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18/f/NJ
Kayla
my boyfriend fingered me yesterday and i've done it before and he says he has too but he never touched my clit during the whole entire time, which made it hurt. how can i teach him to do it in a nice way? without hurting his feelings? cuz it hurt when he did it cuz he didn't touch my clit for a while first!!
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deff. just whisper to him to rub you first .. i did this and the guy i was with got the hang of it .. it was greattt untill someone walked inn thats the worst..
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Hey,
Just be honest with him, alot of guys do not really know what feels best to a female..many don't know that the clint is the key...In any sexual relationship...the key is good communication...you could start the conversation by asking him..where he like to be touched the most...and then tell him how you like to be touched the most...it will be a big turn on for him, if he know he is giving you pleasure...
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Just telling him what to do would be the easiest way to do it. It's not going to hurt his feelings unless you tell him he's doing a bad job. If you tell him it would be better if he did it another way he'll be more than happy to try it for you. If you really don't wanna say anything, just put his hands how you want them and guide him through what you want him to do without words. When he's doing it right let him know. You could even just do it yourself. He would probably catch on after awhile and take over for you. Good luck.
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Tell him, "It felt really good last time and all but you know what would really make it the absolute best? if you put ur thumb On my clit like it’s a bowling ball. And rub it. Because it will make me finish and that I would love you forever for it.!!! :)"
hope I helped
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