about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

i have a lot of guy friends and less girl freinds and its been like that for like my whole life and im like not the tomboy type and im like girly as everyone saya. i have girl freinds like a lot but i have more guys. what does taht mean? sometimes i think taht girls dont liek me cuz im like too boyish but everyone says im not? then wat does that mean?
13/f

Dont worry about that!! Sometimes I like to hang out with my guy friends more then my girl friends only because guys dont cause drama && start shit lol. Just dont worry!! Its good to have lots of guy friends!! =)

[view]

what do you need to do to get attention from a guy that youve liked for like ever?
im 13/f and i like a 15 yr old guy
thankz

Dress nice, do your hair, make-up nice. Be outgoing,sweet, and kind of hyper. Talk to him!

[view]

well im asking about phone sex...what would classify as phone sex? just talking dirty and getting both people really excited or something else? thanks in advanced!

Yeah in other words thats cybering. Its just like what you would say during sex and what things you would do to that person. You can also do it online.

[view]

I'm sorry if this sounds gross but..w/e, ok when grooming below how do you get rid of bumps?

That usually happenes if you dont use shaving cream or if you dont use enough. Dont shave upwards shave down..and do it slowly. After that just put lotion on and keep doing it. Also dont use dull razors. Make sure you have a clean new one each time.

[view]

is it safe to get a bath during a lighting storm?
i need to know now

No. Just dont do it. Wait until its over.

[view]

I have these friends of mine. They were my best friends. Even though we go to different schools, I still spend lots of time with them. I really loved them, no matter what happened between us. Some people said that I was so stupid that I trusted them so bad that I have never thought bad things about them.
Few days ago, one of my friends came to me and told me that all of my friends were talking bad things about me. I did not trust him, of course, cause I believed that my friends would not do such a thing to me.
Then, when I checked my e-mail, I found a message for me. It was all bad things about me. It was from my friends. I was so shock that I spend my time crying with my boyfriend. My boyfriend, which was my closest best friend too, told me that even though my friends hated me, he would stay with me. But actually, his words did not calm me down. I still worried about my friends. I did not hate them, and I would never do, but I could not forget what they said about me. Now, I'm avoided and hated by my friends. And they avoid my boyfriend in their school too!! I really don't know what to do... Please help me!!!

-brokenheart girl-

Oh my gosh.. your friends are @#$(&$@! Thats just really ignorant of them. They were never your really good friends to begin with. You can NEVER trust anyone but your family. You can never trust your friends,who ever no matter how close you are. && I learned that the hard way. But anyways, I know its really hard for you and you really cant forget about it but you need to try. They are making a mistake tho. Send them a e-mail back and just say... "I`m not going to say anything like this to you guys. I thought you were my friends but I guess I was wrong about that. What did I ever do to you to make you say all of these things?" You all will get over it sooner or later. These things happen then they will end up saying sorry and they didnt mean it. Good luck hon!

[view]

hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
xxXxxX

I dont think you should worry about that. You love him no matter how old he is and thats the important thing. Dont listen to what other people say if they think its wrong or weird just do whatever you feel is right.

[view]

rate high
going to new skool need new looks
how do u get rid of a big nose w/out surgery
thanx and rate

The best way to not make your nose look big is to focus on another feature on your face. Lets say your eyes or your lips. Make sure when people look at you that they will be able to see that. Make your eyes/lips scream for attention. So when people look at you they wont look straight at your nose but they will look at your eyes or something because it stands out. There really isnt any other way to make it look smaller. Good luck!

[view]

I know not to trust anyone on the internet. But what are ways to find out he is a normal, nice guy? I'm not giving out any information, i'm not that stupid. But how can I get proof from him?

The best thing to do is if you acaully found out yourself. He might act different at times. His personallity can change just like any other persons. Keep talking to him and see how he is && if hes being nice and polite then good. It might take some time to acually see how his personality really is but thats fine. So try to meet him && keep in touch a lot.

[view]

I read a question about Applesauce on here. Is it a program? Can someone please explain what it is and what it does and how you get it?


