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On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks.. (link)
if you think your ready go for it, just make sure that you wont regret it. if you think your going to make the wrong choice dont do it, any doubts about anything dont do it. if u think your ready go for it, use a condom too hun! hope you make a good decision, xox starzzz789


ok well I am kind of mad. I think my mom's b/f is just using her, And I am to scard to tell my mom. But when I do wont to tell my mom he is there. He is always over and he eats all of our food. But he never cleans up. My mom has not been dateing for a while because my dad went to jail. I dont know what to do.... PLEASE HELP (link)
your mom should listen to anything that you say, and if you dont like her bf she should respect that, just be honest with your mom, she cant do anything about it, and if she gets mad at you dont worry about it, because most likely your right about everything. your just looking out for your mom and tell her that. hope she listens x0


I have liked this boy from the moment I met him{which was 3rd grade and I'm in 8th now}. Well last year he was in my class and we talked a lot. It seemed like he liked me a little bit more than a friend. But in the Summer we had a festival and my friends went up to him and asked Would you ever consider going out with missy? He said no. But the girl who asked him goes to a different school and he had no clue who she was but my other friend went up with her. Well they had asked this infront of one of his friends too they said that he kind of smilied when he said no and he looked at the girl he didn't know gabby in a confused way then to my friend emmie like who is that girl and then to his friend and his friend elbowed him and he smilied. And they went away laughing. But later he told this guy that I liked him right in front of me and I rolled my eyes and he saw me. And this year one of his friends said that he did like me last year. But his friend nick knew that that i liked seth so idk if he just said that to make me feel better. But anyways I have tried so much to forget about him I've gotten other b/f's but it didn't work out because I liked him more than them. And he never comes online and i'm not gonna call him and tell him this. And hes not in my class this year. But what can I do? Do you think that he may of liked me? (link)
theres a possiblity that he did likes you and i didn't think that you should have rolled your eyes, not good, but if you see him inbetween classes or anything try to find him and ask him to stay after or something to talk, you should tell him how you like him, its better off tellingi him then seeing him with other girls, x0


there is this guy who likes me ALOT, and i can tell he does whenever we're together, but then whenever we get around other people (only gurls) he kind starts flirting with them too. he doesnt flirt with them as much as he does with me at all, but still its the fact that he does flirt that makes me not like him as much.. is he just tryin to use me? or is he tryin to be nice to other people and just doesnt realize he's flirting? (link)
well i just think that is the kind of guy that he is, he always flirts to be liked by others, it happens, dont worry to much about it. he def doesn't realize that what hes doing you think is flirting, x0


Im in love with this guy, we've been dating for 10 months now-- and at first i knew he loved me too.. but now it seems like he doesnt anymore.. i feel miserable somtimes because, im over here and i love him soo much, but he wont even look twice at me.. i feel like i've lost the that "thing" that first made me attractive to him. but the other day we hung out and everything seemed just fine we had a really good time (that was 3 days ago) and i havent heard from him since then.. wut do i do? is he using me? does he really like me? or is he just confused? im worried that im loosing him everyday, and i hate feeling like that because i love him so much and would do anything for him.. i just need sum answers b/c i cant figure out wuts goin on... >he didnt even buy me a christmas or a birthday present (link)
maybe your guy isn't into xmas, ive been with my bf for over a year and we dont buy eachother gifts. dont worry everything in your relationship should be fine, sometimes guys just need to be alone (their weird liek that), but try calling him and ask him whats up with everything, he shoudl be able to trust you, and if he was using you i dont think you guys would go out for 10 months! hope things are okay! x0


I'm 13/f in the 8th grade
There's this guy at my school, he's smart, funny, good looking, and mature. His friend told my friend that he liked me and I'm pretty sure he does since he treats me special and flirts with me a lot. Now I'm not really sure if I want to go out with him (I like guys with a more goth character), or I should just wait until highschool since maybe we're going to different ones. Well I believe he wont ask me out because he thinks I like this other kid (who I dont like anymore). What should I do? (link)
well give him a chance, if he really likes you and flirts with you he does like you most likely, and you should flirt back with him and give him a chance and say yes when he does ask u out. you never know since hes a good kid maybe things will work out. good luck x0


My dad smokes. I try to make him stop by saying "please stop smoking dad" or "you should quit" or cough really loud when he lights up a cigarette. DAMN IT, I FUCKING HATE THE SMELL! He smokes when hes in the bathroom, i just hate it. When i cough and stuff around him he'll be like OH SHUT UP, YOU SHOULD BE USED TO IT ALREADY or YOUR OVERREACTING. and id be like, havent you ever heard of second hand smoke dad?? he doesn't care.. i mean hes a good dad but he needs to stop. i dont think he'd do that nicotene patch or gum thing. When i tell my mom about it, she'd be like, get used to it, or she'd do nothing about it. What should i do? (link)
try talking to him about how bad you dont like it, hopefully the bathrooms the only room that he smokes in, possibly you can convince him to at least take a step outside to have a cigarette. hopefully hell understand you and how much its affecting your life too, he should think of you all the time. yea, try talking to him about it. x0


ok so i am really confused i guess. because at times i would like to have sex, because i think im 'ready' but then i get scared because i have no clue what to expect. so i dont know what to do .. can somebody help me out? (link)
if you think at any time that you dont want to because your scared you are def not ready! go with you gut on everything pretty much, once you think your ready without any doubts then you are ready. dont do anything you'll regret in the end. x0


