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Question Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 1:11 pm

okay i asked a question about being on advienators, people have been saying thing that i didnt find appropiat. Well...people answered the question i asked...they didnt answer it very nicly, most people called me bad things and it hurt my feelings but one person gave me really good advice about it, his name was dangernerd. he helped me relize this site is NOT for children i am 13 and i should be mature enough to handle it, so i am really sorry to anybody i affended, but i still dont know if i should stay on the site, because, now everybody hates me. i need help, what should i do? please i need answers. Merry CHRISTmas!

"kiss kiss"
~3frances
ps. sorry agian


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himalayanlotus2003 answered Sunday January 8 2006, 4:22 am:
you can still be in this, and learn more, definitely it will also help you to learn . advicing to somebody is not a great job. any body can advice to somebody. but if the same solution is need to be applied by ourself, will that be ok for us. but still we can learn manythings from others life. we need not go for the same thing to learn from our life. if we are just for learning any where we must be there, nice to meet you. if you wish you can send mail to me

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iSpEaKsPaNiSh answered Sunday January 1 2006, 2:54 pm:
don't take anything hurtful that people say seriously. some people see an opportunity to say something witty, but mean, and just forget that there is a real person reading it and reacting from it. don't think to hard about staying on the site. when you need help, ask a question. when you feel like it, you can read people's questions and if you feel that you know how to answer them, go ahead.

just a couple tips:
1. work on your spelling and grammar. it doesn't need to be perfect, but you need to put some effort into it. i don't capitalize all the time, but correct spelling and punctuation do help.
2. you don't have to put your name at the end of your question. i know you probably did this time so people will know who is apologizing, but if you put your name on your other question, you really didn't need to. most people can't see who you are when you post. if you get mean answers, at least you know that they don't know who you are. it's all meant to be anonymous.

about your spelling:
it seems like it can be helped. you actually can spell. you just make careless mistakes.

advienators - advicenators
appropiat - appropriate
nicly - nicely
relize - realize
affended - offended
agian - again

out of all your mistakes, only "affended" looks like it was actually misspelled, not just typed too quickly.

i also notice that you don't use apostrophes for your contractions, but i don't think people really care as much about that.
just read over your questions before you submit them and fix whatever mistakes you made and you should be fine here. everyone is welcome and the majority is very nice.

have fun! =).

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KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 1:29 am:
Awww. Well i didn't see that question so right now i'm thinking very positive of you. Maybe you should just leave really nice comments on people's columns and add people too. Eventually you'll be spread around as a nice girl instead of a mean one. Stay on this site, not EVERYONE thinks your a mean girl. Plus, this site isn't a popularity site. It's about who can give really good advice. So who really cares if no one likes you. Just as long as you give really good advice. It's stupid though because some people will start drama on this site & think of it as some little high school. But whatever. Stay on this site.

♥

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BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 1:15 am:
Hey sweetie.

Merry Christmas to you, even though it was yesterday haha, I'm answering it a day late.. so.

I'm sure no one hates you, just sometimes people leave mean answers for some reason. I don't know why. Some people are smartasses about it also. You just ignore it if you don't like it. You'll soon get used to it, trust me. So, just join the site and answer the questions as best as you can! =D

&& if you people leave mean stuff in your inbox, psh ignore them!

I hope this makes you feel better and if you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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Askme247 answered Monday December 26 2005, 3:06 pm:
Well i dont think anyone hates you brut i do think you should stay ... because if a few kids want to judge you and call you bad things.... you shouldnt judge the rest of us by them....I just think you might want to thik about the questions you are asking befor your post them


PLEASE STAY!!!

Askme247

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karenR answered Monday December 26 2005, 1:07 am:
No one will hate you if you decide to stay.

Should you decide you aren't mature enough to handle it yet, nobody will blame you for that either. Not everyone matures at the same rate so, don't think you should HAVE to be mature enough to handle it because you are 13. I'm sure DN didn't mean that at all.

Some of the questions we get are pretty upsetting even to those if us old enough to know how to handle it. Mainly because we KNOW the younger ones won't necessarily take our advice and experience to heart.

A lot have to learn things for themselves.

It can be a tough job sometimes and really does take a certain amount of maturity. You are mature enough to apologise in case you offended anyone. That is greatly appreciated. Thank you for that.

Honestly though, if you are struggling this much over the decision, you may want to wait until you are a little older before jumping in answering questions. Think about it a while. :)

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Igotamonopoly answered Sunday December 25 2005, 11:30 pm:
DangerNerd (DN) runs this site, and he gives nice advice, except to people who are really mean to him. Since the site is anonymous, not many people know ho you ae (some moderators can see who you are if they look... ^_^). We in general, tend to be mean becuase there is an FAQ that NO ONE READS. DN worked hard to put it together, and we feel that people who ask obvious questions are just wasting our time. Don't take it personally. This site is comprised mostly of immature 13 year-olds, and sometimes we get sick of you :) Everybody doesn't hate you, but I might if you ever spell offended like that again. Please, by all means, stay on the site, but do something to help it, like typing correctly or answering lots of questions, and being nice in general. Merry, Christmas to you, too.

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LoveNJstyle answered Sunday December 25 2005, 9:38 pm:
No one hated you because no one knew who was asking. this isn't to hurt your feelings & don't take this the wrong way but i don't think this site is for you. there are lots of different things for you to join online...i just think giving advice isn't your strength right now. merry christmas. <3

EDIT-------
sorry your feedback cracks me up. you asked for an opinion so i gave you mine. if you don't understand it i basically said stop while your ahead. and yes i said merry CHRISTmas...thanks for the 4??

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Teza answered Sunday December 25 2005, 9:20 pm:
I'm not sure if I answered that specific question you asked but if you joined this site to help people with their problems and give them your advice then why are you going to quit because of a couple of ignorant people? If you love to help people out you would stay. I don't think everyone hates you but maybe they were just annoyed.

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