I have applesauce && its a program for AIM. It lets you choose more colors without having to do all the color codes. I love it tho! Go here to download it. It takes like less then 5 seconds.
http://fileforum.betanews.com/detail/Applesauce/987092859/1

[view]

Okay. Well, I just started up my xanga today. I find a really cute layout, but when I put it on my xanga, the top part is at the bottom. And where my entrys are, they're at the top. Check it out if you don't understand :) http://www.xanga.com/shakeitlow Would you happen to know how to fix this? Or change it around? I'm so lost, haha.

Well go to look and feel and then where it says Header put Input your own header HTML. It happened to me before.

[view]

Sorry, i didn't know what category to put this under. lol, okay my question is, if you dont know how to put a tampon in, and you're NOT on yor period. Can you still practice to stick one in you? Because I'm going to a party soon and I should be getting my period soon. And I'm going to have to swim. And I just need to know how to put a tampon in. So could I practice, while I'm not on my period? What would it do?

Ahh its better not to! So I advise you not to do that! && I cant really tell or explain to you how to put a tampon on... you just need to read those directions and I`m pretty sure that they have pictures as well! Just stick it in there! Lol good luck hon!

[view]

Is 13 old enough to have a boyfriend...not like pair off and go out on an actual date or anything...but to really like a boy and have a first kiss or sumthin...it's not like I want to, but when I see kids in my grade kissing and holding hands and stuff and I'm just curious to whether it's right or if it's silly or if it's age-appropriate...?

Of course its appropriate! Thats actually the age all this sorts of stuff starts to happen! I mean just DONT HAVE SEX OR NETHING! lol but I`m pretty sure you kno better than that! Good luck! && its definitely appropriate!

[view]

ok im growing out my hair and i want it to flip out like will it do it on its own or what do i need to do? please help me in a TIME to look hot.

Okay if your hair is curly you will most likely have to straighten in and when you are straightening it....straighten it out....but if your hair is already straight then it will most likely flip out on its own...yet I always like to do it with a straightener just b/c it tends to look better and HOTTER ...but if you get layers in your hair then it'll flip out on its own for sure! I suggest if your hair is just 1 length , get it layered on the bottom so that way it'll be easier! I hope I helped! Good luck! Look hott!

[view]

theres this guy. and i think i like him but im not sure.. i mean i think about him all the time and i cant wait to see him. do i like him? i dont think i do.. but i dont know.. do you think i like him?

I think that you like him but you're trying to convince yourself that you dont b/c your afraid to be closer with him or maybe you two are just really good friends but yes...I think you might have a bit of a crush on him...but thats ok! Give it a try and if it doesnt work out...theres alays friendship! Good luck!

[view]

sorry this is kinda personal but is it normal for one of your nipples to be a lil swollen/puffy than the other? sorry but i was just really concerned and ill rate you high if you can help me and give me advice

Oh its pefectly normal. Dont worry about it! && at this age...there is no way that you can have cancer or anything so you'll be fine! Dont worry too much! i promise!

[view]

How do you delete answers on the feedback?

You cant delete feedback but you can delete the question.

[view]

i have the hicups what should i do to get rid of them please help i really really need it and i need it bad because i have them for like fifteen hours

This might sound weird but if you take some water and put your head upside down and swallow it it gets rid of them. Do that about 2 times. My science teacher told me to do that and it worked.

[view]

my leg/hip cracks wen i move it sometimes..its annoyingggg anyway i can get it to stop?! please

I dont think so mine cracks like that all the time! I have no idea why. Its normal I guess.

[view]

I dont know why i feel so hurt by my boyfriend. I live in florida he lives in pensavainla we promised not to date anyone except each other this year until we see each other next summer. Every time i send him an email or write him a note and he doesnt respond my heart crumbles. its said that distance makes the heart grow fond but being away from him is killing me. I dont know what to do. I never felt like this before I love him soo much! Please Please help. Im tired of crying myself to sleep.
xoxoLexixoxo

Give it some time. Maybe he has been pretty busy lately or something happened with him computer. Why dont you try calling him and see if he answers? Dont give up on him yet. Send him another e-mail telling him how you feel and everything and he will understand. Dont think of bad things. Just try to be happy. His computer probablly got messed up or something, but he will talk to you. Dont worry.

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker