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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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if you dye your hair, is there any way to get it out before it washes out?

Use head and shoulders, there's also hair dye removers =)

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What is a good line right before u kiss someone. bc im not a brave enough person jsut ot do it i need a line.

Lines are kindda cheesy. Just plant one on him/her.. =)

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whats do most guys perfer a shaved or hairy vagina? im 17 very curious

All depends on the guy I guess. But most guys do like it shaved, or at lease trimed =)

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ok well yeaterday at about like 2a.m. I went driving in town with my cuzine and her older bro (he's only 17) he drove us around and well he was smoking pot in the car so I got totally nervous and I didn't know what to do so I just staid in the car worring my butt off and when I got home at around 10 my dad smelt the pot and asked me if I smoked but I didn't pin it on my cuz did I do the right thing? I rate high:D

Honestly, I don't think you did the right thing. If you didn't feel right being in the car with someone high and driving, you should have called a Taxi or rode with someone else. You should talk to your cousin's older brother and tell him it's not "kewl" to be stoned and drive. My brother got into a big car acidented this year and was in the hospital for a month. He almost die, all because he was stoned and drove home. Don't let anyone you care about get behind the wheel if their drunk or stoned, please.. =)

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i need a new sn but i can't think of one...i am a tall girl and i like o play basketball....can anyone give me an idea?

http://www.quote-a-licious.cjb.net/ Go here and go to "Screen-Name" on the side! =)

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what are some really cool and cute screen names for me? right now my sn is playgirl3478 but i dont like the numbers but i like things that are like playgirl and pimpette and things like that and im also blonde 5 3 105lbs cheerleader, track, smart, hot, etc! help me with some ideas thanx!

L0singGrip, FrshOutDaKitchen, AmericanChild, HottChica, D0ntPushMe, Sizzl3Kiss3s, HoTtNsExYcHiCk, SugarLips, SugarLipsForYou, BabyGirl, xoAdDiCtIveox, SoAddictive, H34rtBr34k3r, L0v3Hurts, Ang3lB4by, CantTouchThis, TooHotToHandle, SugarBaby, Sw33tAsSug4r. You can check out this website, http://www.quote-a-licious.cjb.net/ and just got to "Screen-Names" on the side! Hope I helped =)

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has anyone actually lost belly fat from their stomachs by doing crunches or does it just make u look like u have a 6 pack or w/e

First you have to lose some of the "Belly fat" before you can get a 6 pac. Then by doing crunches they make your tummy more toned!

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whenever i talk with my friends and stuff and they gossip about "ooh so and so got to this base"... im always kind of the one who is wondering... "what does that mean"... like im not SLOW in that department i just wanna know what each base means (no im not talking about baseball)... im not super young, ive heard just different explanations of the bases and i wanna know THE ULTIMATE BASE LINGO. if you catch my draft ;O)... thanks for whoever gives advice!
-signed, catchmeup

1st Base - Frenching. 2nd Base - Feeling. 3rd Base - Fingering. Home - Sex. Hope this helps =)

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ok well my boyfriend wants to have like alot of sex you know and I'm not ready for that yet but once he pushed me when I said no and he yelled at me and just left I don't know why but I'm scared to say no to him and I'm doing sumthing with him tonight I need serious help

If he's pushing you into something you don't want to do, it's called rape. Even if he's your brother, bestfriend or boyfriend, it's still rape. If you don't want to have sex with him, nothing is wrong with standing up for yourself. If he keeps on pushing you into something you don't want to do, simply dump him. He's not worth it, theres way better guys out there hun. Good luck!

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the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :(

Honestly, if I guy wants you to have sex before you go out with him, he's using you. After you have sex with him once, he'll probably want it all the time. A guy like that is so not worth having sex with and he's gunna be taking you virginty away. You should save that for someone you really love and he loves you back. Don't go for this jerk, there's a lot of other guys out there.

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i've been playing the guitar for almost 2 years now and i'm pretty good at it... my friends want to start a band but they need a bass player... i was thinking about becoming a bass player. has anyone here played guitar and then started playing bass? is there a big difference? how hard is it to play? and how badly will i get calisis on my fingers?

