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bigger boobs. thats what i want. im pretty flat and i know that im kinda pretty right now but i just need some .. boobs.
okay i know like pretty much all the tricks but like.. idk if i can do any.. like does any one wear two bras to make there boobs bigger.. like on this site? and umm well i would never get a boob job... im 13 haha. =] (im a 30 A) and uhhh. yeah. just tell me a WHOLE BUNCH of ideas even tho i know alot already =] thankss. (link)
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Child, you don't want bigger boobs! You should be lucky to be flat. Let me tell you the benefits of boobs and then disadvtages.
Pros-
1. You get to wear a larger size bra
2. You get perverts staring at your boobs
3. You get to play with them (don't ask)
Cons-
1. Sagging
2. Backpains (horrible)
3. Periods (they get bigger when you have your period)
4. Perverts staring at your boobs (they cna be cons and pros)
5. You hardly can find your bra size! (Depends what size you are. Read this question below because this girl is way unhappy. I understand you want bigger boobs, but don't we all if we are small? I've noticed there are a lot of peole that are A cups, you just don't meet them always. Be happy with your boobs because it makes who you are! I know I'm no help, but I want you to see that boobs aren't everything in a world...they might seem like it, but they aren't!
- (15/F and I wear a 34A...it isn't a big difference from a 30A)
I was a 32d until over a year ago when I went on the pill, and suddenly I don't even know what my size is anymore because everywhere I go say I'm something different! at one place im 32dd, at another I'm 30e, somewhere else i'm in f cups!! I used to think they were getting too large when I was a 32d but now I would kill just to have them back! none of my bras fit properly, just before my period they bloat up so much it gets painful to wear any of my bras! They feel soo big and i'm dreading the summer as I wont feel confident in any strappy tops and wont want to go out, I feel like they're taking over my life! breast surgery isn't really on the cards at the moment as I'm 18 years old, but are there are excersises or anything I can do to help
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i think my girlfriends dad sexually abuses her. her parents are divorced and she has five older brothers but they all live on their own since there alot older than she is. i went over there for dinner one time because she said she was scared but she wouldnt tell me why and the whole meal her dad kept making perverted comments about her chest size. shes like a 36d which is nice. her dad was like wow molly your tits look huge i just wanna grab them. and she kept telling him to stop and saying not now dad please. and he kept asking me when i was gonna fuck her next. and he thinks she would be good in bed. she kept getting really embrassed. then all of a sudden he did grabb her and then she started crying and her dad told me to leave but she looked so scared i couldnt leave her. i took her to my house. and i kept asking her did he always do this to you and she wouldnt answer me. i dont know what to do. do you think he rapes her and sexually abuse her. thank you in advance. (link)
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There is a chance, and she's probably afraid someone is going to tell on her. Her father probably threatened her. I think she you should file a sexual abuse on a minor (if she's under 18). Report thise for sure because it's against the law. First, ask her at your house and talk about what he does. Get her to spill because this can be used against him in the future. Ask her what he does to her. This site explains the stuff in oregon but some of it works across the usa so glance at it and you can call the police on it. Do something before it gets worse!
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Soo, what can you tell me about ram air hood packages, i love the sound, but what exactly happens when it "kicks in", and is it worth it? (link)
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it's bullshit. ram air doesn't mean a damn thing. see the thing about it is it's supposed to act like a hoodscoop does.and a hoodscoop takes air in, and allows it to flow better into the air intake. problem is most air intakes either have a box around them and direct air flow. or they are open to the air but the air flows to them regardless of a hoodscoop. so in the end what does raim air do? not a whole log. because all it is, is a hoodscoop. and all that means is it allows direct flow of outside air to the intake.
true ram air would be a turbo. a turbo takes in outside air, cools it off, and then pushes it dorectly into the engine. that would be a ram air system of sorts. and when a turbo kicks in (usually around 2500-4000 RPMs for the most part) you'll feel a sudden speed burst and acceleration increase.
