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i met this guy a while back and we kinda fell for eachother. well, recently, he was calling me like crazy and leaving me sweet voice mail messages and texting me during class. he would come see me between classes and such. however, a couple of days ago, he asked me if i really liked him. and i said "of course i do. i woulndnt have been jacking up my cell bill if i didnt." and i told him that i loved him and he said "i love you too". yesterday, he told me that he doesnt think a relationship is a good idea right now with his grades and such. he hasnt called me since. hes been avoiding me at school (which has been easy for him seeing as i dont go out of my way to see him, he always went out of his way to see me.) and today is my sweet 16 and he knew about it. i got my braces off yesterday and when i got to school this morning, me and my best friend were walking towards him and he turned around and walked the other way. what do i do? hes been avoiding me lately and it kills me. i really like him, but if i have to, ill let him go. why is he doing this? what do i say or do?

sorry its so long. that wasnt my intent.

Maybe he's just scared to be in a relationship with you or maybe he just doesn't think it's a good idea to be in a relationship like he said. He's probably avoiding you because he's not sure how to act around you now, because you love him, and he loves you... yet he doesn't want a relationship. He probably thinks you're mad at him. So go out of YOUR way to see him and tell him that you're cool. It's not like you have to give him up. You can still be friends (even if that's not what you want) and maybe something more when the time is right. Good Luck!

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What is up with PeterAnswers.com? I don't really understand it..

It's just a joke. Where it says to put 'Peter, Please Answer' you put the answer to the question you ask Peter and it writes out 'Peter, Please Answer' for you. So when you ask the question it appears to the person that you're trying to trick that he actually knows. When my friend showed me that website it freaked me out until I found out she was ctually typing in the answer and the website put 'Peter, Please Answer for you.
I thought he actually knew all that stuff.

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okay well this girl has been hanging out with me and my grou of freind for a while and for about 3 months now we have all found out that none of us liked her. We all were just getting along with her just becasue we all thought everyone else liked her but now my freinds are still acting likethat but yettheyl tell me that they are wanting her out of our group what do i do?

That happened to me before. There was a new girl and no one in my group liked her, but she would follow us around all the time because she didn't know anyone else. I thought I hated her, but once I got to know her we actually became really good friends. So give the girl a chance, you may have judged her to quickly. It can be really hard to lose friends or not to have any. I wouldn't suggest kicking her out of your group. If you still don't like her once you get to know her better then maybe you should try introducing her to some new people.


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Hi! First of all, i think it's awesome that you're a singer, i am too =) .

Anyway, i'm the same age as you. I'm involved in a musical and i like one of the actors who is about 19 years old. We talk heaps and he's one of those guys who's always joking around but when he's serious he's very interesting. After the show i doubt i'll see him again. I don't know if i should tell him how i feel or just stay friends. I don't wanna freak him out, seeing as i'm 15. Any advice you have would do, thanks ^_^

It's not really that much of an age difference. You see cebrities dating people 30 years younger or older than them. I've dated a guy three years older than me. If he seems interested in you then go for it. Tell him how you feel or just flirt like crazy. (Joking) You could also just give him your phone number and tell him if he ever wants to call or hang out to call you. That way if he's interested in you he'll call, if he isn't then at least it wont be as awkward as actually telling him how you feel. Or you can always say you need help with your lines (or one of the songs, depends on what musical you're doing) and ask if he can help you after rehearsal.

Keep in mind that it can be very difficult dating an older guy, especially 4 years older.

Anyways, good luck! And I hope everything works out.

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I know i love my boyfriend very much, i would do anything for him & i know he feels the same. The other night i told him i found it hard to love him & i dont know why i said it. I sometimes say things that i dont mean for example that i love him but sometimes i feel i dont but once i have expressed my thoughts i get upset & regret saying it. Do you think this could just be for attention from my bf? i get alot of attention but i would like your opinion on the matter. I have been feeling down lately as my mom is moving 200 miles away with her new partner could this be a cause? please help.

Maybe you're just taking your pent up feelings (directed at your mother) out on your boyfriend. I don't think it's for attention from your boyfriend. I think that you're taking all of your emotions about your mother moving out on him instead of talking to your mother about how you feel.

