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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...
*~respect yourself~*

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uMmMMM.. ii like this guy n he said he likes me but.. i liked him at the beginiinq of the year n he broke my heart 3 times be4 sOo ii dont know what i shud do shud i just ask him out or move on since he hurt me be4

Girl, you should DEFINATELY move on!!! he hurt you too many times to deserve another chance.

~ANGE

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ok my grandma used to live with me and she passed away(in my living room) and everytime i close my eyes to go to sleep i see her laying in her bed and she is Dead i do not know what is wrong with me! i have not been able to get to sleep for awhile. Does anyone know what i can do without seeing anyone??? Please help me
~~~~~~~I'll RATE A 5 ~~~~~~~~~

nothing is wrong with you. it's all part of the grieving process. you need to come to terms with your grandma's death... in time you will sleep again but in the meantime the only thing you could do is see a doctor and find out if theres anything you can take to help you sleep. good luck honey.

~ANGE

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I have a huge crush on this guy and just when he was starting to like me someone told him i was talking about him behind his back and now he wont talk to me. I've been crying my eyes out for hours now and life isnt worth living without him i dont know what to do....please help me im so upset hes the first guy ive ever cried over :( :( :(

life IS worth living!!! look, just tell him that it was a bullshit story made up by someone thats jealous. if he still doesn't believe it then he's not worth your time or tears. fill me in on how it goes

~ANGE

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this one boy who likes me but i don't like him. he is constantly abusing me by hitting me and squeezing my arm really tight. he and his sister are very stockish and i need to get away what should i do?! he won't stop following me. i've asked my crush to talk to him but he's too scared. what should i do?!

signed,
running from a stocker

guys do tend to see what they want to see. the only way to deal with it is to tell him that you only see him as a friend. he might get angry but you cant live like you are - running from a stocker. just tell him to back off. that's all i can say. hope i helped.

~ANGE

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my friend knows i like him and i gave him my number today cause my friend gave him the wrong number. and i gave him ahug and he gave me one back. he seems to be protecting me by standing up for me when people make fun of me or when people are stocking me like this one boy who likes me but i don't ike him. does this mean anything that he is standing up for me?! could it be a sign of love?! what should i do to thank him?

tell him how much you appreciatte him. he needs to know. and he will love the fact that you really do like it when he stands up for you.

~ANGE

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I cut myself. When i feel super bad i cut myself. And i know it's a horrible thing to do. I need to stop. Does anybody have any suggestions about how to stop? Going to an adult is not an option. Please help.

okay admitting you are doing it is the first step. your on your way. you go girl! lol. you need to talk to a close friend. and when you are upset talk to them, instead of cutting yourself. talking is the best way to deak with your problem. good lluck honey. keep me informed

~ANGE

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ok theres this guy at my school whos a junior and im a sophmore and hes soo sweet..hes not really that HOTT but hes not ugly..and he has the BIGGEST crush on me ever...we hang out everyday and stuff and we went to a bonfire together and we held hands and kissed...the thing is...i have a boyfriend of 6 months who i really do love....and ive never cheated on him til now...i totally regret it..and wil never do it again but i feel so bad and now ryan (the guy i kissed) is all upset because i told him i cant cheat on my boyfriend no more and stuff and hes all hurt...but some of my friends knew about what happened and they want me to tell my boyfriend soo bad but i dont want to..i just want to let it go and never do it again :( and ryan calls me 24/7 even when im w/my boyfriend!! idk what to do please help me... :(

You really do have to tell him. you cant hide a secret like this from you b/f. it is hard and it might end your relationship but a relationship without trust isn't a relationship at all. good luck darl

~ANGE

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Ok. There is this boy that i liked for over a year. i met him when i moved here from flordia. And we became friends right away! and we were kindof going out or whatever. We were getting really close untill i had to move again and we talk on the phone everynight and talk about how much we miss eachother. and he tells me all the time that i will make a perfect wife. Ok know here is where the bad news comes from Im moving back to florida and he is really upset he thinks that i will find someone hotter than him and never come back to see him and just forget about him or something. Ok my question is do you think that we will still talk and maybe work out a relationship together??? Or will we slowly fade away from each other??? ~~~~~~I RATE HIGH~~~~~~~~

long distance relationships CAN work. if you put in the effort. you have to be willing to visit him at every opportunity and talk all the time. if you are willing to do this then go for it. better to end later then now if you still like him!

~ANGE

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What Should I get My Boyfriend For Valentines Day??....He's 14 and He Has Just About Every Cologne Made!...Because thats what I was going to get him..He is a Skateboarder...umm..thats about it...What Should I Get Him??

guys have a soft side too - get him a teddy bear! with i photo of you two together.

~ANGE

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okay my b/f is really into me... like he says that i am his world and he's always saying how much he adores me... well the problem is he has a bad past. he slept around alot and i'm not into that. he knew from the start - before we even started dating - that i'm a proud virgin. he is cool with that but when we are in public, ike at the mall or something, he cant keep his hands off me. it's really embarrasing and i dont know how to react. how can i confront him about this??? Please Help!!

talk to him. if he cares about you as much as he says he does then he wont mind.

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(14/f)

i have a friend (thing is, she's a chick) and i am starting to have.. well.. feelings for her?.. as more than just a friend. i guess you can say we're best friends although we're REALLY different.. and idk. she's helped me get through so many things (like anorexia, cutting, suicide attempts, etc) and i really care about her..

basically i just don't wanna scare her off if you know what i'm saying.. i'm sooo sick of guys and how they're so oblivious to emotions and i guess i just wanna experiment with a qirl for once.. and ehh.. i just don't know. i get butterflies in my tummy whenever we talk and its just getting soo akward. what can i do?? and i *DO* rate.

