Alright i have been hanging around this guy 2 years older than me for about a month.. my friend totally hates him for many reasons , and my friends mother works with students that are in the same class as this guy . they tell my friends mother that he is on drugs and that he drinks alllll the time at partys and stuff.. but when he is around me is a whole new person.. i realized that i dont want to get a bad rep by hanging out with him so how should i tell him that we shouldnt hang out ne more..( plus : he fingered me , and im afraid he will like go tell everyone shit about me =/ ) .. but yah how should i tell him that i dont wanna hang out ne more?? THANKS
Choccocat answered Sunday November 14 2004, 5:36 pm: Just ease off hanging out with him. Make plans with your other friends. When you spend less time with him, your friendship sort of diwndles away until he doesn't really want to hang out with your over some of his other friends. This way he will also not have any reason to say something nasty about you.
-Cat [ Choccocat's advice column | Ask Choccocat A Question ]
xXAsKmEaNyThInGXx answered Sunday November 14 2004, 5:27 pm: i find the easiest way to do this is to stop hanging out with him less and less...like just start making excuses y you dont cant hang with him like i already have plans soo he will get the clue and hopefully leave on his own or you can just day you dont have fellings for him any more or you can tell him the truth and say i dont want to hang out with you any more because i dont want a bad rep...choose whatever fits u best
cutebrunette answered Sunday November 14 2004, 5:21 pm: I think you should just go right up to him and say, "i dont think this friendship is working, i just dont want to be friends. Sorry." and walk away. But if he takes it the wrong way, just say "look, we tried being friends, its working any more, sorry." [ cutebrunette's advice column | Ask cutebrunette A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 5:16 pm: just tell him u know about what he does and u dont like it. tell him u dont wanna hang out with him if hes like that. if he talks shit about u then u have to confront him and tell him he better stop saying that shit and if ne one asks about wht hes been telling them u can jus say tht its not true. just stop hangin around him, hes bad news. hope this helped ~stef~ [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
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