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Im in love with this guy, we've been dating for 10 months now-- and at first i knew he loved me too.. but now it seems like he doesnt anymore.. i feel miserable somtimes because, im over here and i love him soo much, but he wont even look twice at me.. i feel like i've lost the that "thing" that first made me attractive to him. but the other day we hung out and everything seemed just fine we had a really good time (that was 3 days ago) and i havent heard from him since then.. wut do i do? is he using me? does he really like me? or is he just confused? im worried that im loosing him everyday, and i hate feeling like that because i love him so much and would do anything for him.. i just need sum answers b/c i cant figure out wuts goin on... >he didnt even buy me a christmas or a birthday present<--??
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ok one thing that i think is always true is that no one should make you feel upset because they aren't there with u. if i was u i would prob get rid of him becuz there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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well, maybe is just not as attracted to you as he was 10 months ago.
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Well, the first thing you need to do is talk to him and ask him exactly what's going on. Tell him what you told us, that you feel like you've lost that "thing" that first made you attractive to him, everything seemed fine the other day when you hung out, etc...maybe even ask him what you just asked is (is he using you, does he really like you, is he confused...) Tell him you feel like you're losing him, and you really don't want to, because you love him, etc. Just be open and honest with him and let him know what's on your mind. If something's not right, you've gotta tell him! If he hasn't fixed it, chances are he doesn't know about it. As much as we would like them to be, boyfriends are not usually psychic, which is why we have to tell them what's on our minds. I mean, god knows I've opened my mouth and bitched at my boy a couple of times. (Or even just told him it feels like something's wrong, if I felt there was). You've gotta talk to him, honey. Communication is KEY in every kind of relationship, especially boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. Don't try to figure it out yourself - save yourself the trouble and talk to him, not us. We can only help you so much and guess what's going on, but he's the only one that can really tell you. I hope this helps! -Siren =)
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Wow thats tought. I think you guys lost your flame and he's not the right guy for you. But thats a jerk to not get you a birthday present. You need to talk to him tell him whats on your mind and see if he still loves you like you do. and if he says no im sorry to say but u need to break up with him and move on. theres other fish in the sea. <3 American Girl
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maybe your guy isn't into xmas, ive been with my bf for over a year and we dont buy eachother gifts. dont worry everything in your relationship should be fine, sometimes guys just need to be alone (their weird liek that), but try calling him and ask him whats up with everything, he shoudl be able to trust you, and if he was using you i dont think you guys would go out for 10 months! hope things are okay! x0
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you just need to calm down all long relationships lose there spark sometimes its just that you arekind of over the first hot spot that you go through at the beginning of a new relationship its just like you need to chill and talk to him call him and tell him to come over and ask him whats going on with your relationship
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Ask him why he's been neglecting you. its not cool he's acting the way he is. but if he's a bootyhead about you confronting your feelings with him, then i say let him go...
~sammie~
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you need to confront him ask him if somthins up cuas u need to know how he feels if that dont help dump his sorry but
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The same situation happened with me just recently. The best thing to do is just talk to him about it. Ask him why he's been neglecting you. Tell him how much you love him, and that you want to try and make things the way they were. That should help clear a bunch of things up. If your confused or troubled you need to talk to him. Otherwise it's going to drive you insane, and your going to loose sleep over it. Good luck!
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Hey!! wow!! im so glad i am here to answer this!! haha well me and my bf have been together 8 months he came over on dec. 21st to see me and i havent heard from him sense sat. uhh i dont feel like he loves me as much as i do. I just want the same loving in return and thats what you want to rite? When we hang out its heaven when im away.. its sucky. I doubt he is using you. He does like you but maybe he is like my bf and isnt a phone person but will talk on the phone and will talk but isnt as awesome as in person. My bf got me a christmas gift.. but idk why yours wouldnt thats a lil wierd. I would just talk to him and let him know how you are feeling. I spilt to my bf the other month i was like NATHAN I DONT KNOW WHATS GOING ON I FEEL LIKE YOUR SLIPPING AWAY I LOVE YOU AND I DONT WANT US TO BREAK Up!!! and i was crying.. uhh but he comforted me.. we've been closer but sometimes i still get that feeling! if you need more help or more stories that i think you could relate to im here. lol im still wide awake so feel free to ask away-trix (plz rate)
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