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well im 13/f and about 3 guys have liked me in my life. One goes to my new school. i thought that here (my first year) i would meet a guy and we would both like eachother and he would ask me out (no guy has asked me out before) and i somewhat got my wish. This guy evan at first i didnt even know his name and he would always talk to me and then he started to grow on me. we would stare at eachother, he would walk to class with me, help me with my things, flirt, ect and still does. SO i really thought wow this is it hes the first guy and i really wanted him to be my boyfriend. He's sweet and cute and smart. Now yesterday everything was going great untill he asked out a girl his guys convinced him to ask out because she liked him and she said yes. So i got mad at him and he tried to talk to me at the end of the day and i just told him leave me alone, i dont want to talk to you, dont bug me, ect. And all of a sudden i just feel so overwhelmed and i didnt know why. I called my mom and i asked if she could pick me up because i just didnt have the energy anymore and i just got so tired and i felt so stupid for actually believing that he liked me and how i wasterd all my time and i just cried and i didnt know why and i didnt know if it had to do something with Evan. I dont know if im ugly. People will come up and tell me, "O you are so beautiful" or your to cute. and im not a nerd i have tons of friends, im nice, im smart, i dont try to hard, im myself, im a fun person, party girl, maybe a little boy crazy but i just feel somthings wrong with me. dont know what. Most of my friends have had a guy ask them out before and they talk about it and i cant say anything. I really liked this guy and he just messed my feelings or somehting i wanted my first kiss too and he literally just breaks my heart. i know its wimpy to cry over a guy but out of all my crushes i really like him the most. its just something about him that makes him different. I have no reason to go to school because i just loved spending time with him. And yea we'll talk but (like today) but its just not the same.i cant do anything i used to do with him because everything i thought was a lie. i dont know what to tell myself. this is really starting to drive me crazy! You cant imagine how much i thought he liked me. Even some of my friends (recently) thought he liked me too. So what should i do?? I dont know. im 13/f. Thanks to the people who answer.

Just because his friends convinced him to ask out a girl that doesn't mean that he doesn't like you. Maybe he just thought you didn't like him, even though you do. And most middle school relationships don't last long anyways. They're not always going to be going out and you can still be his friend. When they do break up make sure he knows that you like him. (If you still do) Sometimes guys don't pick up on flirting, they can be oblivious like that. Don't totally cut him out from your life just because he's dating someone, because if you do then you probably wont have a very good chance with him once they do break up. Try not to center your life around this guy either, sometimes there will be guys you like who don't even care about you. Unfortunately, that's how it works. Good Luck.


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um i screwed a boy 2 weeks ago.. and he pulled out.. but im scared i maybe preg. what is the chance i am.. if i am i dont no what to do.. because if i tell him he will deny it..

Wait until it's time for your period, if you're late then go buy a pregnancy test. If it's positive then go get tested because they can be inaccurate at times.

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Can you get pregnant from dry humping?

It depends on the situation. If you were fully clothed (Like both of you were wearing pants) then no. If you were only wearing underwear and the seamen went through that then yes.

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My parents used to get into serious fights long time ago but they stopped and now they're back. I'm the oldest out of my 2 younger siblings and they're really young. We're not aloud to go outside. What can we do?

When my parents fight I've learned to just stay out of their way and not get into the middle of their fighting. So just stay away from them until they cool down, if you don't they'll find something to yell at you about.

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I read this phrase once and thought it was just a cute phrase but then on Hannah Montana i heard Billy Ray Cyrus singing it. I only remember a few words. The beggining is like:
If we were a movie, id be the best friend

and it ends

and we watch the sunset as it fades to black or something like that. What song is this?

It's called "If we were a movie"

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remember when melissa r cries in the "next pussycat dolls" show? why did s=he cry? please i wanna know!

She said she was thinking about her grandmother, other than that only she knows.

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Okay so for spring break vaca i used individual fake eyelashes, just to make not using makeup easierr.. i kept them on for about 2 weeks, a little less. and as some fell out i would put them back on. When i was takin them all of today it took a lot of my real eyelashes off, andit looks horriblee : ( im really embarassed and upset and i want to use fake ones again, but i dont think that would be good cause then it would make it even worsee.. is there anything i can do? : ( and if you used fake eyelashes did it take your real eyelashes off too

If you want to use fake eyelashes again then make sure not to put the glue on your real eyelashes. If you get it on them then wipe it off before putting the fake eyelashes on or else your real eyelashes will come off along with the fake ones because of the glue.

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So I'm writing a paper for my class and I have to write about what are the steps we have to take to become a lawyer.

Any sites?

Thanks in advance!!

Here's a couple good websites:

http://www.bls.gov/k12/law02.htm

http://www.legalcareersonline.org/how-to-become-a-lawyer.html

And by the way google is a really good search engine.

