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I care a lot about what my friends think of me. I was preppy, and I want to go punk. I got some cloths liek element shirt and volcom and stuff. But when my friends get mad at me they call me poser, even before I got this new stuff. They also say I hav real bitchy attitude. And this past summer a lot of family issues happened, and my friends know that and still call me a bitch. Do they really mean it when they call me a bitch and a poser? Or are they saying that just because there mad? I told them how when they say that it hurts and they dont seem to care. And me and one of my best friends just got into this big fight! She has been ignoring me and calling me bitch and poser. But were friends again.... Do you think she styll thinks that? Or was she talking out of anger? PLease dont sey get new freinds cas i dont want new ones! wat do i do?
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what i think you should do it talk to them about it. Tell them you feel hurt when they say that stuff. Tell them "you are my friends or you are not my friends, but i want to stay friends" just tell them how you feel. if they are really your friends, they will listen to you.
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me and my bestfriend get in fights all the time ! and we call one another bitchs all the time and we are just mad at each other she donset mean it and dont go punk they are not cool at all
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Hey..I know that must really hurt being in that kind of situation.. Im going to be nothin but real wit u, and I do think that they really feel that way, about how youre a poser, etc.. I think that they just like using the word, 'bitch', so i dont think they truely mean that, but about being a poser Im sure they mean that.. When you are trying to be something you just arent, thats whut a poser is. Im sure you know that.. I think that it really annoys them that youre trying to be something u arent, and ur 'following' what their doing even if its not you. I would go back to the way you TRUELY are, and i bet you anything they will stop thinking that of you. when u guys fight Im sure they will resort back to calling u a poser, but whEn they do be like, "look at me, do i look like a 'punk' to you? I dont think so. I was stupid be4 by trying to be something im not, but this is really me and u guys dont like it then screw u." once they see that u are standing up for ur self and who u really are, they will start respecting you. good luck and i hope this helped.!!
love kristin
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eww punk o_O
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it really depends on how their saying it. if their serious then i would be mad but otherwise i think their kidding around with u. maybe start to give them a taste of their own medicine and call one or two of them bitches. hope this helped!! ~stef~
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Wow, that is really rude of your friends. I hope they don't mean it. You can wear whatever you want. Remember, you are your own person. You should talk to your friends and explain to them that you don't appreciate their comment. Tell them that you were looking for a shoulder to lean on, but they didn't give you that. Tell them to remember that you love them, and just talk. Things have to get better...I bet they will. It takes time for good friendships to stay fun. Just work at it, talk to your friends, and think of old times. Tell me what happens, and hang in there.
*Randy T*
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if your friends call you that, then try to ignore it and if that doesn't work then just stop talkin to them and don't be there friend anymore until they tell you the truth. maybe the they did mean it, maybe they didn't. i can't answer that but u know who can? your friends.
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i was in the same boat i was really preppy and i started wearing like hurley and roxy and some people wre like POSER i was just like what ever and ignored them i mean if htey are gonna fight with you over a style then they are not true friends...now i wear a lil hollister a lil element and no one says any thing cause they know my mind is set and they know that it is just me... good luck
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wow i cant believe your friends would do that they should supported your decision if they were your real friends... just try to ignore them when they call you a poser or a bitch there probably saying it out of anger because they afraid your going to change and not be the same you in the inside...you should tell them how you feel and that you still want to be friends with them and things arnt going to change between us hope i could help you out!
oxdaniellexo
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well maybe they dont mean it.....but if they do this then they rele arnt yer friends...becuz a good friend is always there for u wether u wanna go from preppy to gothic lol....just try to talk to them and if they dont listen find some new ppl to hang out with! good luck!
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