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what can i do besides hug and kiss my boyfriend?
iam 14 and in the 9th grade and I want to do more than just hug and kiss my boyfriend.Is there any other things that i can do besides hug and kiss my boyfriend?I know that there is sex and iam going to do that if that's the only other thing i can do i just want to get closer and if i do have sex iam already on birth control becouse of my messed up period and iam going to use protection.what can i do besides hug and kiss my boyfriend?
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I'm 14 and never had sex if my boyfriend and I get bored we simply do what everyone else has already said he wants to have sex but I am not emotionally and mentally ready so he is waiting for me :) hope this helps!!! Xoxo :)
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Please don't have sex until you are both emotionally prepared and if you have any doubts, then you are not ready. It's a big decision. There are things you can do besides sex like dry humping which is like having sex but with clothes on. If all you have done is kiss and hug, you can experiment with just taking one or two pieces of clothes off and explore each other with your eyes or hands. Kiss each others neck, shoulders, back, stomach...it doesn't have to go farther than that. Don't rush because this is how you can get to know what each other likes and dislikes.
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Well theres always oral or manual stimulation. Like handjobs blowjobs aka Brains or head... getting eaten out, or fingering.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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Well you could give him a hand job, blow job, have him finger you (ext.)
for tips on anything you can go to ww.sextutor.com
theres alot of things you can do there.
tips on sex and other things.
but i want to remind you that having sex doesnt always bring people closer, but sometimes more apart. but this is your desicion.
Hope it al goes well.
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has he felted you up yet. If not, defenitly do that cause it's the safest. If he's done that too then go to sloppy seconds which is when he sucks your nipples. If he's already done that then you can consider hand job. Be safe and careful and don't do anything your not comfortble with.
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i deffinitly agree with the other answer.. if your tottally comfortable with your boyfriend and it seems like you are.. you can steem up your makeouts with him by going down his pants or him down yours.. if your ready oral sex is the closest thing to sex you can do. just make sure your ready because you dont want there to be awkwardness if you both think you went to far.. hope i helped =)
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You don't just have sex because there's "nothing else to do"
You're 14. There's PLENTY of time to do that.
Experiment with kissing - so it doesn't get boring. Or if you really wanted to, go a step forward and use your hands/mouth to stimulate his penis.
However, you still need to take precautions. Sti's can still be contracted via oral sex.
Noone can stop you from doing these things, but thinking you are ready to yourself isn't good enough. You have to KNOW you are ready. 100%.
But good luck with whatever you choose to do.
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Hey sex is something that you don't just do. It comes with responsibilties.(not that i'm experienced or anything but...)There are loads of things that can and often do happen. THe birth control and/or protection may not work, there are also all those STDs you can get. I really don't think you should be thinking about sex right now.
There is always the option of making out with your boyfriend but hun, you're only 14 your'e not ready to do more than kissing. Slow down that part comes later.
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Hey,
Take it from Granny, becoming sexualy active is a big responsibility, and at your age, I would not do anything, that you are not really ready to do. It is best to develop a good relationship before getting into any type of sexual relationship....
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uh...try hand jobs and head. and if you want something done to yourself, have him finger you or eat you out. and a great combo of head and eating out is "69".
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