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ok..well..i feel really stupid and embarrassed to be asking for advice on this one, but i dont know how to tell my mom i want a bra. cause i wear sports bras...but umm..i need like a real one. haha. and me and my mom arent really open and we dont talk about things like this. and id feel so dumb telling her i wanted one, let aloe go shopping with her..er...
thanks :) (link)
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I had a difficult time asking my mother for a bra, but don't worry! I can help! First of all, your mother should be open and talk about girl stuff. She's a girl and your a girl. That's the best position to be. Plus, she's your mother! Even though you feel awkward about it, talk to her. Mothers tend to freak out that some girls aren't ready for it such as my friend's mother. However, eventually every mother gets a bra for her daughter no matter how difficult it is. It's a girl thing! If you don't have the guts to ask her, you can show her. When your shopping, walk to the bras and look through it. Don't worry about the others! It took me a little while to overcome all the people but remember, the girls looking for bras need as it as much as you do. I understand you don't want to go shopping with her, but your in this stage where you need your mother more than ever! If you have money, you can go shopping with a close friend who will understand or if you have a sister, talk to her. Talk to any girl who you trust (If you have any). If you don't, your choices are talk to you mom, shop with your mom, shop it for yourself. Or you can wait until time when your mother finally shops for you...trust me, she will. Good luck! And don't be nervous or you will chicken out to ask her!
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well, I'm 15/f and I have braces (on my teeth :p). I never had a bf. Is that why? are braces a turn off for guys? (link)
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I am the same age and am in the same condition. No, boys aren't turned off of you because your wearing braces! Today, so many people are wearing braces, it's a fashion statement. Hard to believe but trust me girlfriend. There is a chance the guy you like has braces or even his friend. Everyone knows at least one person who wears braces! Braces are not a turn off for guys and I'm 100% sure.
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How do so many people get to go back stage at concerts and meet bands. (link)
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You buy tickets to see your favorite band. Normally the ticket can be sky high, it just depends on the band and location. Those people who get back stage have expensive back stage tickets. You can normally get them when they are on sale, but you will be needing a shiny penny for that! If your going back stage, I promise you will have the greatest experience.
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well, im looking for it.
are there any websites that would help me out for a local purchase?
i live in Saint Louis, Missouri, so could you give me some reputable sites, craigslist and ebay are already considered, and im looking for more. (link)
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89 was the last year of the iroc. 90-92 they just had the bodystyle but not the iroc badges. what you should do is go for an 88-89 iroc with the 350. if it's a 305 leave it, they're crap. the 350 is the one you want. but what you do is go to autotrader.com and search there for one near you. you'll find one. i guarantee it. i wanted an iroc for a while myself, great cars if you ask me.
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im 14/m.
I met this girl and we got to 3rd base on the first day i met her. was that bad if I want to have a meaningful relationship with her that's not all about sex? (link)
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thats sweet that you want a meaningful relationship =]
ladies like thattt
and also, you can totally have a meaningful relationship with sex and everything
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what types of tampons are there
i know there's plastic and card board is there any other kind
if there is which one is best to use so you won't get tss (link)
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you can get tss from any tampon if its left in too long
i prefer the cardboard tampons becuase they will decompose back into the earth whereas the plastic ones will just add to the landfills
cardboard ones arent that uncomfortable at all... but if you are beginning to use tampons, like for the first time, than i suggest using a plastic one till you undesratnd tampons better, than switch to cardboard =]
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whats a one nioght stand? (link)
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hooking up with someone and you dont plan on having a relationship or anything
like it was a one night thing (stand)
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I have a hard time inserting a tampon. I'm 14/F and I have a slim body. My mom bought me Slimfits but I only manage to get half of it in. Swimming is about to start and I will need to wear a tampon during my period. I was about be able to do it further a 6 months ago but now I have a hard time doing it! Plus, I have horrible cramps on my first period so I avoid trying to insert a tampon. What can I do? (link)
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what you need to do is just relax
if your muscles are all tight, than the tampon wont go in, ever
so take a few deep long breaths, and then just relax all your muscles and it should go in without problems
also, if your having problems relaxing your muscles, than try inserting it while sitting down on the ground, and youll relax more naturally
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14/f
i love your advice column :]
but anyways, me and my boyfriend
have been dating for almost 3 weeks.
