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why won't facebook let me delete a picture or make it my default. i can delete all my other ones, just not the one i want and the one i want to set as my default. whats wrong with this? (link)
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your question is a little confusing, but if you want to have a profile picture, it cant be deleted. if you dont want to have any, than just dont have a profile pic
http://hs.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1223791389
^if you need more help =]
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hi i have had bulimia for 3 years now, my family thought i had given it up lastyear but i havent. I have got better over time, i can go several days eating full meals without being sick, however, i realisei have a serious problem and i can't go on living my life like this, i would rather be fat than have to suffer through this any longer. The problem is, i really don't know where to start or who to tell? i feel embarassed ans ashamed. (link)
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http://www.awarefoundation.org/resources/eating_disorder_hotlines.aspx
great plcae to start
i hope you can get over your sickness good luck =]
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okay i have tried to talk to this guy i like but everytime i try to say something the only thing coming out of my mouth is drool... and like everyone knows but him, i dont know how but its true...and when i didnt want him to know everyone would have killed to tell him, now that i finally dont care if he knows, everyone else is getting cold feet. and dont get me wrong i could walk up to him and tell him but there is this girl madison who seems to be one of those girls who hang out with guys and are really clingy to them, ya know. and i dont know if they are just really good friends or if she likes him. but i know he isnt dating anyone. im just nuts about this guy, and im not gonna say nothing yet but everyone says it sounds like i have really fallen for this guy, if ya know what i mean. *hint hint* and i dont ever talk to him but i know him from bits and peices i percieve through other people... so what should i do about all this? i wanna tell him but i always loose my breath :( ..... (link)
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I understand how clingy people are to guys. It happens at my school; way too much! Anyways, if your desperate for this guy, then go for it. Clingy girls like that are normally girlfriend or just creepy people that everybody hates. If your guy doesn't date, then Madison isn't his girlfriend. I understand how you are with him; same with me. I can't say anything at him and harldy even look at him (too scared). All of this leads to rejection! Anyways, when he's alone (try to get hime alone), try to talk to him. Say simple words like hello. Hello isn't a hard word. Or you can say "hey". Even easier word! if he wants to talk to you, you can normally talk back. When a guy is intersted in you, you should be able to respond quick and easily questions. like yes and no. sounds silly, but you haveta be there; hard to explain. If he's never by himself, just talk to him with anytime. If he's a nice guy and hangs out with girls, he won't be rude. (unlike my guy).
Good Luck!
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Here is my problem I am twenty five years old and I haven't had a boyfriend yet and I was just wondering why that it I mean I don't get it I am friendly, caring, honest, I respect everybody, I'm understanding, and I'm a good listener. (link)
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Although I'm younger than you, I'll try my best to help you. I'm 15 and I haven't gotten a boyfriend so I know how you feel. Not having a boyfriend makes you feel like an outsider. My homecoming is coming up and I don't have a date; it sucks. Now back to your story. If your a nice girl, you will get a boyfriend; it takes time. Probably the right guy is slowly coming towards you, it takes a little while. Anyways, your 25 so you don't need to go running for marriage. However, it's a possibilty that your not showing people your available. You need to be adventerous and out there so see who's potential. Flirt alittle and don't be scared to.
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This guy and I have a great connection. I feel very strongly for him, just as he does for me. But, he is conflicted about us being together, or even feeling this way for that matter. He is unsure if it is the right thing.
We do not have a choice but to see eachother everyday because he is the Asst. Manager at my job. (The twist)
I feel like this could be an excellent opportunity to take up and in the end, it could be very beneficial.
He decided to retreat for the night to collect his thoughts. I do not know how I should take this. Tomorrow, if his decision is to back off, I would not get mad, but what could I do to keep my heart from being torn...? I really, really feel for this man.
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First, doesn't the age difference bother you? My cousin was in the same position. She was 17 and her boyfriend was 27. If he decides to back off, I think you should back off. I understand you have feelings for him, and I bet you do. However, a relationship like this never turns out beneficial. The advice I could give you is to take walk a different path than he is. To keep your hear not being torn is slowly forget about it.
Good Luck!
