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okay.. i went out with this guy.. and he is really hot.. but.. okay.. we broke up because it was like nobuddy wanted us together.. but we are still friends.. but anyways.. the other day.. i was in the hall.. and i kissed him.. and then the next day my friend said she was going out with him.. and i was like.. "omg.. since when?" and she was like.. since two days ago.. so.. he cheated on her with me.. and i dont know if i should tell her or not.. should i?
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first off you kissed him. therefor he didnt cheat. if he kissed you then yes he cheated. no he didnt because you kissed him. id tell your friend im sorry no one told me you and him were going out but i kissed him and im sorry say something
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Dear Confused,
If she is really your friend you know the right thing to do is that you should tell her. Just think you were her.You would want her to tell you that, that had happened.But you should know that you should tell her.And chances are is that she would not get mad at you.But the truth is that you dont want other people to find out that, that was the reason they broke up.So you might want to talk to the guy she is goin out with.
wish you have all the luck
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I think you should tell her, but be prepared to have her be angry. If she's a true friend, she'll come around in a few days. But she deserves to know, don't you think?
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It's possible this guy still has feelings for you, given that you only broke up becuse of what everyone thought...however, since YOU kissed HIM, you should probably talk to him and find out what his feelings on the situation are. If you're interested in dating this guy yourself, be sure to talk to your friend about it...and remember to keep in mind why the relationship didn't work in the first place. Good luck!
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okay... i would say "yes"
if i were u i woul sit down w her and tell her the whole story aand tell him the samething to(u found out thier dating) and then if "he hates you" i would tell him ..no i dont date guys who "cheat" on me with my B"BEST FRIEND"
good luck....
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Sounds like YOU kissed him...So I dont see what he did wrong. He didnt cheat on anyone. I think you should tell her you kissed him. Hiding things from friends can be a bad bad thing. SO I would just say it and make sure to include you didnt know he was taken. Hope I helped.
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Hi Sweetie,
...Well it's a bit like the Clinton thing. Unless I'm mistaken YOU aggrivated or flirted with HIM. YOU made him cheat, like Monica made Clinton cheat. Except it's not like that situation because that hot guy is a bastard and an ass, unlike Cinton. First of all, he shouldn't go out with an exgirlfriend's friends. Second of all, he shouldn't had allowed it. Third of all, HE should tell her. Your friend isn't a good friend either... going out with a guy her friend went out...
Whatever this world has come to is another issue, so anyway, she is still a human being. She deserves to know she's going out with a BASTARD who's an ASS. She may feel anrgy with you for kissing him but don't let her make you feel guilty because you didn't know. If anything she should had gone out with a guy who HADN'T ALREADY GONE OUT WITH YOU.
Best wishes! ~Blessed Be...
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then u shouldnt tell her. i no that it is not right to lie to a friend but nobody noes and i think that is better that she doesnt no. ~*L*~
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You can tell her or not. But if I was in this situation I would tell her. (That's just my how I would handle it) You could tell her about it. Maybe you would want to do this because she deserves the right to know. If he cheated on her so early in the relationship, he might do it again. Think of you being in her place. If he cheated on your with one of your friends, you would want to know. And if you found out later because no one told you about it before, you'd be more mad, right? Or you could not tell her. Simply because you're afraid of her reactions. It might seem like she won't get hurt, but think about it. She'll probably get hurt either way. Her whole relationship would be a lie if she found out later that he was cheating on her. And that's a possiblity because rumors occur and people talk about those things. Even though you and him only know, someone might be able to find out. But if you wanted to you can leave that up to him to talk to her about. She might be mad at you because you were part of it even though you didn't know. Anyways, do whatever you feel is right! :D Good luck!
Love,
Mandee
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theres no reason to hurt your friend, then she will be mad at you and him, trust me it only makes things worse. you need to talk to him about it. tell him you had no idea they were going out and that you know that he knows it was wrong to do. tell him he better never do it to her again or else you'll tell her next time. hope this helped ~stef~
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