I've been playing both guitar and bass for 5 years. There's not really that much of a difference at all. It's really not that hard to play, depending on the songs you will like to learn. About how badly you will get calisis on your fingers, depends on how long you play for. I used to play 3 hours a day, and had really bad calisis and my finger would bleed, so I had to cut down. But, good luck on this hole band thing =)

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Im a 16 year old girl im bi sexual and I have a g/f but I like this other girl she is a really good friend and thats all I want and she knows that, but the other day she was really mean to me we were hanging out thw whole day but then when we went on the bus her and my other good friend started making fun of me for no reason i was so nice to both of them the whole day and for some reason it really hurt, and for some reason i still like her! what should I do to let them know that they hurt me and get our friendship better?

I think you should let her know just how much that really did hurt. If they are true friends, they shouldn't be making fun of you! If they don't understand or keep on making fun of you, stop hanging out with them for awhile. Then, maybe they will both realize you are a good friend and will re-enter your life.

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Me and my best friend have been friends for 10 years and shes really getting on my nerves. She tries to be just like me-she copies everything i do,buys all the same clothes i do even if she doesn`t like them,and whenever i like someone she likes him too-even if i know she doesn`t actually like him. Sometimes i have fun w* her and then other times she just reallii pisses me off.Ugh..what am i supposed to do about her?

I think you should talk to her. Tell her that you don't like it when she copies your styles and likes the same guys as you do. Tell her that everyone should have their own styles, because thats what makes everyone different.

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Hi well my need is to find out who I really like, I halready have a boyfriend and then I met this other guy that I really like now, and then i haven't even heard from my boyfriend for a while then all of a sudden he emails me and starts talking like nuthin happened. what do I do?

Give him heck for not talking to you for awhile. Then just one day he e-mails you like nothing happened. What is that about? Tell him how you feel and ask him why he hasn't been talking to you. Maybe you chould tell him you both need a break. Then your free to do what you want to do. Hang out with this other guy, spend a day with him. Then if you decide that you do like this other guy more then your boyfriend, tell him you don't think it would work out because you like this other guy. Dump your boyfriend, then go for the new guy =)

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i have really thick hair, is there any way to make straightening it not as long so i can get up later but still have time to make it stick straight?

You should get a straight perm. Buy a perm kit at any hair store or shoppers or something. Do what it says on the side of the box but don't put the curlers in! =)

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2morrow im trying out for my hs volleyball team (im a freshman) well i was kinda wondering like what to expect at a tryout esp. a volleyball one.... like do u have to run b4 it or like do sum sort of interview or do u jus go into teams and jus play while the coaches examine u???!!!

It could be different at your school. Your coach could do what my coach does way differently. At my school, you have to run around the gym 10 times, you do sit ups, jumping jacks then push ups. Then you are put into teams and you play. Good luck on your volleyball try outs!

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how long should i wait b4 i tell a girl how i feel about her after she breaks up with someone she really loved.the only reason they broke up was because he was moving to another state. thanx
dan

I think you should give her some time, before you do tell her. You have to remember that she did just break up with her boyfriend, someone she really did love. Try being her friend first and being there for her. Then maybe within a couple of weeks, tell her how you feel.

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Alright guys.. I dont want you to think i'm some kind of hoe.. or pervert.. But.. here goes.. I'm starting to have feelings for this kid... I won't mention a name.. But.. hes 15 I think. He's a friend of my sisters. I know he likes me... and I'm 17.. I dont know what to do! someone! Please help me!!

I don't think your a pervert or a hoe at all. 15 and 17 are fine. Before you two get together (If your plaining on it) just check with your sister to see if it's okay. Good luck =)

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is it realli wrong to date your best friends ex boyfriend? cause this kid likes me..and i realli like him..but i have a feeling my best friend will get mad if i go out with him. cause she gets jealous even if i chill with him! please help soon cause i'm gonna chill with him tonite! i rate high!

I don't think it's wrong to date you bestfriends ex. But, find out if your bestfriend likes him, because it's a hole different story. If she does like him, try to back off a bit and find a new crush. If she doesn't like him, go for it, ask him out! =)

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my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do????

I think you should tell him about you making out with his bestfriend. =) Tell him the truth!

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