Im still hooked up on my ex, and he has a new gf. I just found out that his new gf doesnt really like him. He asked me if i was mad that he had a new gf but im not. Im just mad that she doesont like him and he likes her. I just dont want him to get hurt. Should i tell him that she doesnt like him or just stay out of it? I think i should stay out of it, but i really dont want him to get hurt. as much as i love him, i couldnt bear to see him so hurt if they broke up. i think it would be good though since she doesnt like him. any advice? (link)
be honest with him, tell him how you feel about him and he would probably break it off with her or MAYBE he would tell his gf about how you feel about him, and then his girlfriend would break up with him and you guys will get backtogether! well just tell him how you feel about him and things should pretty much work out for the best! good luck! x0


what's the best shaving razor to use for legs? (link)
if you wanna go cheap and not waste 7 or 8 bucks on ONE razor or something, get gillette, its good, thats what i use, cheap too! haha if not just try out different razors and see what you like best! x0


How do you ask a guy out without making it seem like your completly stupid? Like, how do you make it come up in a conversation? because I'm talking to this boy online, and I really like him, and we're awesome friends, and I want to know how he feels about me. How do I do it? None of my friends will do it for me because they say thats "cheating" (link)
yea dotn have your friends do it, just be honest with him and tell you how you feel about him, you guys probably have alot in common and hes probably just afraid to bring it up too. but just be cool about it be like what are you doing next weekend, would you like to go see a movie or hang out at the mall? thats usually waht my friends say to whoever they want to get with. hope he feels the same to you! x0


I like this guy right, but he is in 7th grade and im in 6th. i really do like him and hes very cute, and hes sooo nice and funny. sometimes i think i may love him.i joke around and call him babe and hun and hottie and all those things but i really dont know if i should ask him out or wait till we meet in person. but im not that pretty amand so im afraid to wait.please help! (link)
woah you guys havent met yet? def wait until you guys meet eachother it would be better off doing that because it would kinda mean something to you, in a way if you want to put it lol. hope things work out! x0


yes i have never had sex or anything but have pleasured myself and have gotten fingered a couple times but only one time during the pleasuring i get like a 5 second thing where its awesome but is that the orgasm? im unsure of this.. (link)
yes ma'am thats an orgasm! starzzz789 x0


ok well im 13 and i like this guy but hes older, much older. We became friends cuz hes my friends older brother. we started to chill and talk everyday and got really close. then my mom didnt like that he was really old so she didnt want me to see him anymore. what should i do i really miss him?? (link)
well if the guy is much older than you, try looking for guys in your grade or around your age like within 2 years of your age, they would be more fun to hang out with and they probably would have much more in common with you. have fun! x0


This is so embarrassing but i feel like my breath smells really bad all the time... i brush and use listerine twice a day and still cant get rid of it. Is there any good products out there or any suggestions on what to do? I don't think gum would help that much.
Thanks
*Erica*
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next time you go to the dentist mention it to him, he/she should know what to do. possibly try using a different toothpaste, brush your teeth really good even your tounge, flose(?). hopefully that should work for ya! good luck! x0


what exactly is an orgasm? is it something physical or is it like just a feeling?
im sooooooooooo confused (link)
it feels really good then after you get super tired, because you have no adrenalin in you anymore.. a guy can do it or you can do it to yourself.. its pretty much a really good sensation to your body or something like that, lol. starzzz789 x0


Hello. Um, I have a problem with this guy who lives in my neighborhood. Everyday he harasses me sexually. I've tried telling the police, but they said without hard evidence they couldn't do anything. I'm sort of a feminist, so something like this shouldn't be a problem for me. But, I'm too afraid to tell my friends or family. I'm 16 and he's like, 25. So, I know it's illegal.
What should I do? (link)
ask other girls in the neighborhood if that guy has done/said anything to them, if so then go tell the police again and they should listen if they dont listen to you tell your parents. thats not right of that guys, its gross! x0


what is gyno? im so confused (link)
thats a person who checks girls vag area. he/she checks about your area down there and to see if you have anything wrong down there. x0


I am a 16/m and I have a girlfriend who is 21 and we have been going out for 5 months. I just recently lost my virginity to her. After that, we have been having sex, but there is one problem. I don't get aroused enough. I feel horrible about this. I want to have sex with her so bad when I am not with her but then when I am there and we are foreplaying or she is on top of me I do not get fully aroused. What should I do so I can be fully aroused because I really want to enjoy it? (link)
well if you dont have sex as often, and when you do it will feel really good and you will get fully aroused. that should work for you guys, but remember sex isn't everything in a relationship, and your too young for her, you can get her into alot of trouble. x0


When do your breasts stop growing because I'm 14 and I wear a size B bra and how much will I be when I stop growing? Thanks! Please try to give me a range of my bra size for me! (link)
i would have to say around 18, if not probably after 15. i think youll probably stay a b but i really dont know! lol x0




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