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i found out my crush likes me 2! but he says he doesn't know if he wants a gf right now! so what shud i do? shud i wait for him?! (link)
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wait for him to want a gf, when hes ready you'll be there. put no pressure on him because if u pressure him then u could ruin the relationship! wait until hes ready.
hope i helped
~stef~
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Hi! I'm Matt and I live in chicago! I just went to the movies with a few friends and I saw this girl who I used to have been MAJORLY crushin on her. Well, she was getting me super jealous by talking bout her friends and how cool THEY were and how hot THEY were! Not girl/friends but guys! That I knew! She seems to also be ignoring me kind of. Well, we dont go to the same schools and were about the same age. How can I get her to notice me and like me? By the way I think shes soo beautiful, funny, and when she talks to me nice. (link)
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i think you should ask her out. if you like her so much the go for it. i know that even if she isnt nice to you sometimes that if you went out with her that she would be nicer. sometimes girls are mean to guys bc they like them and dont know how to show it - or want to hide it. whats the worst that can happen? if she turns you down then she turns you down and everyone will forget about it. be nice to her so she'll be more attracted to you. hope this helped and hope everything works out 4 u. ~stef~
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I'm a 14 female. My ex boyfriend is 16. He broke up with me a little over a month now. We dated for 6 months. His reason was he wanted to concertrate on school and didn't want a girlfriend. I think it was just an excuse! After we broke up we still talked for another week and we were supossdely going to get back together but never did because one day I called him and he was a totall jerk to me and he started to ignore me for a whole week. Whenever we saw each other we would give hugs and say hey. He still knew I had feelings for him. The next day at school I found out that he made out with some other girl. He knew I found out and we haven't talked since. Even though what he did was totally wrong I still love him, but I don't know how he feels about me and I'm not gonna go chase after him. I don't know if I should wait and find out if he has the same feelings about me as I do about him or should I just try to move on? Any advice?? Thanks! (link)
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sounds like my story...
but i think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. tell him how much it hurt you then decide whether you need to move on or what. if he does apoligize and tell you hes sorry and stuff then go for it - ask him if he wants to go out again. hope this helped and hope everything works out for you. ~stef~
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okay.. i went out with this guy.. and he is really hot.. but.. okay.. we broke up because it was like nobuddy wanted us together.. but we are still friends.. but anyways.. the other day.. i was in the hall.. and i kissed him.. and then the next day my friend said she was going out with him.. and i was like.. "omg.. since when?" and she was like.. since two days ago.. so.. he cheated on her with me.. and i dont know if i should tell her or not.. should i? (link)
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theres no reason to hurt your friend, then she will be mad at you and him, trust me it only makes things worse. you need to talk to him about it. tell him you had no idea they were going out and that you know that he knows it was wrong to do. tell him he better never do it to her again or else you'll tell her next time. hope this helped ~stef~
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for dark/ medium dark brown hair owuld leik a blonde and cinnamon color highlights look good? (link)
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yea, i think so, just make sure you pick out the right shade of blonde. hope this helped!! ~stef~
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I was in the computer lab one day when one of my friends blabed i like my crush. He knows I like him but he told me he dosnt like girls yet. I really want to go out with him but he won't!!! Could u tell me a way to get him to go out with me??? Give me all you know!!!!
Signed,
girllovesboy
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if he doesnt like girls yet then your going to have to wait for him. tell him how you feel and if he still says he doesnt want to go out with you then maybe try to move on and forget about him or wait for him to be ready for you. you can't force him to go out with you. hope things work out, hope this helped! ~stef~
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What types of paint colors would make a small room see bigger? (link)
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i think that lighter colors make a room seem bigger, people say. if you ask me i think that it doesn't matter because a room is going to stay the same size no matter what color you paint it. hope this helped! ~stef~
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hi
i went out with guy like 2 months ago who i really really liked but then he dumped me and i found out that he had been 2 timing me but he just said he didnt and even if he did it wasnt like we were married or anything but iw as really hurt. then we became rfiends and he said he wanted to be really good friends but whenever i see him he just ignores me but i still really like him and i think he sought of still likes me but is trying not to show it. I would love it someone gave me some advice as this is really very important to me!
