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my boyfriend and jail
my boo is going to court tommorrow.. he wanted me to come see him before he went but i couldnt because i have school and i wasnt skipping school for a boy, im not in love with him or anything but im too nice and so i really care about his feelings. he gets mad when i say i cant do 'this or that' or if dont want to do 'this or that'..(little things). i need some advice because i really dont know what to tell him for tomorrow...'good luck', 'it'll be okay' i dont want to sound lame or anything i just dont know what to say to him. by the way he's been to jail more then once and im 15 and hes 17
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You sound like a nice person, why are you dating a guy who has been to jail more than once already?
Dating him is a bad decision and will only harm you in the end. I'd recommend not seeing him and finding a better guy.
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sound like he is bad news for you....if you don't love him then i don't seewhy you should go especially if he is goint o be ther a while then you are just going to give him hope when he comes out that you are goin to be there which more than likely if you don't love him you won't.; but jsust tell him that you are sorry but you have a HUGE Test or somthing.
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Why hold on to a relationship with someone you don't love. Especially if he's been to jail more than once. Do you really want to be with someone like that? It also sounds like he may have anger management problems, and that plus the whole law breaking thing is a bad combination. My advice to you is to break up with him, before he pulls you down with him. You may hurt his feelings but this isn't going to be a win-win situation. I hope I helped, and good luck.
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Do you really want to be the girlfriend of a jailbird? Aren't you better than that? He should be worrying about how his very bad decisions are affecting you, and he should be kissing your butt for even standing by him. You should say that you need to start concentrating on your school more and that you can't see him anymore. He has no right to control you with his anger, but he can't unless you let him, so why on Earth are you letting this loser run your life? You could do much better without him. There is a man out there, many in fact, that will treat you better, but only when you accept and believe that you are truly worth it.
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