but weve been best friends for a couple of years now.
and i know the next time i see him were going to kiss, but i think it may turn into a makeout.
weve kissed many times already, im just soo nervous about the makeking out part. becuase i guess my tounge isnt long? hah, i dont knwo how to explain it. like the thing [i think its like skin] that is attached to your tounge is like a little further up so i cant stick my tonge out as far. it sorta only reaches out like an inch or a little more. so i was wondering if thats going to effect anything when we makeout. im just really nervous that it will. so do you think it will effect anything? thanks in advance and sorry about the length. (link)
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so when your french kissinggg, you dont want to shove your tongue down his throat! so dont wrorry if its not 'long" you only want to stick out your tongue about an inch
you dont have to worry about it though =]
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Can anyone help me to predict when I will get my period?
Info.
F/15 -going to be in 10th grade
dicharge: about 1 1/2 years
Mom started: summer going into 8th grade
Dad's side: late bloomers
Bra size: 32A
Arm pit hair: none
Pubic hair: much
will i get arm pit hair after i start or before?
please any estimate is good!
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When will my breasts get bigger. My mom isn't small and my dads side is just late but not really small. Just want to be bigger!
any brands of bras I should try to help me look bigger in tee shirts and low cut ones? (link)
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You should get your period soon. If you have discharge and your breasts are developing. Normally your period will come 2 years after you start growing breasts. I'm like you..15/F but going into 9th and wear a 34A and don't have armpit hair. Some people don't have a lot of armpit hair...and thank god! armpit hair is disguting...trust me you don't wanna have hair there. have u seen it on men...ewewewew. wear a push up bra for low cuts and regular for plain o tees. i do it and it's fine! my estimate for your period could be soon. your in puberty and you probably will get it within the next 6 months. if you don't get it before your 16, talk to the doctor. later bloomers can as late as 16 but don't worry about average people...who's really normal? everyone is unique!
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I do have boobs. But they are really small. And I have bras that make my boobs look bigger. But I want to know how to make my boobs look bigger in a swim suit. But I have a one piece not a two piece. So i asked my mom for a two piece because they come with padding. but she said no. how can i make my boobs look bigger in a one piece bathing suit? (link)
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My mom said no to padded swim suits but explain that you like them. She might say you don't need it but explain how you feel. Moms should know! Also, I've seen 1 piece bathing suits with padding already! Just find your size. I see them at Kohls and kohls have wonderful bathing suits!
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This may be a dumb question, but I just now started to wear the bras with cups and how do you wash those? Wouldn't a washing machine damage them? (link)
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I wash mine with the other colors like regular clothes. Comes out fine. They might be a little twisty after the washer but after you put it on...they work like a charm...the same as before except cleaner and fresher..
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hi
im bra size 32A
and all the bras that are 32A in womans and juniors department have to much padding in them.
i cant buy bras from the kids scention cause they only go up to 32A but thier really tight arround the prat that goes arround me.
i want bras that dont overpad, cause you can tell a diffrence when i wear sportsbras and cuped. and i dont want to look fake.
and please dont say just to only wear sports bras, cause i only wear them to sleep or exersize, and im not comftrable wearing them arround cause i dont like how they make my breasts look. =/
umm any ideas? (link)
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Your my twin!
I understand everything your saying! I wear a 34A (No difference honey!) and I have a hard time with the padding also. I hate kid department because they are cheap and useless for me! I'm not going to say sport bras because I only wear them at night (you gotta have your support 24/7).
