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okay, what do guys like...
Girls with a mystery, like they never give them full self to you at once, they gradually give themselves to you, like everyday's a new day, with a different mystery

Or, If the girl just give her whole personality her whole self all at once, do you think guys get board of that..I'm the Mystery and shes the giving one, shes my bestfriend and we both like the same guy...

I'm 14 hes 15 and shes 14

It just depends on the guy. Some like both. But guys don't like that if your too mysterious that your not serious, or your too out there. Other's don't like girls if they give themselves all at once because there will be no excitement then. I think the best thing is to be in between. It depends on what he's like.
Hope I helped.

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im a female, im 13, and im about 5'5'' and a half, and about 120 pounds.

i know im not obese, or majorly fat or anything, but am at all overweight?

i feel like i have no will power, and i eat junk, and i just plain eat all the time.

what should i do?

Actually, your nor fat or overweight.
here's a place to go. you just type in the information it asks you and it tells you your BMI.
http://am-i-fat.com/

* it says you have a perfect score and you should stay how you are at a BMI of : 20
which is perfectly fine because it shouldn't be more than 24 for your body height. To be considered overweight for your height you have to be 145 pounds or more. Hope I helped. *

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ok my hair is very thin and i want to know how to make my hair thicker but without getting extentions

Get a thickening shampoo & conditioner. It should say something on the bottle on making it thicker or adding volume. That's all i can think of for adding volume. Also, blow drying your hair makes you have alittle more volume/thicker.

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there is this guy i like and i want to get him to ask me out please tell me how.

you can't get someone to ask you out. They have to like you first.But if he does try to slip in a hint that you like him, it might make him more comfortable asking you out, knowing he won't be rejected.
Hope i helped

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Help! My dog at a choclate Ho Ho! It was not the brand name Ho Ho however same thing. She only got ahold of one of them. I called the company and they said that it was a little under 1oz for what she ate. I have been looking online and I am seeing some places saying it could kill her and others saying it will make her sick. I am really worried! Does anyone know? She is not acting any different. She is about 15 lbs. I also do not know what category of choclate this would be under. I know it is not Bakers however that is it.; I called the company and they said that they could not help me! Please help!

Thanks,

Well, if it ws Baker's chocolate then yes that may kill her, usually HoHo's dont have baker's chocolate, nor does the kind he ate. All he would do is possibly get sick, throw up, diarrea. there's nothing to worry about. My friends dog once ate a whole bag of hershey's chocolate and shes perfectly fine. so don't worry.

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15/f. i've gotten my period before and it has always been a normal color (dark red). like two weeks ago i started getting heavy discharge so i put on a thin pad everyday just in case. now today i got a lot of brown stuff all over my pad. what is this? is this my period but just a funny color? and if so is that bad?

thanks

no this is normal, its usually when your periods ending you get this. it's probably discharge and period? no worrys

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My skin is really sensitive and the lace bra that i'm wearing isn't helping but it's the only one I have because bras these days were really expensive. I was going to try Wal Mart but I heard that they're really expensive. And for a teen my breast size is smaller than the average so bra sizes for me are hard to find.

There's really no where else that has cheaper bra's then there. because by the prices of other things there, i would think they would be cheap too. you could try K-Mart or Target?

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I'm 14 just got my license I live in ND so we can get them earlier then most. anyway I need a car but i dont know what kind. i dont want a small cars like the ford focus or anything that smallwhat would be good? thanks

theres a Godge stratus. i think thats what it's called. you could also get poniac's or small mercede's(kompresser one) and bmw's. depending on your price range. or there's also the Ford mustange. there's really anything. all brands have small cars except escalade's really. just search around. hope i helped.

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ok earlier i saw this question posted by someone:
Ok soo I have really frizzy, poufy hair that I hate, so I recently bought a Chi. I really like my hair straight, but the only problem is that my Chi makes my hair really, really flat. It pretty much just sucks the volume out of my hair. I was just wondering if anyone knew how I can get my hair straight but keep some volume?

Thanksss =]


what is the chi thing they are talking about?

to make a simple, a nice straightner.

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k this is wierd
i dont use tampons and i want to ask how do you go to the bathroom when you wear tampons
do you take it out and have to put it back again

well you can go to the bathroom,swim or take a shower/bath with them in. Of course once you take it out you cant put the same one back in. But its fine to go to the bathroom and not take them out.

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My bf and I play a little game with each other sometime where we both make the other person do anything their told. It can't be dangerous or in public. Last time we played he made me pee with him watching. I want to get back at him for embarrassing me in front of him. Any ideas?

wow, this ones hard.
umm you could watch him pee or you could make him shave his armpits because whats more embarrasing then making a guy look like he hasn't hit puberty or you can make him shave his arms or legs too.and i dont really know what he thinks is embarrasing so if you could give me some examples it would be alot easier. thanks.

