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Ok, wow. My friend knows this guy at our school and she likes him a lot, but he doesn't know it (He may, but I don't know.) And he's really sweet and no one thinks he's a jerk or mean or whatever. But, then he didn't talk to her for some reason and so now she's a little bit upset. Her other friends think that she annoyed him, but she doesn't know why. She says that she may of talked to him too much, but she said she did that so he'd like her as a friend more. And so she keeps asking me for advice on what to do, but I don't have a clue, so I was asking you for help. She doesn't want to ask him why he is/was (I don't know.) mad at her, because ofcourse that would make him even more angry or annoyed! Should she ask him or have another friend as him, or what?
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Perhaps he is aware of her crush and is feeling a bit shy now that he knows. It can be an uncomfortable feeling knowing that someone likes you. Maybe, he likes her too and that is making him leary and nervous. Have someone who's a close friend to ask. Maybe even you...
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Ask him if he would be willing to talk to her and maybe when you are asking him that, brief on the subject about is he mad at her. If he is willing to talk to her maybe they should have a talk about why he got mad and just let the truth come out. sweetbabe123
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Maybe the guy knows that your friend likes him, and he is avoiding her because he is embarrassed. Though I'm sure he has nothing to be embarrassed about, but it's a bit weird for someone to have a crush on you. Just tell your friend slow down and actually get to know him and have some slow nice chats, maybe pointless. Anyway, your friend should just go as ask him. When my friends are mad at me, I just ask. No harm done. If he goes on a long rant about what made him mad, then fine. Now you know, so it won't happen again right?
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Uhh tell her to leave him alone for a while. A week or two...and then go up to him one day and just say hey whats up and stuff..he might not like her but who knows.
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