Question Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 11:45 pm
Hello, I am 15 and me and my boyfriend have been on and off for about 8 months. And now we have broken up again. I love him with all my heart, and I know he loves me to, he just gets really confused with what he wants. He says he just wants to be alone, but then a couple of days later, he realizes that isn't what he wants. and now I know he is just going to do this again. What should I do?
I'm gonna be the weird one and say wait it out. Michael is a very weird person (we both know that!) Since he just got "busted" maybe if he's sitting around his house because he can't do anything he will think about you and give you a call. I wouldn't give up just yet, I know you're sick of going through this shit. But if it's meant to be it will happen. If you two do get back together, work something out this time. On how you will stop fighting. Because no one really tried anything last time and I think that's what killed you. But anyways, if it's meant to be he will come around.
KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Thursday December 29 2005, 9:04 am: Totally agree on dumping the guy. He shouldn't be doing all of this "on & off" thing if he didn't really like you. Sure, you guys get back together. But why put effort into the relationship when really the other person isn't doing anything? Personally, if I would get annoyed by this (and I do) , I would dump him. Because I know that sooner or later some other guy will come along.
skater_girl_rocks answered Thursday December 29 2005, 2:11 am: well i have a lot of pride i would not go out with him again cause that means hes just playing with your head i mean do you want to have an on and off relationship i would not so just dont go out with him again tell he relly is ready because if it was me i would not even give him a 2 chance in my opinion just dont baby him to mutch [ skater_girl_rocks's advice column | Ask skater_girl_rocks A Question ]
GoodAdvice24 answered Thursday December 29 2005, 1:39 am: Ok i go through this ALL the time. I mean you really love him but some times you need a break. I mean breaks aren't always a bad thing it helps you to sort stuff out. So when you break up dont worry about it because things will be ok again. But if you dont want to keep doing this then talk to him. Or else break up for good and find someone else. Hope I helped
ImIsStHeOlDyOu answered Thursday December 29 2005, 1:26 am: ugh well my advice. dump the guy. if he truley loved you he wouldnt be trying this on and off again thing. its just wasting your time, and in the long run your just going to get hurt. dont set yourself up for your own heartbreak. it sucks you dont want that <3
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shopoholicgrl answered Thursday December 29 2005, 1:16 am: If you know he does this everytime then it really isn't worth your time to go out with him. You deserve someone who is 100% dedicated to you, because you are special. YOu desrve nothing less! If you have any more questions just message me! =] good luck. [ shopoholicgrl's advice column | Ask shopoholicgrl A Question ]
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