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so there is this boy and he is one of my best frends so we hang out a lot. our families are also frends so his family comes over for dinner all the time. we went out before but we broke up because of a stupid fight and then we both went out with different people but we are both single right now. i reallllyyy like him, like i cant explain it, i love him and i dont know if he likes me as just a best friend or more but i wanna know. my other frends say i should just go for it, like french kiss him and see wat happens. but im not sure. wat do you think? thanks in advance!
btw im 13/f

He might like you, i think you should go for it, see what happens. But don't just do what your friends tell you to do, do what feels right. But at age 13 you have to remember that you don't usually love somebody, your not going to love them forever. You'll move on so don't stress over it too much. Every girl needs to learn that around my age because they always think otherwise, and so do I. no offense.
Hope i helped anyways.

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hey im 13/f. i recently have wanted to start wearing makeup but im not sure what colors are right for me. i have medium lenght brown hair. i have brown eyes with tints of green in them and dark eyebrows. i am 4'10'' and i want to know how to put it on without making it look over the top and slutty. colors and techniques would be great! thanks!

well since you seem to have a darker skin complection you can work with alot of colors; light or dark which is good, If your going for the sweet or a daytime look you would do lighter colors like; pink, purple; and such as. But if you want to take more risks you could use darker colors like; dark blues, greens, purples, or maybe black. You can you black or brown eye liner since your eye brows and hair are darker. I usually us 2 colors, I put a simple color like pink or something on the whole eye, and then i take a little eye liner brush and i put a V like, i dont know how to explain it but i put a line on half of the top eye and do the same on the bottom with a darker color or like a color from my skirt. If you get what im saying. And then of course i do eye liner and mascara. Or you could put a darker color on the whole eye lid and then from there on to the eye brows do a little color. It all looks good if you do it right.
Hope i helped and sorry if this is confusing :]

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iam 14 and in the 9th grade and I want to do more than just hug and kiss my boyfriend.Is there any other things that i can do besides hug and kiss my boyfriend?I know that there is sex and iam going to do that if that's the only other thing i can do i just want to get closer and if i do have sex iam already on birth control becouse of my messed up period and iam going to use protection.what can i do besides hug and kiss my boyfriend?

Well you could give him a hand job, blow job, have him finger you (ext.)
for tips on anything you can go to ww.sextutor.com
theres alot of things you can do there.
tips on sex and other things.
but i want to remind you that having sex doesnt always bring people closer, but sometimes more apart. but this is your desicion.
Hope it al goes well.

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well thier is this really nice,cute,funny,8th grader and i really like him.But I don't know if he would go out with me.And I was this close from talking to him.But i got pushed down before i could say anything.The thing i want to know is"will a 8th grade boy go out with a 6th grade girl"thanks

its possible but i dout it will happen because older boys dont like younger girls untl you are both in highschool. thats when i usually see younger girls going out with older guys. sorry

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hey my friend is 4'9 and she only weighs 85 pounds she eats alot and everything but she wont gain weight. this is a really big problem for her and shes been really sad about it. what are some HEALTHY ways 4 her to gain weight.
tnakyou
p.s dont say to pig out

actually shs not too skinny for her weight and hieght. its pretty normal. you can go here and fill out her weight and height and seee if she is perfect or so on. for here to be a healthy weight at her height she should weigh from 90-95 pounds. i hope i helped. Just tell her to eat alot of carbs and calories and not excersize. believe me she will see a change.

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Are there times in a relationship where a partner may have doubts? I mean I love my boyfriend very much. But I dunno today I just didn't feel good and I just thought he was soo annoying and too touchy and I didn't want to hug him. I'm fine now though and I very much want him to be at my house with me.. Is it just me?

no, this is perfectly normal. every once in awhile you just want to be left alone, i dont doubt you liking him. nothing is wrong with you.

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Ive kissed a girl, but never "made out" with one.... is all you do is move your tongue in the other persons mouth? and if thats not the way can anyone tell me how to thank you.

you can go to www.sextutors.com , its got tips on alot of things on there but if your looking about kissing just click on kissing.
hope i helped

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I like this 8th grader alot.But I am in the 6th grade.Should I go up to him and say I like you and also say age doesn't matter.What should I do?My bestfriends says I should do that but I am not sure.Help!!!!!!!!!!!!

usually older guys dont like younger girls until later, like when they are in highschool. im not saying there is no chance but usually it doesnt happen. because the guy will get made fun of my his friends for going out with a ounger girl so they usually dont do that or they just dont like younger girls. just do what you feel is best.

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ok well..i was with my bf for about a year and a half..and he accused me of calling him all the time..and we broke up and got back together yesterday and then i called him last night to leave him a voice mail to say goodnight..not wanting him to pick up and he didn't so i just left him a voice mail (he was at work) and then he just got done telling me that he wants me to grow up and not to ever call him ever again and he doesn't want to talk to me ever again..and i just dont know what to do..i really love this guy and when we talked yesterday he really loved me to..but what do i do..i really need help! please help me!!

well when you two went out before it seems he broke upwith you because you called too much. guys don't like to be called for miner things such as good nights and so on, because it makes them feel like your their mother. and then when you two went back out there you went calling him again like he said he didn't like. im sure he does love/like you but doesn't want to be kept on a tight leash and called constantly. so just give it a little time and if you two doget back together again give himsome breathing room and let him call you once in awhile, it shows that he cares and wants to talk to you. let him take the initative.
hope i helped

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