Each time your at a store, go look for bras. There are tons of stores that have soft cup which have no padding at all! Kohls have bra sizes that go up to 34B so you can find your size there. Personally, I always have space between my breasts and my bra...hate it but can't go a size down or it's way to small! Target has good bras but I think Kohls you will get your best shot. I wore a 32A and they were in kids..they were fine and dandy. You can also shop elsewhere...every store will have bras (clothing stores) so take a look and try them on...look for soft cup. they aren't training bras and they don't even look like them. they give support with that annoying padding.
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okay so i'm not going to deny that i have really small boobs for my age. im 16 and im a 32A but i wear push up bras and im fine with that and whatever.
the problem is, when there's nothing there, a pushup bra gives you NO cleavage whatsoever. my sister, however, doesn't even need a push up bra and she has pretty good cleavage.
how can i stop this jealousy? its my YOUNGER sister and its really weird going to the beach. i mean shes already taller than me, now she has bigger boobs than me? (link)
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I totally understand. I have a friend that is going to out grow me in everything! You can stop this jealousy by accepting who you are! I'm 15 with 32A and I'm not really happy either...But I manage! I see kids younger than me that are wearing larger size bras that tower over me and everything...there is always 1 thing that your not happy with! I understand about the beach thing...but i rather be flat than pervs staring at my boobs...disgusting and they culd be OLD! Watch out for your sister...there will be strange guys hitting on her and tell her there stupid! To overcome the jealously is to love who you are and to accept who you are! Your unique and your probably have a loving family with a great life...what else do you need?
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Well im 13/f. Umm.. this is kinda embarresing but is there anyway to make my breasts grow faster? Cause im kinda "flat". I dont even wear a bra with cups. I heard of training bras but im not sure what they look like, ( i dont go t thsoe departments) and I heard sports bras are okay. Help anyone?
Many Thanks :] (link)
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Don't worry! My aunt didn't grow boobs until she was 15! Of course, you can't just stop worring. I worry about my boobs! You will blossom! It could be within a few months and after you start, your on a roll. When I first began, I wanted to wear a bra to cover up or some people like my friend does it because it makes them feel comfortable. However, she doesn't have any and she doensn't even wear them because she thinks they are way to uncomfortable. It's your choice. You can begin with training bras that just slip on. Sport bras are great also. To make your breasts grow faster...doubt it but the only thing they can grow is time!
Good luck!
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15/m
ok
well my best friend christopher and i have made a bet that we will both have girlfriends by halloween. well our high school football season is coming up (we go to an all-guys school) and it's basically where all the girls go to meet guys, plus mixer season is coming up too so that will help. but does anyone have any advice for me? i'm not just trying to get a girlfriend for the sake of getting a girlfriend, if that's what you're thinking. i am actually looking for a good relationship! i just wanted some help!
thanks
s.m. (link)
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Dress nice and act like a gentlemen. Girls enjoy a gentlemen that has good manners. Also, girls like it when you are yourself. You might have some flaws, but atleast your not trying to be someone else. Enjoy yourself and don't be nervous! If your nervous, hang out with your friend. If you see a nice girl or a pretty girl, walk up to her and open a conversation but nothing stupid. If I was that girl, I wouldn't like a guy coming up to me and saying how pretty I look...is that the only way he came up to me?! BE YOURSELF!
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ok...this might sound like a really stupid question but i really want to know...how do you know if you like someone....i mean...i know you have this feeling and stuff but how do you really know and how do you know if they like you back??? (link)
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Yeah, I agree it's a stupid question. How do you know if you like someone? Duh! It depends on each girl. I'll explain how I feel. When I like a guy, I'm normally nervous around him. I don't want to act stupid or anything around him but you really want to talk to him. You talk about him a lot and you think he's hot/cute. It's harder to know if he likes you. If he talks to you a lot and he wants to be around you. Also guys can insult you becuase they have no other way. You can always ask...it hurts if they don't like you but you get 50/50! Better to know then to let it go!
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