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is it better to wait a while to make a move on a quiet girl and hope that she will eventually like u and trust you and be patient anf all or sholud u just move on??
please help me coz this is cracking mr up

It depends on how much you like the girl, if you really like her than she should be worth the wait. If you don't like her all that much then move on. The fact that she's quiet means you don't exactly know what she's thinking. So you don't know if she likes you or not, but that doesn't mean she doesn't. So it's all up to you whether or not you want to wait.

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I liked this guy and he said that he loved me and he still says that. I have a bf that I still love that is going to move at the end of hte summer. Well me and this guy that I like (not my bf) decided to wait until next year to go out. That way I don't have to break up with my bf before I have to. Cause me and my bf have to break up before he moves. parents rules. but now this guy that I like has a new gf. At first i didn't really care to much about it cause I knew that he still loved me. but now he told me (not meaning to hurt my feelings) that he's falling in love with his new gf like he DID with me. Well he says that he still loves me and that its never going to change. But I'm worried cause what if he's still going out with her when me and my bf break up and then I find someone that I don't want to give up just like that? I really like this guy but I don't want to break up with my bf right now and I don't want to make him feek like he would have to just give up on this girl that he really cares about for me. Plz help. What should I do?

Your boyfriend is still moving. Don't you think it would be easier to just break up with him now? It doesn't mean you guys couldn't still be friends, besides you said you liked another guy. You don't want to get too close to his current girlfriend if you want to be with him. You don't want to break them up either. If I were you I would break up with my boyfriend and then make sure the other guy I liked knew I was single. Then it would be up to him, but he said that he loved you even if he is falling in love with another girl. That doesn't mean he loves her, or ever will. Good Luck.

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I'm 13.
Me and my bf have been going out for 2 months and total on and off for a year and we havent kissed.
He is a shy guy and the only things he does is put his arm around mea nd hug me everyday. I'm having my 2 best guys friends to talk to him about what he should do to his girlfriend (me) and I dont know if thts bad. But I'm crazy abt him but shoudl i wait for him or just kiss him. PLEASE HELP ME LOTSSSSSSSSSSSSS.

Just kiss him... Make the first move, don't wait for him to do it. He's shy, that doesn't mean he doesn't want to kiss you. So go for it. I don't think having your friends talk to him is a good idea.

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Ok well I had to sqeeze the juice out of a bag of limes. I had clear nail polish on but when I finished sqeezing all the lime juice out, my nails were all clear and the clear nail polish was gone!

And nail polish lasts really long for me. They can last on my nails for atleast 3 months with nothing peeling off!

Is it the lime juice? And scientifically, what happened?

The acid from the juice caused the nail polish to come off. It's probably similar to some of the acids in nail polish remover.

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my boo is going to court tommorrow.. he wanted me to come see him before he went but i couldnt because i have school and i wasnt skipping school for a boy, im not in love with him or anything but im too nice and so i really care about his feelings. he gets mad when i say i cant do 'this or that' or if dont want to do 'this or that'..(little things). i need some advice because i really dont know what to tell him for tomorrow...'good luck', 'it'll be okay' i dont want to sound lame or anything i just dont know what to say to him. by the way he's been to jail more then once and im 15 and hes 17

Why hold on to a relationship with someone you don't love. Especially if he's been to jail more than once. Do you really want to be with someone like that? It also sounds like he may have anger management problems, and that plus the whole law breaking thing is a bad combination. My advice to you is to break up with him, before he pulls you down with him. You may hurt his feelings but this isn't going to be a win-win situation. I hope I helped, and good luck.

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ok so yeah im a fan of avril lavigne but not all her songs so which ones from the new album are the best? thanks

The best songs on the album (to me) are these:

1) Girlfriend

2) The Best Damn Thing

3) Everything Back But You

4) Keep Holding On

5)I Can Do Better

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i have a few questions about belly button piercing. i really like it and i would like to get one. but does it hurt? and everyone says no. but i mean seriously did you feel any pain? even the slightest? i mean seriosuly go back and think. and was their alot of blood? did you see it at all? does it take long? and also once its done.. what happens if i dont change it? because i normally dont cahnge my ears alot so will it get stuck or? and what about child birth? does it get ruined? does it hurt the baby?

1) It only hurts a little, it will be a little sore afterwards though.

2) There is no blood at all.

3) It doesn't take very long to pierce your belly button.

4) While it's healing you should clean it everyday to avoid infection.

5) If you ever decide to have children it will not make a difference. So no, it wont hurt the baby.


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