ok well..i was with my bf for about a year and a half..and he accused me of calling him all the time..and we broke up and got back together yesterday and then i called him last night to leave him a voice mail to say goodnight..not wanting him to pick up and he didn't so i just left him a voice mail (he was at work) and then he just got done telling me that he wants me to grow up and not to ever call him ever again and he doesn't want to talk to me ever again..and i just dont know what to do..i really love this guy and when we talked yesterday he really loved me to..but what do i do..i really need help! please help me!!
xojessicaax answered Monday October 16 2006, 6:08 pm: i think he does like you alot cos u were going out for a while but maybe you shouldnt call him everyday especially for something just like goodnight. some guys think its sweet but maybe he doesnt so maybe try not calling him so much.
clouded_bluee answered Monday October 16 2006, 5:44 pm: well when you two went out before it seems he broke upwith you because you called too much. guys don't like to be called for miner things such as good nights and so on, because it makes them feel like your their mother. and then when you two went back out there you went calling him again like he said he didn't like. im sure he does love/like you but doesn't want to be kept on a tight leash and called constantly. so just give it a little time and if you two doget back together again give himsome breathing room and let him call you once in awhile, it shows that he cares and wants to talk to you. let him take the initative.
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god-smusgrove answered Monday October 16 2006, 5:35 pm: maybe u were giving him to much attention. learn from your mistakes and maybe he'll come back to you. maybe he just wants a break. trust me its a big problem between bf and gfs that the gf gets to ancy about talking to the bf. give it time and learn from this. [ god-smusgrove's advice column | Ask god-smusgrove A Question ]
holahayley56 answered Monday October 16 2006, 4:38 pm: Dude. Give the guy some space. It sounds like your on him 24/7. Let him do some of the calling. Your way too obbessed with him.
I think its basically over for the two of you.
So, what I suggest, is move on find someone else.. & work on not being so obbessed, & i swear things will get 10 times better, pet.
icey0990 answered Monday October 16 2006, 4:32 pm: man thats realllly mean. your bf should WANT to hear from you and think its cute you want to talk and say good night. its one thing if he doesnt want to be on the phone as much..but he should at least want to talk for a little bit each night. the things he said were uncalled for and ridiculous..i think you should move on..you desserve better sweetheart
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