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the other night i was fingered for the first time. i don't know if my friends saw, or if they know or not but i haven't said anything to them and they haven't said anything to me. i always tell my friends this kind of stuff and i kind of feel uncomfortable telling them now because i always said i would never get fingered and then i did... so what should i do if it comes up and they are there? (link)
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If you tell your friends everything, they should understand! Even though you said you won't be fingered, doesn't mean you will never will. There are things we say that we don't actually do. It isn't bad, and just tell them that. If it comes up in a conversation, then just act normal and tell what really happen. Best to be honest than lie your heart out.
Good Luck!
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ok. i guess i sitll kinda am a little girl in some ways. i mean. that game webkinz? i like love that game. and i still like playing school occasionaly. [only in the winter though] but like, im not immature. like i dont go talking about how i got a new webkinz or something. and i dont like, act like a little girl. i mean, its just stuff i do when im bored. so is that bad?
i mean, like it doesnt affect my personality with friends and stuff. im just really girlie. i guess. (link)
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Personally, I don't think it's horrible. Everybody has a week strength and strong strength. Everyone has some secerts that are embarassing, but that makes up someone. If someone doesn't have anything embarassing, that person is probably dead. I don't now what Webkinz is, but you can still play it or play school. 2 years ago I use to play school with my younger friend. However, not to burst your bubble or anything, it might be time to grow up soon. There are things you need to move on, like trick or treating. My sister is 18 and is very immature. Its best to mature early so you won't be an immature adult. Your still young however, you have a few more years to mature, you know what I mean. Anyways, sorry if I didn't answer your question...
Good Luck!
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how do you get a shy guy to become sexual with you? like are there any moves or hints i can make? (link)
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You can show him porn to visulize the performence. This actually helps. Also, you can let me read books about it so he can understand how to please his lover.
Good luck!
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okay i already asked a question about this before, but now i have another question. the other day when my bf and i were fighting he grabbed me and started shaking me. so my mom is like totally freaking out about it. she says if he's doing this at 13, its just gonna get worse and he's gonna end up being an abusive wife beater. but my dad says the opposite. he says that my bf is just immature now and hasn't learned how to control his temper, but he'll probably learn how as he gets older. (its not like my parents think we're gonna get married or anything... they're just talking about it in general). so who do you think is right? is this a sign that he's gonna get worse, or is he just immature and he'll get better? and btw he does get really mad sometimes but this is the first time hes ever done something like that. (link)
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At 13, he could just be immature...but i think that you should talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. If this happens more often and you let it go it could progress. If he gets mad at something for a stupid reason, dont try to grope on the situation and like beg him for forgiveness. Even get mad to if you need to! :-) GoOd LuCk!!!!
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ok hey again. 13/f im about 5ft 3in.
whats about average? and whats like too skinny? (link)
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5'3 should be like 110 for a 13 yr old girl
calculators may say something different, but thats wat i think
when i was 13 i was like 90 i was realllyyy skinny
so id say like 100 would be a good wieght, because its slim
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i'm 15/f, 5'5" and 130-135 pounds. I'm pretty athletic and have plenty of muscle, so i know i'm not fat, but i can't make myself stop over eating! I'll be fine all day and then when i get home i eat way too much for dinner and dessert. I feel sick, but for some reason i have no will power to stop!
please give me tips on how to stop
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~Athough you are athletic enough already, go outside and be active for a while until bed
~Watch tv
~Chew gum
~suck on like mints and stuff
~have something healthy
~Eat pretzels, and drink coffee or tea (or water!)
If you are still having trouble, which i dont think you will :-) then be EVEN more active so that you can burn off what you eat
GoOd LuCk!!!
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Hey i just wanted to know something...
I saw on one of the questions you said you were an expert on grinding....
I have grinded before, but i am not sure if i was doing it right.
Firstly, where do i put my hands when we are grinding?
Secondly, i always see people like doing other types of moves, such as dipping low and stuff, all i know how to do is just regular grind, how do i do the other stuff? What does the guy do when i do this? wouldnt he be confused?
Thanks, videos would be nice too =D (link)
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alrighttt so basically i just went through my entire column and typed in grinding
and these were the MOST RELEVANT
so i hope they help you
but if you still have questions than you can deffinantly ask again!
