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Me and my best friend have been friends for 10 years and shes really getting on my nerves. She tries to be just like me-she copies everything i do,buys all the same clothes i do even if she doesn`t like them,and whenever i like someone she likes him too-even if i know she doesn`t actually like him. Sometimes i have fun w* her and then other times she just reallii pisses me off.Ugh..what am i supposed to do about her?
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choose whether you want to have SOME FUN or always be pissed and annoyed of her. I mean you guys can stay friends, but dont let her be like you. That doesnt make you your own person since you have someone JUSt like you. Tell her that you want her to get her own ideas, diffrent clothes and she shouldnt like the same guys as you. A true best friend DOESNT do that. My best friend used to, but i finally showed her that its not cool. ALSO dont ask her for help with guys or tell her what you got at the mall! If you ask her for help to talk to the guy you like, she could end up flirting with him and make him like her! trust me from experience. Also the mall thing, if you dont tell her that gives you a chance to wear it before she does so then that way people've seen you in it and then they see her and are like gosh she always copys her best friend. Eventually when ur friend gets her own life she will want her own taste in guys and her own sense of style! things will change! -aMaNdA<3* (hope i helped)
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sit down nd talk to her bout not copyin yooh all the time but say it nice cause yooh dont wna lose her as your friend .. so jus talk to her i hope it helps [ . megan . ]
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i think u should talk to her bout livin her own life..
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Maybe You sould talk to her, and tell her how you feel and that how you like it when she is more her self. maybe she just scard being who she is and maybe you show her that.. I hope I help.. It happend to me once when I was younger I was try be someone else that person like me i copy her becouse i wasnt know who i was. but now that my friend talk to me and told me how much she like it better i am my self
hope i help
Amanda
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I think you should talk to her. Tell her that you don't like it when she copies your styles and likes the same guys as you do. Tell her that everyone should have their own styles, because thats what makes everyone different.
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she could be insecure of herself and she prolly looks up to u..which is most likely why shes doin what shes doin..but u should of course talk to her..see whats up be like ya i noticed that..u like alot of the same stuff i do..but now it seems like ur TRYING to like the same stuff i do..and ask her bout it..maybe u do stuff that bothers her to..if u want to keep this friendship goin 'talk' juss have a talk about what one another does that bothers ya..and try to patch em up
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Maybe you should talk to her about it, and explain to her that it really bothers you, what she's doing. Tell her you want to be her friend, but you don't see how you can be when she gets on your nerves like this.
I had kind of the same problem at one point. I confronted my friend about it, we fought for awhile, then fixed it all up.
Communication is key to EVERY relationship.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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