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My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.



I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..



My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]



I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.♥

I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.


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So now that me and my boyfriend are broken up, I'm wondering, when I should start to ease into flirting again? I dont want to immeadiatly jump into it since it's shallow and I know I should wait. Plus can anyone name interesting places to meet new guys? (Besides the mall, I dont get to go there often) Thanks & I'll rate.

Maybe wait like 1 or 2 weeks. Then to start flirting just go out with your friends to the movies or something & start talking to guys. Go to parties also. Anywhere, really, is when you can meet guys.

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When you claim to be a vampire, does that mean someone actualy sucked your blood, or that your gothic, or what? Also, i am a goth, does that mean i could be called a vampire?

Well i'm not vampirish or gothic. But when people claim themselves to be vampires they just have these like fang teeth and drink blood. They don't suck the blood from your neck. Atleast i don't think so ... Anyways. Your goth. And thats a different thing. So no you shouldn't be called a vampire. But sometimes people can be mean and call you one anyways. They're retarded.

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Hey, I left you a comment the other day and told you that i really liked your site, and that you sounded like fun. well I was wondering, how do you get enters in between your text, by your picture. because look at my site... AlwAySz_h3r3_4_yOu and I have hearts where I want my enters, like I have tried the code, but that didn't work...also how do you bold? is that the code? sorry if that was confusing, but I would really appreciate the help, thanks again,

Hmm okay lol i got it. To make enters between what you want, the code is < p > with out spaces. ONLY THAT. Put that where you want your spaces to be. And the bold code thing is < b > TEXT HERE < / b > . Your mistake for the bold code is that you put the slash AFTER the "b". You HAVE to put it before the "b". Get it? Lol sorry if i sounded confusing. Well let me know if it works or if you have other problems. =)


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I really want to make out with my boyfriend and I already know that he wants to also, but I am self consious of my braces, and I don't know what to do! I know that that sounds pathetic, but I really don't. All of my friends say that I shouldn't be, but i can't help it! How do I get over it and how do I "start" the making out?

Having braces isn't any different then not having different. I agree with your friends, you shouldn't be nervous! Lol. You're just scared because you'll think you'll fuck up kissing him BECAUSE of your braces. Don't blame your braces. Don't blame yourself for having them. It's not any different. Just go for the kiss. You won't be the only one doing the kissing, he'll be kissing you too. So don't worry so much. =)


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me and my boyfriend have been goin out three months today we have been fightin alot in the past 2 weeks do u think thats bad?

It depends. If you guys are fighting over stupid little things then yes it's bad because that can be annoying & you guys will get so angry at each other. But if you guys have an actual reason to be fighting, then it's not. Fighting & having arguments in a relationship will definatly make your relationship stronger. It just depends.

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What do you do when you've liked a guy for a really long time and are finally dating and you decide that you don't want to date anymore, but then after you break up with him, you like him still and now your best friend is going out with him?
Age: 13
Gender: Female

You shouldn't have let him go in the first place. I say just be friends with him for now & be happy for your friend. Next time if you guys go out, keep him. Don't lose him & let him go.

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ok i have a question...do you think that a guy who wraps his arms around a girl and holds her hand and plays with her hair when they lay together and calls her everyday to tell her goodnite and smiles at her for know reason and looks at her while she sleeps just b/c he can likes this girl? the thing is that they are ex bf/gf...and he broke up with her and yet they hang out all the time and go to eachothers family get togethers and hold hands there and when they leave eachother they kiss eachothers foreheads or on the face but not the lips.

Yea. It seems that they like each other.


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my boyfreind never talks to me and we never see eachother..
what should i do.?//

Break up with him. He doesn't make an effort into talking to you and obviously you guys don't hang out. Don't stay in the relationship. It's a waste of time.

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where is a store that has cute clothes and don't cost that much...i rate high

Charlotte Russe, Forever 21 & Wet Seal. Those are cheap & have really cute stuff.

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I talk to a guy online who used to go to my school, then moved to another state, when he went to my school we werent really friends, and never spoke to eachother.

Then a friend gave me his email. So I added him and started talking to him, this was about a year ago. He had a girlfriend back then, and I, also, was with someone. We only spoke about once a week, and always ended up having an arguement over silly things.

Then about 3 months ago, we started talking normally. I fell inlove with him. He always called me things like beautiful, just flirting. Then he started liking some girl, and he stopped calling me nice things, I was heartbroken.

After that we didnt speak as often, but then one day he said "Hey beautiful, thats what I'm gonna call you from now on" I was happy, then we started talking more regulary again.

I always told him I loved him, I think he thought I meant as a friend. Christmas day I sent him a really sweet text message saying:

Hey Mike!

Merry Christmas...

I don't even know if you're awake yet, but you should be.

Nearly a year since I met you!

I didnt want to add you on MSN when Abel told me to, but I'm glad I did.

You're really awesome, and sweet. And I'm glad you're in my life.

I love you, xxx.



That night he said sorry I didnt reply, I didnt have any credit, but your message was really nice. He was being so nice to me.

Then lastnight he kept calling me beautiful and being really sweet to me, saying he wishes we could meet up, knowing it would be impossible, me being allowed to leave my state alone and all.

We stayed up till 3 talking to eachother online. He said he was going to bed, and kept like putting the love heart sign thing [

Aw oh my god that's cute! Well yea I think so. I think he's still developing feelings for you, though. It might take a while when he wants for you guys to hook up & be together. But it really does seem like he likes you.

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Hello, I am 15 and me and my boyfriend have been on and off for about 8 months. And now we have broken up again. I love him with all my heart, and I know he loves me to, he just gets really confused with what he wants. He says he just wants to be alone, but then a couple of days later, he realizes that isn't what he wants. and now I know he is just going to do this again. What should I do?

Totally agree on dumping the guy. He shouldn't be doing all of this "on & off" thing if he didn't really like you. Sure, you guys get back together. But why put effort into the relationship when really the other person isn't doing anything? Personally, if I would get annoyed by this (and I do) , I would dump him. Because I know that sooner or later some other guy will come along.

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what do I do if I like someone

Well you will mostly want to flirt of course. Don't let them know just yet! But if you think he/she likes you back, then you should defiantly let them know. First you just need to flirt.


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Can anyone give me a few songs about death, suicide, cutting, anything sad and i mean SAD

It doesnt matter the 'type' of music

Please and thank you

The only one that popped into my head is Amanda Clemans-I don't want to be me



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Ohkay, let's say im sick, just congestion. Like my nose is all stuffy. And i go out and by a naysel spray. if i take too much of that even by accident, can i permenantely damage my brian or body?

No.

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I'm 27 years old and my ten year highschool reunion is coming up in the new year. Well I feel that by my age I should have acomplished more than I have.
For one thing, I'm still single and don't own my own home or have children. I thought by now that I'd be married, have either a successful career or be a housewife.
All I have is a ten year old car, a small appartment that I rent, a part time job that doesnt pay that good, and some nice furniture and lots of movies, cds, and large television and computer. Maybe I shouldnt complain, I guess things could be worse. Some people from my class are in jail, or had to move back in with there parents for financial reasons, or became single parents.
How can I feel better about myself so when I do go to the reunion I won't sound like such a loser?

Don't worry so much about it. I agree with younggrandma, "if you are happy, that's the thing that matters the most". I have this teacher whos like 40 something years old & he's not married & he's super depressed. But he's this great guy & really funny when he's not depressed. Just go. And if people ask you what's up with your life & you tell them and then they give you this weird look be like, "Well i'm really happy with what i do because i don't want to rush into things soo much & have it mess up my life." Something like that =). Don't sweat it. And if people are talkin shit, kick their ass like you would in highschool..

Lol just kidding about that part =)

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Hi everyone I am planning to start my own magazine company. I wanted to know from teenagers what do you'll look for in a magazine. If you have any suggestions or comments let me know I will greatly appreciate them. But I don't want comments on celebrities because I already have that covered.
Thank you :)

Lol new fashion trends.cute hairstlyes. embarrassing moments. cute love stories.of course gossip about celebrities, and posters & funny quizzes or serious quizzes. "ask anything" columns. real life stories. i agree with MELiixMARiiE. You should really see the other magazines & just to give you an idea. =)

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Lol noo i wasn't laughing at you! I was laughing at the fact that you were asking us! =P Sorry i wasn't laughing at you. I think what your doing is really good. Because i can never get bored from magazines =P

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OKAY... please do not anwser this question unless you are 100% sure

Can you get pregnant if you havent had you period yet?!?!

Um. Duh . Yea you can.

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ya see my boyfriend and i are really close as of right now and i never wanna loose him and i dont think i ever will but I need some advice that will make me feel perfectly confident that i wont loose him

Think of how perfect he is for you & how perfect you are for him. The moments you are feeling right now will DEFINATLY stay with you forever. Losing him is not an option for you right now. So you probably won't. If you guys keep your relationship how it is all perfect it is, then everything will go great. No one can come between you guys =).

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okay i asked a question about being on advienators, people have been saying thing that i didnt find appropiat. Well...people answered the question i asked...they didnt answer it very nicly, most people called me bad things and it hurt my feelings but one person gave me really good advice about it, his name was dangernerd. he helped me relize this site is NOT for children i am 13 and i should be mature enough to handle it, so i am really sorry to anybody i affended, but i still dont know if i should stay on the site, because, now everybody hates me. i need help, what should i do? please i need answers. Merry CHRISTmas!

"kiss kiss"
~3frances
ps. sorry agian

Awww. Well i didn't see that question so right now i'm thinking very positive of you. Maybe you should just leave really nice comments on people's columns and add people too. Eventually you'll be spread around as a nice girl instead of a mean one. Stay on this site, not EVERYONE thinks your a mean girl. Plus, this site isn't a popularity site. It's about who can give really good advice. So who really cares if no one likes you. Just as long as you give really good advice. It's stupid though because some people will start drama on this site & think of it as some little high school. But whatever. Stay on this site.

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my friend andrew wants to know if u finger a girl if she hasnt had her period is it bad or will anything happen?
thank you

Nope nothing will happen.


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