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I've been "going out" with this guy ever since this party where we had to kiss for truth or dare...
we liked each other and talked every day for several days.
when we were talking on the phone, I asked him about the things he didnt like, and he said his siblings and gays.
His mom had made this one kinda racist joke that i heard abot african americans, and his brother had called me a name (I'm Jewish)
Could it just be a coincidence about his family? (I'm not gay or anything, but I believe in rights of minorities, being one).
Should I break up with him, or what?
(sorry for it being so long)help!
(his family is kind of the rich white christian type but he seemed sweet)
-HeLpMe- (link)
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Talk to him!
and don't take what other people say seriously. You need to talk to him about things like this. If you really like the guy, stay with him, but if his family bothers you, you don't have to break up with him, but try to avoid the fam. You're dating him, not his mom or brother. I also think that you need to tell him that this is bothering you.
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okay.. i went out with this guy.. and he is really hot.. but.. okay.. we broke up because it was like nobuddy wanted us together.. but we are still friends.. but anyways.. the other day.. i was in the hall.. and i kissed him.. and then the next day my friend said she was going out with him.. and i was like.. "omg.. since when?" and she was like.. since two days ago.. so.. he cheated on her with me.. and i dont know if i should tell her or not.. should i? (link)
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I think you should tell her, but be prepared to have her be angry. If she's a true friend, she'll come around in a few days. But she deserves to know, don't you think?
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