love stef
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you should have someone ask him if he still likes you, maybe if he does, u can go out again!! if he doesnt then at least you know so u can try to get over this guy. hope i helped ~stef~
p.s. haha my name is stef and i had this same problem a little while ago, all my friends probably think ur q. was asked by me. haha
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alrighty..well I am 14 and a female & I have this really good guy friend but a few months ago I started feeling differently about him..I told one of my friends and of course she had a big mouth and everyone knew..including him*. So he started being a jerk around me and just ignored me so I figured two could play that game & I just got really pissed at him. I was really hurt that he would ever treat me like that. So then, about 2 weeks later we were all hanging out together like usual but it felt really awkward between me and him. So he pulled me aside and we talked everything out & the only reason why he wasnt talking to me was bcuz the person I told that I liked him went back and told him that I absolutely hated him and never wanted to talk to him again..so yea..we hugged and made up all was well..and I also found out that he liked me too...and from what I know..he still does and so do I..but a few weeks ago he told everyone he was gonna ask me out that night but he never showed..i didn't want to start anything again so I just dropped it, but my friend didnt she told him that he didnt know how to treat girls and he wasnt boyfriend material. This bothered him..I would know bcuz I'm the one he came to and he also wanted to make sure he wasnt being a jerk to me...I know he cares about me and I want to be more than friends but hes too scared to make the move..and my theory is that guys should be the one to make the 1st move..what should i do? this has been going on for too long now. (link)
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in my opinion this theory u have isnt working, if u want something done, u have to do it urself, if u dont then u can keep waiting, im not trying to be mean but its the truth. make sure hes not mad at u right now or something. if hes jus scared to make the first move maybe u should talk to him and make it clear u like him and want to go out with him. hope this helped ~stef~
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Ok I know that this is really long, and I'm sorry, but if you can please answer that would be soo cool. Ok so I have liked this guy who is kind of a dork for about a year and a half. I haven't told any1 except 1 friend because its really embarrassing. This guy's name is Jamie. Jamie thinks he's really popular but he's really not popular at all and most people think that he's really annoying. He used to like me last year for a while and a lot of people still think that he does but he tells everybody that he likes this girl named Jillian who is PeRfEcT and I mean it she is pretty, nice, funny, athletic and most guys do like her. The problem is he is leaving to go to Hong Kong to stay! I'm not sure if I should tell him that I like him or not because he is the type that would go around telling everybody. I was thinking that I could tell him at the end of his last day but then if he likes me it would suck....If u guys can help me that would be so cool! i rate really well! (link)
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i know it sux but if u like him even if he is rlly unpopular i would tell him now or u wont get ne time with him at all. tell him how u feel b4 he leaves, u dont wanna miss out on something. hope this helped ~stef~
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there's this guy that's 16 that i've liked for awhile i'm only 15 and everything but i'm not sure if something is there. when him and i first started talking we hit it off great but there was another guy in my life that i had been seeing. well he said he didn't want to wait around for me and i told him that i didn't want him to so i didn't hurt him or anything along those lines. well he's told me plenty of times that he's fallig in love with me more and more every time we talk, well when i realized that i had fallen for him he was interested in this other girl and he said that he wanted to see what was btween them which hurt me because i was ready to start something with him. well now it seems like he's running back to me wanting to start something and i'm not sure on what i should do. i like him but i dont know if he's worth my time anymore because i've waited just as long as he's had to wait, and all we seem to do is get into stupid fights and we don't talk as much. what should i do? should i try it or should i move on and just be friends?
thanks
bbyg543 (link)
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if i were u id go 4 it, this oppurtunity may only come around once!! if u like this guy u should try it out, u'll never know how it would have been if u never tryed it. then again, if u find out u dont wanna go out with him then u can always break up with him. hope this helped!! ~stef~
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Hey,
theres this guy that always flirts with me, always talks not stop, and he even called me sweet. He taps my foot all the time and we end up getting into a flirty footwar, lol. I think hes gonna ask me out, but i really like him as a friend. What are some ways to turn a guy down nicely so that he doesnt hate u forever?
Signed,
girl under an attack of unwanted predator (link)
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just nicely tell him u like him as a friend and nothing more, then suggest him asking out another girl that you can c he likes. he wont totally hate you. hope this helped ~stef~
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omg... all of my questions have been about ummm... ben... lol... ok well here is another... my boyfriend (ben) likes this other girl and i guess she likes him but she has a boyfriend also... so im really worried... should i dump him and get it over with, (although i kno she's not dumping her guy)... or... should i wait till it passes... i heard she is swithing schools... help me please!!
