals on purpose. If not, it's probably just the flu.
how much more likely are you to get cancer if you drink diet soda??
Everything causes cancer now-a-days, don't worry about it, live life and drink your diet soda! =)
Hey.. I need some advice about break ups. I had been dating this guy for a while until he decided to break up with me for the summer. That caused a lot of drama and bruised the relationship. We've been acting like we are going out all summer but things have just gotten worse. I finally called him last night and I told him he had to decide either he wanted me or he didn't want me. I told him I was tired of how he calls me and such when it's convienant for him. And how he expects me to just act like we are going out. And he decided and siad let's just be friends. I told him it just doesn't work that way. It hurts way too much to be friends maybe later down the road... I didn't think it'd hurt but it does. I know I am going to be okay and I will move on and stuff but I don't know how to cope with it. I don't know what to do to keep my mind at ease and help me get over it besides time.. Do you know of anything that could help me cope with this and take my mind off of it? I am known to take months to over guys cause I don't know quite what to do. Thanks bunches :)
I say hangout with friends, friends always make everything better and they're always there =)
alright me n mai boyfriend broke up about a week ago cuz he cheated on me. i really love him n im hurt soo bad. he says he still cares n he wants to be w/ me, but now hes w/ sumone else. i think hes tryin to make me jealous but i dont really kno. i cant live w/o him, he means the world to me even after what he did. i really wanna be w/ him but im scared to tell him how i feel cuz im not sure if he cares or not. should i give up on him or take him back if he feels the same?
I had an ex-boyfriend that did the same thing. He cheated on me, we broke up and a couple of weeks he was with a different chick. We still talked everyday on the phone and the computer. He told me he still loved me and that he wanted me back. He did dump the chick and we did get back together. I think you should talk to him about what your feeling and how much he does mean to you. Words unspoken hurts the most.
okay well im not bi but like i've thought bout it n like.. i look at my friends as if i like them n u know wanna make out with them.. does that make me bi? I rate high please help?
I think all girls have that thought about, what it would be like to get with a chick. It doesn't make you bi, just because you think of it. It's just something you need to experiment with.
uMm...i saw my friend make a move on my bf..what do i do ?
That's totally wrong. Wrong of both your friend and your boyfriend. You should talk to her about it, aswell as him.
My ex-girlfriend and i broke up a while ago. I didn't want to break up, but we did. I thought i would be ok with it after a while, but i'm not. Every time i see her i wish we were still together. It's hard for me to hang around her or even think about her as just a friend. How can i get over her and just be her friend?
Well, there's no other way to get over someone then time. Just give it time. You probably liked her a lot so it makes it harder to forget. But just think of it as, your getting closer to your Miss.Right =)