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=489650
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=487034
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=480419
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=511416
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=478725
as for videos just search grinding on youtube
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Hi, i am 14 and i have just started high school two weeks ago. I am in a new school, and only a few of my friends are here with me. I have some new good friends and i know my way my around the school. I have a problem though. In my math and drama class, i only know about two people. Everyone else in the class is friends with eachother and hang amongst themselves. My friend and I are alone, while everyone else is in their groups, talking and everything. We would try and sit and meet them, but they are not good people. Almost all the girls are bitches and the boys, well their always talking about sports or girls. I dont know, we seem like such loners in the class, but we really dont want to be involved with bad people, we are way smarter then that. That is in my drama class. Now, in my math class, i know about two people but they sit ahead of me and i sit around the back like a loner while everyone sits and talks with their old friends. Please, i need some adivce! What should i do? Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you
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for drama if they arent good people then dont worry about it
as long as you have a friend it should be fine
most of my classes are with people i have no idea who they are, but i always have one friend i can talk to (and not htat im a loner ha im like the farthest thing from that..)
and in math, just talk to people around you! just try it, and if they aren't great ask for a seating change, and you dont have to wrory about it because math isnt a class where you do a lot of talking anyways
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hey, is masturbating fun for a girl? also, how many different places are there "down there" where you can stick it in on a girl? thanks (link)
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it can be fun for some girls i cant speak for all
and theres like 2 places down there, if you include anal sex. otherwise, theres only the vaginaa
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hey f/13
what is a good weight for a 13 year old female? (link)
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it depends on your height
but id say like 115
but if you tell me your height ill give you a better answer =]]
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does not staring your period always mean your pregnat (link)
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think about this if your a virgin and you didnt get your period... than you cant be pregnant
anyways if you did have sex buy a pregnancy test but keep in mind that periods can be late for up to a few weeks
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Okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and everything is going really good.
but well we have been trying to kiss for the last week and well im ready for it and i told him i could kiss him but he said he wants to be the man...but evertime we are about to do it he backs off and we sit around joking about how we cant do it..
does it mean anything bad or....
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It isn't a bad thing. Some guys are self-conscience because they are the man. The man does everything from asking them out to kissing. From your descriptions, you've been with him for a while and that's good. Best to date for a while before kissing. It seems like your ready to show affection. If he doesn't kiss you, then you kiss him! I understand that he is the man, but come on! If he was the man, he would already kiss you. Kiss when he leasts expects it. Maybe he will not get so shy around it after you kiss him. When you say good-bye, first kiss on him the cheek. Maybe when after a date, kiss him on the lips. Do something or he will just back off...pretty sad I think. Good luck and have fun! lol
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I had short hair for years. When I was younger, I had hair to be my butt. I grew out my hair past my shoulders, above my boobs. For some reason when my hair is dirty or when it's not [sometimes] my neck gets itchy.. like a rash. is there something wrong with me? my hair? i got this when i was younger, but only when i was sleeping .. i always pushed my hair back off my neck.
Is it because I haven't washed my hair or is it something else? Help? (link)
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If it just normally happens when it's dirty then your dirty hair just irritates your skin. So make sure you wash it and keep it clean.
If it happens while it's clean, you might be allergic to either your shampoo, conditioner, or other hair care products.
With me, if I get sweaty, the back of my neck where my hair is starts to bother me. But you didn't say anything about that so it's most likely one of the first two.
What you can (to see if it's the first one) is always keep your hair clean and washed. If after doing this for a while your hair doesn't bother you any more, then that's your problem.
IF you find that it still gives you a rash you need to test your haircare products. Switch out each thing you use, one item at a time. It'll take a while but this is really the only way to find out what it can be.
You can go to your doctor and ask him, but he might just tell you to do the samething.
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I use tampons and my mum knows. But i just read a question and they were goin on about not using a tampon because they havent lost their virginity yet. I lost mine at 13(please dont judge)...but my mum doesnt know that. Would she know i have lost it because i can use a tampon :-S ?? (link)
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No, many virgins use tampons. Pads are just uncomfortable.
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What's the best razor for girls? I really hate having stubble...
I've tried Venus (teal, pink), Venus Vibrance, Venus Breeze, and Daisy. I would prefer shaving to other hair removal methods. (link)
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The brand doesn't matter all that much, really. Most new razors are just as sharp as the rest. But of course, the more blades you have, the closer shave you'll get. You may want to try Schick Quattro, only because it had more blades.
But then again, your hair just might grow fast and there isn't much you can do about that other than shave more often. Or, get waxed and you won't have to touch your legs for a month or so. I know you said you prefer shaving, but it's just something to think about because a razor can only go so far.
Make sure you moisturize after shaving as well.
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