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i really like him?
i met this guy a while back and we kinda fell for eachother. well, recently, he was calling me like crazy and leaving me sweet voice mail messages and texting me during class. he would come see me between classes and such. however, a couple of days ago, he asked me if i really liked him. and i said "of course i do. i woulndnt have been jacking up my cell bill if i didnt." and i told him that i loved him and he said "i love you too". yesterday, he told me that he doesnt think a relationship is a good idea right now with his grades and such. he hasnt called me since. hes been avoiding me at school (which has been easy for him seeing as i dont go out of my way to see him, he always went out of his way to see me.) and today is my sweet 16 and he knew about it. i got my braces off yesterday and when i got to school this morning, me and my best friend were walking towards him and he turned around and walked the other way. what do i do? hes been avoiding me lately and it kills me. i really like him, but if i have to, ill let him go. why is he doing this? what do i say or do?
sorry its so long. that wasnt my intent.
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Maybe he's just scared to be in a relationship with you or maybe he just doesn't think it's a good idea to be in a relationship like he said. He's probably avoiding you because he's not sure how to act around you now, because you love him, and he loves you... yet he doesn't want a relationship. He probably thinks you're mad at him. So go out of YOUR way to see him and tell him that you're cool. It's not like you have to give him up. You can still be friends (even if that's not what you want) and maybe something more when the time is right. Good Luck!
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He might think you're mad at him because he doesn't wanna be in a relationship. You could always talk to him about. Ask him why he's avoiding you & what's going on. Or maybe ask his friends?
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hmm hes probably shy. and wants things to stay the way they are since he doenst wnat you to pressure him into a relationship.
just tell him its ok he doenst want one. and just be friends. but you should confront him even though its hard. but let him know that you are ok with it/
he probably thinks your mad or something because he doenst want a relationship..
good luckk
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