before you go risking a relationship you need to know that what you feel is real. if it is then maybe you can talk to your friend. dont say you like her, just say that you aren't ure of your sexuality. if she's a good friend she'll understand. if she shows interest then go for it. but remember, are you willing to risk your friendship on a crush?

~ANGE

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Okay i have this friend who has a sorta g/f in another state...they only see eahother 6 weeks out of the year (camp)and they rarely ever talk on the phone, only a little bit on the internet. He's been really upset about not seeing her and shiz b/c of the past holiday season and upcoming holiday. I'm want to convince him having a long distance relationship is too hard but i don't want to just tell him flat out its wrong.I know that its not my business to tell him who to date but i just don't want him to be sad anymore. He's always sad and i don't like him being sad...so how do i do that? Someone please help me! Thanx! I appreciate it!

try comfort him in any way you can. let him run his own life but dont be afraid to show him how concerned you are. tell him you are worried and let him know there are other girls out there.

~ANGE

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Well valintines day is comeing up...and its my b day on valintines day i know im special jk. Anyway theres this boy i wanna ask to be my valintines. Hes been my friend since pre k and i dont know if he likes me. I have a boyfriend but since the last time i saw him well its been 2 months and he just disapeared. I guess he moved. But anyway i said to my self its time to move on and i really want a valintine. Ive never had one before. And any ideas pleez? gracias.

move on girl! ask this friend of yours. if you realy like him then dont let anything stand in your way. :) good luck!

~ANGE

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I swear I am the most paranoid, insecure person in the world. I'm constantly thinking that I'm not good enough for my amazing boyfriend, that he's forcing himself to be nice to me, and that he's gonna' cheat on me. How can I tell that he's sincere??? What can I do to make myself not so insecure???

if he's standing by you when your having self esteem issues then he obviously likes you. remember this piece of advice...

love many, trust few, and always paddle your own canoe.

this means that you should never be afraid to love someone and that you should let them earn your trust. but never let anyone run your life.

dont be afraid to love someone. let yourself be loved. good luck darl

~ANGE

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hi! me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a long time...almost a year off and on and we hve been hving many troubles throught out the whole year..one of the ones that i brought on was that i cheated on him once and then we ended up goin bak out..then i figured out that my bf kissed another grl over the summer that he swore that they wer jus friends...we wernt together wen they kissed but its jus the fact that he always swore and she was one of my good friends...me and that girl dont tlk anymore. and another lie i jus heard about was that a new grl at our skewl likes him [already knew that] but he swore he didnt like her but i jus found out he TOLD her he liked her..i know these things r both true for a fact and then the girl he kissed over the summer he swore he would never go to her house nemore but i kno he has been there...i like him alot and i dont kno wut to do alot of my friends r jus sayin brk up with him but idk if i could...HELP!

listen to your friends. your b/f is obviously a playa and you dont need that in your life. tell him its over and find yourself a man that will treat you right.

~ANGE

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well i am moving to Colorado next year before school starts and like i am really outgoing and stuff and i play volleyball, and that starts before school so i can meet people by doing that to, but i am like really scared of the change and i dont know waht to do to make the move easier????

Please help me out

i moved 16 times in my life (i'm 17) and as much as i hate to admit it, it doesn't get much easier. but you do learn to just be nice to everyone until you find out who is you real friends. good luck. i hope it goes well. catch up with me when you've settled in. by darl.

~ANGE

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I am a 17/m and i have problems talking to girls. There i admited it. Now i need help. Please give me some advice.
P.S. I will rate good for HELPFUL advice

well i guess i can help you out there. i am 17f and i know a fair few guys that have trouble talking to me. just start off little... say hi when you walk past girls you know or flash them a winning smile ;) slowly work your way up to conversations... talk about 'safe' things. like 'what did you do over the week end?' things like that. before you know it, you wont be able to shuttup around girls!!! lol. good luck hun.

~ANGE

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my mom always makes me go to bed so early!! shes like okay 9:00 is your bedtime ..but im 13!! She makes me do this during the week and im never tired till like 1 am! And i have a laptop that im sneaking on with right now but she ALWAYS catches me..what do i do?>

all moms are annoying at some stage!!! lol. there isn't really much you can do. try reading a book for a little bit. it's good for your vocabulary AND puts you to sleep!!! lol. tell your mum you need to read for a bit before you go to bed. she should be fine with it because reading is healthy for the brain! good luck honey.

~ANGE

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ok well my bf and i we hang out all the time!!! but after awhile we get bored! but when he comes over or if i go over there we usually just watch tv! and i want to do something different! cuz we both can't drive yet! ideas would be great of wat to do!!!

and his birthday is in a couple of days and i want to do something for him soo Help me please so i can get ideas thanks a bunch

Have a picnic at a park somewhere. it may sound stupid but you can have a great time and get fresh air.

~ANGE

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I want to go to this school that like everyone in my family has gone too. But there's this girl that i really like and im in love with her but she kind of sends me mixed signals. Like im not sure if she likes me or if she loves me or if she has no feeling for me at all. It kind of seems like she likes me or loves me but i don't want to assume anything. She's going to a different school than the one i want to go to but i would do anything for this girl. Even if that means go to a different school for her. So im confused about if i should go to the school i want to go to and try to stay close with her if she likes me. Or go to the school she's going to so i can be with her all the time. And i've tried to talk to her to see how she feels about me but she didn't answer she wanted me to not base my decision on her so i was wandering what i should do

follow your heart. but dont let that completely cloud your judgement. lol. if that makes any sense. if she didn't tell you she doesn't like you then prolly go for it. but if she is just saying nothing so she doesn't hurt your feelings then dont go there. good luck darl. fill me in on your decision!

~ANGE

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