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upset. they kill me.
Well, I've asked many questions about masturbation, and people say 'it's healthy'. Then why do I feel so ashamed? My hormones are taking over my life, and I'm stuck in between telling my mom and either masturbating or not, or not telling my mom and masturbating or not. I know it's a very personal decision but I'm not swayed easily by a couple of 'it's healthy' or 'don't do it' or 'tell your mom and she'll tell you not to', ya know? I just need it flat out - what should I do?
Thankyou in advance!
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i think that is a totaly private thing and i wouldnt tell my mom the things i do with guys never mind myself haha but if you and your mom have that close of a relationship thats awsome.. i wish i did..i heard today that in europe a majority of familys are alot more open about sexuality .. i wish i lived in europe
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okie to tell you i think masturbation is just fine i think everyone does it..i mean come on do u know anyone who doesnt masturbate?..well if i were you i would be a lil embarrassed to tell my mom that i masturbate so if i were you i wouldnt tell her at all nd dont be so ashamed of masturbating everyone does it every once in a while nd of course your hormones are taking over your life you a growing teenager (hopefully you are a teenager)..your hormones are gonna make you do somethings you dont wanna do but just think of this "live everyday like its your last" nd in some ways hormones can be very good =]
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Most girls do feel ashamed after masturbation. Why? I have no clue. But it's the truth. Hormones take over all teenagers life, why fight them? This is the main reason I always tell people I think they should masturbate. There is nothing wrong with it in my opinion, and it relieves stress.
But on the other hand, I wouldn't tell your mom. I tell my mom everything, don't get me wrong. But seriously, masturbation is a personal decision/choice that should be kept personal if you ask me.
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I think you should do what YOU feel is right. It's not up to anyone else whether if you want to masterbate or not, it is a personal thing to do!
I wouldn't let anyone know because it could be quiet embarrasing! If you feel ashamed... you shouldn't! There is absolutley nothing wrong in masterbating!
If you still ashamed about it.. think if it as exploring your body! I'm sure your mum would appreciate you doing it to yourself at the moment instead of some boy hm?
Hope I helped :)
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flat out..you don't need to tell your mom anythign what you do to your body is personal..and she doesnt have to know unless you feel it is harmful to yourself..masturbation like you said is perfectly healthy and natural and it can't get you pregnant lol so why not go for it
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