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i would wait until it passes, if it doesnt pass then dump him, i dont care how nice or sweet a guy is, u have to keep ur eye on him so make sure he isnt cheating. good luck grl! ~stef~
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well i want to make my xanga really cool with like different backgrounds and like a big picture like some peoples and like have cool stuff.. but i have no * NO* IDEA** how to do it.. if anyone could give me a website that tells me how and like walks me through it? or someone could help me.. id greatly appreciate it!! (link)
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um... sorry i dont know the answer but im just curious as to y u put this under sex questions??
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this is all the other advicenators, because since you are all on this site like me, im thinking maybe you guys have had the same problem. obviously, we all like helping people. but what happens when we're the ones who need the help, but we feel we can't ask for it because we're supposed to be the one who has all the solutions. please dont tell me to write my problem on here, because obviously i know that. don't get me wrong...i LOVE giving people advice...but in the real world, have any of u guys ever felt like your not supposed to need any back in return? just a thought...let me know what u think. (link)
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its ok, everyone has things they cant figure out, problems ext. besides, all of ur questions are kept confidential so no one knows whos asking unless u tell them. no one has all the answers, theres nothing wrong with asking questions. hope this helped ~stef~
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Ok: so i love scary movies... spook houses, and doing the ouiji board. I live down in the basement all alone and after seeing freaky movies... like Saw I can't sleep. I think that there in my basement gonna come kill me.. and even though I'm 16... i still sleep with my t.v. on all night... even though I can't stand a speck of light in the night i LOVE watchinng scary movies... but i get so scared I sometimes cry! What can I do? (link)
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tell urself none of that is real. watch a show thats now as scary b4 u go to bed to get ur mind off the scary stuff. hope this helped ~stef~
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Alright i have been hanging around this guy 2 years older than me for about a month.. my friend totally hates him for many reasons , and my friends mother works with students that are in the same class as this guy . they tell my friends mother that he is on drugs and that he drinks alllll the time at partys and stuff.. but when he is around me is a whole new person.. i realized that i dont want to get a bad rep by hanging out with him so how should i tell him that we shouldnt hang out ne more..( plus : he fingered me , and im afraid he will like go tell everyone shit about me =/ ) .. but yah how should i tell him that i dont wanna hang out ne more?? THANKS (link)
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just tell him u know about what he does and u dont like it. tell him u dont wanna hang out with him if hes like that. if he talks shit about u then u have to confront him and tell him he better stop saying that shit and if ne one asks about wht hes been telling them u can jus say tht its not true. just stop hangin around him, hes bad news. hope this helped ~stef~
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I care a lot about what my friends think of me. I was preppy, and I want to go punk. I got some cloths liek element shirt and volcom and stuff. But when my friends get mad at me they call me poser, even before I got this new stuff. They also say I hav real bitchy attitude. And this past summer a lot of family issues happened, and my friends know that and still call me a bitch. Do they really mean it when they call me a bitch and a poser? Or are they saying that just because there mad? I told them how when they say that it hurts and they dont seem to care. And me and one of my best friends just got into this big fight! She has been ignoring me and calling me bitch and poser. But were friends again.... Do you think she styll thinks that? Or was she talking out of anger? PLease dont sey get new freinds cas i dont want new ones! wat do i do? (link)
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it really depends on how their saying it. if their serious then i would be mad but otherwise i think their kidding around with u. maybe start to give them a taste of their own medicine and call one or two of them bitches. hope this helped!! ~stef~
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ok, i love this guy "John", but we currently arent together. but yet i still love him. and a freind of mine is trying to get me back together with one of my ex's "David". i mean, i like David, and would love to date him again, but i would feel ba cuz i cant give him my whole heart like i did last time, cuz i am in love with John. so i dont know what to do, me and David are still really close and are soooo alike, and i guess his friend picked up on it, and i dont know what to do, cuz, if i wait around for john, and thigns dont work, i could miss out on David, and vice versa. so someone please help me!!!! (link)
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wait 4 john if thats who u like the most. if u like david more which it seems like thats a no, u should go out with him. give urself a bit of time to think it over. hope i helped ~stef~
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I haven't been getting on with my friends recently. I fell out with one group over my boyfriend and spending too much time with him but I made up with them. Now some other friends say I am ignoring them. I don't know what to do. I can't seem to get it right with any of them. (link)
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u need to ask them y they think ur ignoring them. try to spend more time than usual with them. hope this helped ~stef~
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