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Are there times in a relationship where a partner may have doubts? I mean I love my boyfriend very much. But I dunno today I just didn't feel good and I just thought he was soo annoying and too touchy and I didn't want to hug him. I'm fine now though and I very much want him to be at my house with me.. Is it just me?
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Absoloutely!!!!!! I love my other half more than I could possibly ever describe. But there are times where I can't stand to talk to him or have him anywhere near me, for fear I might ACTUALLY have to bite his ear off or something!!!
It's just that when you spend a lot of time with someone, you get to know each other so well that some of the things they do get annoying and they get to know how to push your buttons. Not to mention you are around them when you're feeling hormonal and all the bad feelings get directed onto them because they happen to be there!
Try not to focus on the few occasions when you can't stand to be around him. The important times are when you feel like you couldn't breathe unless he was there.
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Everyone has doubts in their relationships. Whether it is a relationship with a friend, a boy/girlfriend, or a spouse, it is natural to question it. It seems to me that the closer people get, the more they question their relationship. Sometimes it is from spending so much time together that people need time to themselves. Sometimes people get in moods where everything irritates them, especially those they see often.
Basically, it is not just you. In fact, he probably gets that way too. Don't be surprised if he has times when he is distant. And when he does, if you start to feel angry, just remember that it happens to you and to everyone else too. It is a normal part of relationships. How you both handle it is what is important. If you freak out and decide that it means you shouldn't be together, you could lose something good. If he questions your distance, just be honest and say that you are just feeling touchy and need some space for a short while, even just a couple hours. He should be understanding. If he isn't, well, then it would be time to question things.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years now, and we've both had our doubts. I've had my "off" days...even weeks. However, if you really in fact do love him--the thoughts of leaving him will subside. Relationships cannot be strengthened without doubts, remember that!
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Maybe your spending too much time with him, try cutting it down for a little bit. I get like that with my friends lol. ♥
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no, this is perfectly normal. every once in awhile you just want to be left alone, i dont doubt you liking him. nothing is wrong with you.
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Oh my God! At least once every other day I want to throttle my husband. It is totally normal to want to take space or not be touched or touch others. Especially when it is on or around your period but not necessarily. Every day events will affect your mood and who you want to spend time with.
Hope this helps.
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sometimes you just need a little break from people. You will probably be over it in like a day.
hope i helped =]
Jess
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