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Member Since: October 15, 2006
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Last Update: October 26, 2006
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Well, I've asked many questions about masturbation, and people say 'it's healthy'. Then why do I feel so ashamed? My hormones are taking over my life, and I'm stuck in between telling my mom and either masturbating or not, or not telling my mom and masturbating or not. I know it's a very personal decision but I'm not swayed easily by a couple of 'it's healthy' or 'don't do it' or 'tell your mom and she'll tell you not to', ya know? I just need it flat out - what should I do?


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i think that is a totaly private thing and i wouldnt tell my mom the things i do with guys never mind myself haha but if you and your mom have that close of a relationship thats awsome.. i wish i did..i heard today that in europe a majority of familys are alot more open about sexuality .. i wish i lived in europe


iam 14 and in the 9th grade and I want to do more than just hug and kiss my boyfriend.Is there any other things that i can do besides hug and kiss my boyfriend?I know that there is sex and iam going to do that if that's the only other thing i can do i just want to get closer and if i do have sex iam already on birth control becouse of my messed up period and iam going to use protection.what can i do besides hug and kiss my boyfriend? (link)
i deffinitly agree with the other answer.. if your tottally comfortable with your boyfriend and it seems like you are.. you can steem up your makeouts with him by going down his pants or him down yours.. if your ready oral sex is the closest thing to sex you can do. just make sure your ready because you dont want there to be awkwardness if you both think you went to far.. hope i helped =)


How do you know if you've had an orgasm? I get a good feeling during masterbation, but I'm never sure. (link)
http://www.gurl.com/findout/fastfacts/pages/1,,623590,00.html

that should help its deff. true.. its hard to get an orgasm through masterbation because of the tenseness that builds up .. ive never had one because of this.. i think if you have a partner its alot easier but he hasnt gotten me there yett


18/f/NJ
Kayla

my boyfriend fingered me yesterday and i've done it before and he says he has too but he never touched my clit during the whole entire time, which made it hurt. how can i teach him to do it in a nice way? without hurting his feelings? cuz it hurt when he did it cuz he didn't touch my clit for a while first!! (link)
deff. just whisper to him to rub you first .. i did this and the guy i was with got the hang of it .. it was greattt untill someone walked inn thats the worst..


ok so i was hooking up with my guy and he was fingering me and he was pretty hard and it felt good ...but when he took his fingers out there was blood all over his fingers and that has never happened before. it burned when i went to go pee. what happened? it was so embarassing he thought i was on my period!!! whats wrong? (link)
i dont know why some answers say your not a virgin.. your a virgin if you have never had sex before.. you couldve just been torn a little or gotten your cherry popped.. this same thing happend to seriously on friday and i posted a question.. check out wat i asked i got a pretty good response.. its tottaly fine..




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